"driver"

25 comments

• mrrock

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  12 years ago

  I would NEVER do OTC at my house. Best is a hotel. Yeah best to agree before to have nobody with them. If they bring someone though and you didn't negotiate that just tell them they gotta go or it's off.
• shadowcat

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  12 years ago

  I had one tell me that she had lost her drivers license for 5 years due to DUIs(I knew this to be true) and would have to have "a friend" drive her. I got around that by offering to pick her up. I damn sure don't want any of them coming to my home. Only one has ever gotten that privelege and she was more than just a stripper.
• gatorfan

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  12 years ago

  She is an Escort posing as a stripper. Escorts have drivers in case of problems like pimps.
• Club_Goer_Seattle

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  12 years ago

  A male accompanying a stripper to your OTC can be unsettling, to say the least. I do nearly all my OTC's at my house. I've never had a problem with dancers knowing where I live. (That also has provided some fringe benefits.) I get to know them well, long before I invite them for OTC. One thing I make sure I find out before I extend the invitation is if they have a car. If they don't, I don't invite them. I've had lesser problems with dancers that have to get a ride from someone else. If it's a cab, they asked me to pay for the cab. If it's a friend driving them, I usually got shorted on the agreed amount of time, because the friend is in need of getting to work or another committment. Fortunately, I've never had a male accompany a dancer to my house as you described. I make sure they can drive themselves, alone, to my house.
• Alucard

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  12 years ago

  NEVER EVER allow any Sex Worker in under that circumstance.
• inno123

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  12 years ago

  I agree that a dancer with a driver is actually an outcall escort who doubles as a dancer. It is peculiar if they come to your door though. The usual routine is that the driver brings the escort to the location, the escort phones or texts the driver if all is OK, and if the escort does not text the driver again in a specified period or leaves without texting the driver they know something is wrong. It really isn't that different than the precautions people suggest when doing online dating with a new person.
• Dougster

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  12 years ago

  Only happened once to me. Creepy as fuck! Didn't call her again.
• txtittyfan

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  12 years ago

  You need to find better strippers for OTC. Why deal with the trash?
• lopaw

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  12 years ago

  I've never had that happen, but then again I have never had an OTC experience at my house. I suspect that my wife might have a problem with it.
• Stiletto25

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  12 years ago

  Ah yes, the driver. I dont blame girls for bringing escorts. Its dangerous meeting a man, sometimes strange man, by yourself. You can never be too careful
• Rod8432

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  12 years ago

  Stiletto - I'd be interested in what you'd recommend? I can see a woman's point of view about wanting the protection (explicit or simply implied) of a driver. But I can also see a man's point of view about wanting safety from intimidation and potential robbery in the other direction. So if a man is discussion OTC with a dancer, should he just stipulate no driver is allowed, and possible lose the OTC opportunity? Or is there a another option I'm maybe missing? Curious what you think - thanks...
• farmerart

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  12 years ago

  IME if you are using escorts a driver or security guy is almost always part of the package until you have a favoured relationship with the escort (but who the hell does some sort of ATF gig with an escort?) That is why all my escort assignations are to a hotel. I would never have an escort do outcall to my house. Besides, I live in the country - it would be impossible to find an escort willing to make the journey from the city to my place. Her driver could never find my place anyway.
• gatorfan

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  12 years ago

  Remember lying thieving whore
• motorhead

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  12 years ago

  Dick Trickle drives my escorts
• JuiceBox69

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  12 years ago

  It's a mothafucka P.I.M.P. like juicy j bitch !!!!
• Stiletto25

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  12 years ago

  @Rod- Thats a hard one to answer. If youve successfully had OTC numerous times with a particular dancer, it might be okay to request she not bring anyone. It might save her some money afterall since she has to pay him to accompany her. If its your first time and you say no driver, she might think you want to cut off her skin and wear it to your birthday( sorry, I love the movie "Blades of Glory"). Anyways, its hard to tell. I can understand the customer pov. You cant trust the dancer and especially the driver completely. Youre in a weak position and worried about getting robbed.
• Stiletto25

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  12 years ago

  I posted before I was done. Anyways, there is another side. The driver is getting paid. Some guys really value their role as driver and appreciate the steady tips. They arent going to fuck you up unless you physically abuse the dancer or stiff her. If she has set a time limit with you and she goes over, she may have to call downstairs because he might think shes hurt and come up. Most importantly, pay attention to your door. Lock it when she comes in and keep an eye on it because she may unlock it when you arent looking. Thats probably a bad sign
• HowdyPilgrims

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  12 years ago

  I disagree about the weak position. Its my money, my rules. If the girl is uncomfortable with it then that is fine, no hard feelings but I move on to the next girl. I also don't use escorts. I only do OTC with strippers because I can somewhat sample the goods before "buying". I explained to them they would be coming to my home and therefore I didn't want to see any goons. Like I said, if it made them uncomfortable I would have gladly moved on. For the record though, I propositioned eight girls, and not one had a problem with me saying no drivers. They didn't even looked phased by it, and I was watching. Only the one broke the agreement. I had a unique window of time to do this. It was limited to them coming to my home only. I don't make the no driver stipulation if its at a hotel because there is far less risk there for me. I'm in my new home now and there won't be any p2p going on here. So..it was just a case study I guess. But I'm sure there are some guys on here who do bring them to their home regularly so thats why I started this thread about bringing strippers home, not escorts(and I know some are both). I'm sure these guys all have their own methods for security, of which I'm interested.
• Estafador

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  12 years ago

  this is where peter griffin/herbert hoover's ol' saying comes to play "A chicken in every pot and a cap in every ass". You guys should always have a pistol underneath your bed. We gangstas just might rob you if you look rich lol
• Stiletto25

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  12 years ago

  @howdy- weak position if you are already in the room with her escort outside. I can see that "you" would never see yourself in any weak positions though by your post so........thats wonderful.
• HowdyPilgrims

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  12 years ago

  Stilleto, from your posts, I could say the same of you......thats wonderful. I guess in a club we probably wouldn't get very far in negotiating otc. Thats cool, I'd just bid you adieu and move on. No disrespect or anything intended there's plenty of fish in the sea for both sides.
• Estafador

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  12 years ago

  Wow, Howdy shoots for OTC on a forum. This man is sure as hell ballsy. First he tells a hoe to go away, very dangerous my friend. You should be thankful they did just that because these women want their money even you don't owe them shit and with the pimp to back them up...oh boy. Wasted gas and adventure. And now you're soliciting stiletto for for sex? I like this guy.
• Dougster

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  12 years ago

  How do you get he is "soliciting" her? Not seeing it. Quite the opposite actually.
• Stiletto25

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  12 years ago

  @howdy- I would completely agree with you
• JuiceBox69

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  12 years ago

  Na