How you know a dancer is having a slow day

Some of these girls are really moody.

I would say that what they most need is just to be fucked. But that is just a standard male response, and this still does not mean that they will be easy to deal with.

I have seen that some of them are so difficult that the management eventually just runs them out.

And don't assume that a busier day will yield any improvement with them.

SJG

LOL! Got one like that a few weeks ago from a girl I hadn't seen in over a year. Her skills were only so-so, and I never contacted her again, and she hasn't been in a club that I know of either. So almost a year after our encounter, I get "i rly enjoyed seeing you. cant wait to do it again."

Yes, spelled just like that. :)

Yeah, there’s definitely a possibility that she sent the text to the wrong guy too.

She was REALLY pissed at me before. Lol

Yeah I would just assume she sent the text to the wrong person in her list of 50 or so 'customers of her's at one time'.

I think the robotexting is more common than we realize.

Also, trying to put someone on the defensive by expecting that they “explain themselves” seems to happen at times too. It may seem odd in that it’s the opposite of showing charm but it can be a deliberate manipulative tactic in general and it might be used in the club biz at times.

Front Room Makeout Session, she relaxes and lets that happen. Otherwise, no reason to deal with her.

SJG

I don't necessarily think she texted the wrong guy - many of these girls have no shame (one would think it's kinda needed to do this type of work; i.e. I think many of these girls have to put their morals to the side to do what they do) - and for many of these girls drama/fights/arguments are part of their normal lives; so getting into a fight/argument and then acting like nothing happened is often part-for-the-course in stripperville.

@Huntsman - actually hadnt thought of that. Definitely a possibility. She’s popular enough at the club that she could have a list of that many customers

@Papi - like I said she’s known to be temperamental with an on/off switch. But she did send a follow-up saying the text was no mistake. Lol, we’ll see....

If you’re getting a text which you feel is a stupid question, then I say go ahead and give a stupid answer. For example, you could claim you really had to take a long shit or something.

I give stupid answers all the time when customers ask dumb things like what kind of car do I drive, or what’s my real name, etc 😈

What kind of car do you drive Debbie?

Lol

My response would totally depend on how hot she is, what we my other options were and how horny I was

Knowing the lady in question, she has a reputation for being almost bi-polar. Some days you come in and piss her off by breathing and some days you get treated like she couldn't live without you. Those days when she can't live without you (or perhaps your wallet) are worth every minute of her anger. She is hot in a slutty bitch kind of way and she is skilled!

What's the saying, "The juice is worth the squeeze!"

-->"Also, trying to put someone on the defensive by expecting that they “explain themselves” seems to happen at times too. It may seem odd in that it’s the opposite of showing charm but it can be a deliberate manipulative tactic in general and it might be used in the club biz at times."

Strongly agree Huntsman. Hell, look at in general how many guys switch clubs rather than risk running into a CF whom they've dropped -- intimidation is a proven good tactic. Get the customer on the defensive, make him want to prove he's not a bad guy or get him worried that he's risking some kind of confrontation, many SC customers will fall in line, I'd bet

How I know she is having a slow day? She looks bored

Then she asks for a ride in the shit truck

New phone who dis?

Thank God the stripper I'm seeing only texts me to send memes or to check on me

When they leave work early.

Cadillac Lounge about 3 years ago. I'm sitting at the bar with my new(ish) CF at CL. We're about to go into the back. I'm finishing my drink. She's finishing "clearing the notifications from her phone."

I get a text message that reads "Get with you after this guy. Going to cut his time short."

I looked at my CF, held up my phone, and said "Why don't you get with whoever this guy is now. I'm suddenly in the mood for someone different."

To her credit, she didn't even try to talk her way out of it.

It's a delicate juggling act that dancers take part in every day that we work, and sometimes off the clock as well (if we're in touch on our off days.)

Time management can be difficult... there's no perfect formula for us to know who to devote our time to, and while we're typically available to the highest bidder, we also have to take things like frequency and reliability into account.

And let's face it, strippers aren't typically at the top of the priority list, so when life gets in the way, we're bumped off the list entirely. All this to say, the purpose of any business is to make money, so on a slow day, we'll definitely try to drum up business. Like all human beings, sometimes we get it right... and sometimes we don't. But we're trying our best...🌞

Lol. I have only responded to one stripper text and I have never even seen her strip. Met up with her and had a good time. Haven’t really met up with any since then that I really thought would be fun to hang out with OTC.