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12 years ago
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ilbbaicnlKeep it in my pants when I do OTC. If I were a stripper it would stand for I like big bucks and I can not lie.
Too many rules. I wouldn't work for that club
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12 years ago
Not everyone shows
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12 years ago
This is a bad idea all around. I've seen these grand ideas fail time and time again. I think the reasons are obvious. Consider yourself warned
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12 years ago
@ jester - women do cheat like men. Ive seen it time and time again amongst my friends, strippers and non strippers. I also think women are more sly about it than men.
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12 years ago
@tiredtraveler- There is much more to the situation then an affair. No doubt.
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12 years ago
@otto- I understand your position. I was advocating commitment and more importantly trust, meaning disclosing information to your spouse and not having sex behind their back. I would imagine it would cause alot of pain to a wife to hear her husband has been unfaithful behind her back. No one deserves that, especially someone your still in love with.
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12 years ago
Hehe. Cant they just take it and measure the temperature? I had no idea there were instances where someone had to stand there and watch.
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12 years ago
Latinlover- I've never had sex with a customer so I dont know how you interpreted that. Immorally, in my eyes, could mean touching a boob. Inside or outside the club, I have never engaged in vaginal, anal, or oral sex. So, actually, yes, I will stay on that pedestal.
If you'd like to keep deflecting the fact that you think its okay to go outside your marriage because " youre a man"....well Im sorry for you. But where would I have gotten that idea dear. Silly me!!
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12 years ago
Marriage is black and white when it comes to being unfaithful behind your spouses back. You made the commitment. If you don't find it easy to get out, then I'm sorry, but that doesnt excuse you from your vows.
And I can stand on a pedestal because I've never cheated on anyone, be it my spouse or ex boyfriends. Anytime I have acted "immorally" Lol in the club, it has been disclosed, by me, immediately. And anytime I've met anyone outside the club, I have had a prior discussion with my significant other about it.
I'd walk through fire before I intentionally hurt or mislead someone I cared about. And if I'm in a relationship with someone, whether I'm still in love with them or not, I made a commitment to that person and they are still owed respect.
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12 years ago
I agree with Alucard. It doesnt matter who finds it hard to be monogamous. You decided to get married. Thats a serious commitment. If you feel the need to "do things" Behind Your Spouses Back, then maybe you're not cut out for that type of commitment and you should just get out before you hurt somebody
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12 years ago
Good point jerikson
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12 years ago
I agree with a few things in the post and disagree with a few points also.
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12 years ago
Its usually a wig, not their real hair so there's not alot of true dying going on. This doesnt just go for black girls. There is an abundance of wigs on girls of all ethnicity in the clubs. Some look very real and I have been surprised more than once
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12 years ago
They are all in very good shape. I wouldnt want ti be quite that muscular though......or tan
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12 years ago
Disturbing and despicable
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12 years ago
@Estafador- I have no clue. I dont even know what a handjob even feels like. I had tons of return customers which leads me to believe that my customers wanted to get off and have that physical interaction without going into the "sex" category, where they might feel they are "actually" cheating or pushing the limits too much.
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12 years ago
@Dougster- I will happily admit that I gave some handjobs some few years back working for TW. I made good money doing them as I made good money just sitting and talking with someone sometimes.
If, in your post, you are implying that I've had vaginal intercourse or had someones penis in my mouth for money, that is completely false. There was absolutely no need for me to engage in that type of behavior with a stranger to make money and I'm quite offended by your post.
@jester- Youre right. Totally uninterested unless it would be for my few really good regulars. And I definitely would draw the line at sex. Its honestly not something I'm comfortable doing.
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12 years ago
@howdy- I would completely agree with you
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12 years ago
@howdy- weak position if you are already in the room with her escort outside.
I can see that "you" would never see yourself in any weak positions though by your post so........thats wonderful.
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12 years ago
Yes, $400 is low. Not everyone feels that way though, which is why I didnt advise OP to go up in price.
And Dougster, you are correct, i will charge you $2000 and dress you on a hazmat suit and convince you youre getting the deal of the century.........and then I still won't have sex with you. :)
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12 years ago
I posted before I was done.
Anyways, there is another side. The driver is getting paid. Some guys really value their role as driver and appreciate the steady tips. They arent going to fuck you up unless you physically abuse the dancer or stiff her. If she has set a time limit with you and she goes over, she may have to call downstairs because he might think shes hurt and come up.
Most importantly, pay attention to your door. Lock it when she comes in and keep an eye on it because she may unlock it when you arent looking. Thats probably a bad sign
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12 years ago
@Rod- Thats a hard one to answer. If youve successfully had OTC numerous times with a particular dancer, it might be okay to request she not bring anyone. It might save her some money afterall since she has to pay him to accompany her.
If its your first time and you say no driver, she might think you want to cut off her skin and wear it to your birthday( sorry, I love the movie "Blades of Glory"). Anyways, its hard to tell. I can understand the customer pov. You cant trust the dancer and especially the driver completely. Youre in a weak position and worried about getting robbed.
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12 years ago
Shes definitely not interested. It is possible that she only has sex when shes in love. I do. $180 is a low offer but so is $400. Im not advising you offer more though. You should be able to find someone in your desired price range
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12 years ago
Ah yes, the driver. I dont blame girls for bringing escorts. Its dangerous meeting a man, sometimes strange man, by yourself. You can never be too careful
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12 years ago
I would think a spouse would be a more fulfilling relationship. Im coming from a different side of things though.