"driver"
HowdyPilgrims
I'm wondering if I'm the only guy like this or what other people do. I'm talking about you've set up OTC with a stripper, and she shows up with some goon driving her. What do you do? Do you go forward with the OTC or do you cancel?
The reason I ask is I just moved to a new house. About the last 5-6 weeks in my former place, I set up OTC for the girls to come there. I didn't really care if they knew where I lived cuz I was about to not live there anymore. So it all went smoothly, with a handful of girls and then this one shows up in my driveway with a big fucking black guy who looked all gangsta and mad at the world. As soon as they pulled in I phoned her and said deals off, go away. When I set up OTC I try to pick girls who don't seem like they have pimps. Its hard to tell sometimes though. So when we negotiate the service I always include I don't want to see any pimp or "drivers". If its a large hotel, no prob, the guy can wait outside but if its a small hotel or a home, its a problem having a pimpmobile complete with pimp sitting on the curb or in the drive for all to see. Not to mention the guy might be up to no good, force his way in while you are distracted etc.
Anyway, what do you guys think? If a girl showed up with a pimp or "driver", would you still go through with it? Does it make you nervous? Do you include "come alone" in your OTC negotiations?
The reason I ask is I just moved to a new house. About the last 5-6 weeks in my former place, I set up OTC for the girls to come there. I didn't really care if they knew where I lived cuz I was about to not live there anymore. So it all went smoothly, with a handful of girls and then this one shows up in my driveway with a big fucking black guy who looked all gangsta and mad at the world. As soon as they pulled in I phoned her and said deals off, go away. When I set up OTC I try to pick girls who don't seem like they have pimps. Its hard to tell sometimes though. So when we negotiate the service I always include I don't want to see any pimp or "drivers". If its a large hotel, no prob, the guy can wait outside but if its a small hotel or a home, its a problem having a pimpmobile complete with pimp sitting on the curb or in the drive for all to see. Not to mention the guy might be up to no good, force his way in while you are distracted etc.
Anyway, what do you guys think? If a girl showed up with a pimp or "driver", would you still go through with it? Does it make you nervous? Do you include "come alone" in your OTC negotiations?
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I damn sure don't want any of them coming to my home. Only one has ever gotten that privelege and she was more than just a stripper.
It really isn't that different than the precautions people suggest when doing online dating with a new person.
So if a man is discussion OTC with a dancer, should he just stipulate no driver is allowed, and possible lose the OTC opportunity? Or is there a another option I'm maybe missing? Curious what you think - thanks...
That is why all my escort assignations are to a hotel. I would never have an escort do outcall to my house. Besides, I live in the country - it would be impossible to find an escort willing to make the journey from the city to my place. Her driver could never find my place anyway.
If its your first time and you say no driver, she might think you want to cut off her skin and wear it to your birthday( sorry, I love the movie "Blades of Glory"). Anyways, its hard to tell. I can understand the customer pov. You cant trust the dancer and especially the driver completely. Youre in a weak position and worried about getting robbed.
Anyways, there is another side. The driver is getting paid. Some guys really value their role as driver and appreciate the steady tips. They arent going to fuck you up unless you physically abuse the dancer or stiff her. If she has set a time limit with you and she goes over, she may have to call downstairs because he might think shes hurt and come up.
Most importantly, pay attention to your door. Lock it when she comes in and keep an eye on it because she may unlock it when you arent looking. Thats probably a bad sign
I also don't use escorts. I only do OTC with strippers because I can somewhat sample the goods before "buying". I explained to them they would be coming to my home and therefore I didn't want to see any goons. Like I said, if it made them uncomfortable I would have gladly moved on. For the record though, I propositioned eight girls, and not one had a problem with me saying no drivers. They didn't even looked phased by it, and I was watching. Only the one broke the agreement.
I had a unique window of time to do this. It was limited to them coming to my home only. I don't make the no driver stipulation if its at a hotel because there is far less risk there for me. I'm in my new home now and there won't be any p2p going on here. So..it was just a case study I guess. But I'm sure there are some guys on here who do bring them to their home regularly so thats why I started this thread about bringing strippers home, not escorts(and I know some are both). I'm sure these guys all have their own methods for security, of which I'm interested.
"A chicken in every pot and a cap in every ass". You guys should always have a pistol underneath your bed. We gangstas just might rob you if you look rich lol
I can see that "you" would never see yourself in any weak positions though by your post so........thats wonderful.