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12 years ago
What I really think of you regarding your thread is too awful to put in writing so Ill just say that if you say you love her and she's got it all, you lied to her about your strip club activity, and did I mention you said you really love her but dont think you can give up the strip club for her....oh wait, and you get on a website hoping someone will tell you that she should just accept you anyways????? I hope she realizes quick that she needs to run screaming down the street naked before committing anymore of her life to you.
Keep going to strip clubs and ruining good things in your life but please send her packing first. She'll realize in time that you did her a favor and she'll move on to a much better man than you.
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12 years ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
Stealing from someones house when they invite you over is unacceptable. If you were upset, you should bring it up to her when she wakes up. If you guys have some type of discrepancy in the club, talk to the manager before paying. If you have OTC, have an agreed upon price which you pay willingly, then steal money out of her drawer, thats theft.
I really hope she doesn't notice or she isnt anything like me. If you stole from my home and showed your face in the club again, it'd be the last time.
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12 years ago
Clubber- When can you get here? Lol
Dougster- Oh, Ill give the BJ!! Ill just be "bitching" and complaining the whole time.
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12 years ago
@govikings- yes, alot of customers give me their numbers. I usually respond by saying "What would you like me to do with this?"
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12 years ago
For the Tuscl record, I do not have sex with customers for money or gifts. I dont suck dicks either. I dont even like doing that in my personal life. It makes my jaw tense for the rest of the day. Whatever. No sex for customers. I leave that for my personal life and a special guy would have to take alot of time and energy trying to be my boyfriend before I had sex with him. Even then, hes got a long road ahead.
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12 years ago
Alucard and Superdude make good points. I will say that Dougster does make a decent point and also one that i see everytime I'm in the club, either home or away. If a girl has got a good product AND has what it takes to be a good earner, theres not alot to teach. There will always be girls who squeeze by on a few good customers but to attract the masses and overcome most rejections, you need to have a natural "something". Yes, you do need a little help starting out and some good pointers but after that you either make it or go broke
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12 years ago
Headsmasher-Yikes! No mother in your life to teach you right from wrong I guess. Good luck with that.
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12 years ago
African, you are so weird.
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12 years ago
Calling someone a "bitch" or a "whore" is in bad taste. I look down upon people that do so. I will say that if someone were to walk up to me and call me a "whore", I would laugh my ass off. If someone walked up to me and called me a "bitch ", it would offend me.
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12 years ago
@Dougster- I stand by what i said. It is the gray area that kills you
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12 years ago
Id also like to add that "most "dancers approach dancing as a black, white, and gray business. They know they shouldnt but the pull is to strong. You have to fight it. Dancing is a black and white business. The gray area will kill you.
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12 years ago
Alucard always gives good advice. Luckyone also gave really good advice.
For the record, Im a stripper and I'm a pretty balanced and grounded person. Ive never failed at a relationship due to " crazy stripperness". It also hasnt been because of the club or anything that goes on there.
I started dancing after i finished college and had a good job. I worked my regular job during the day and moonlighted as a dancer at night. I played life by the rules and had done everything I was supposed to. I was bored and wanted extra cash to save. Then i realized how good the money was in dancing and i quit my regular job. Ive never regretted it. Ive always been good with my money and I follow strict rules in the club:
#1- Dont fuck around at work- If its not business, its not happening. Meaning I do nothing for free. It blurs the lines.
#2- Dont make friends with the other girls- One or two who share your ideals is fine but thats it. If you make friends with other girls, you will get into tiffs with them and it will affect your work plus they are bad influences.
#3- Dont have sex with strip club workers AND dont make friends with them- I learned the hard way.
#4- Put half your money away in savings
#5- Dont get distracted and keep it moving- If there isnt money, move along. If you want to drag your ass, do it when youre off work.
#6- Dont do anything for free- It blurs the lines!!!
Everything i just listed helps keep a girls head on straight. Thats it. When you start doing stuff inside the club that you would do outside, your two lives blur together and over time, It'll ruin you.
Ranukam- Find someone that cares about her business and is all about it. That may mean she'll blow you off if you try and approach her about dating but its worth a try.
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12 years ago
Pick wisely and you should be fine.
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12 years ago
Ive dated one bouncer. It didnt work. That was it.
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12 years ago
@Govikings- If you were in my area, i would cut you a tuscl member deal :)
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12 years ago
Govikings, dont take it personal. Its a little hard to explain but some girls dont think its worth the effort to do the club's bottom price dance, especially if they are fairly established.
In my own experience, i will do a bottom price dance, which is $20 in my hometown, for a nice guy. If he proves to be difficult, i cant dance for him anymore. The $20 isnt enough compensation for the grief. Yes, the whole point of going to work is to make money. If i feel, though, that the person wants too much for the money, hes either got to pay more or find another girl.
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12 years ago
If hes already bringing girls home, why do you care what goes on in the VIP? I think youre a little beyond that now.
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12 years ago
Is that you African?
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12 years ago
I think i will stick around. I think ive stayed around awhile as it is because i express myself on this site as myself. A person who has experiences as a dancer and who is a dancer by night. I dont write on here for business purposes. Im not trying to flirt, schmooze, recruit, or tell people crap that i think will turn them on. I do enough of that elsewhere.
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12 years ago
@steve229- i was actually going to leave it that way but it looked so dumb i had to fix it
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12 years ago
As i was saying, sex in the club is different because its her job. Get into the habit of mixing business with pleasure and you get into trouble. Explaining why woyld take a whole page. Even though it seems that the car repair would be business, its not
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12 years ago
I agree with Alucard. Sex
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12 years ago
From a dancers point if view, I have no problem seeing why a dancer might be upset about people posting reviews. It has nothing to do with psychological soundness, it has to do with the fact that you learn very early in the job that customers aren't truthful. The chances that a review is truthful, in our opinion, is small. Women hate crap being written about them unless its very flattering. Reviews aren't always flattering or truthful so usually they aren't welcome. I've had two reviews written about me where I was mentioned by name and even though they were flattering, I don't need reviews to help my business.
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12 years ago
Oh shit!
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12 years ago
Digitech- you hit on something important. The 32,34,36,38,40 does matter.