Comments by Dolfan (page 3)

Diversity and English fluency in the south Florida clubs isn't great. There is some, but not a lot. Also, your dollars are with like 35% less here. If I were you, I'd look at the Toronto clubs. That is one of the few areas I still club in when traveling as a south Florida native.

I usually pay for the 15 minute room, but like Ski said at the clubs I frequent I'm usually given quite a bit of leeway and usually stay in there closer to 30 minutes. When I splurge for the 30 minute rooms, I get similar leeway but usually am done in less than 45. I don't track it carefully, but if I had to guess I'd say the average time is about 25 minutes. I absolutely can't get it done in the 3-song style rooms like DD in Pompano, I don't even bother with those anymore. 15 minutes can be enough, or enough for me to know I want to see that girl again at least.

Dade & Palm Beach are significantly more expensive than Broward. Please note that my experience in that part of Miami is a little old as some of these clubs I haven't been to in a year or so. As noted, Cheetah did recently get in a bit of trouble. I don't know much but I wouldn't be surprised if the effect lingered for some time as that location has a history of trouble with LE on that front. I'd consider Gold Rush & Deans Gold, both have been pretty consistent over recent years as less touristy and less rob-filled than Tootsies. They're both upper end cost wise, maybe not 4 figures but 700 or so all in wouldn't surprise me at all. Bellas and Playmates further south are both a few notches down in terms of glamor and overall dancer hotness. But, both clubs often have two or three hotties around that are available closer to 500 ish range prices. The hustle factor is not as high as Tootsies, but its much higher than the Pompano clubs. I'd stay away from the southern Booby Trap affiliates, including Klub 24. They are more show than substance in my opinion. There are a bunch I'm not mentioning, either because I think they're outside what you're looking for, like E11ven and Scarletts, or because it's just been too long since I've been there to make any judgements.

I don't think like that. I'm quite content to get dances or more from strippers in relationships. I don't go into strip clubs looking to engage in romantic relationships with the girls, I go in for physical relationships. Realistically, if you're dreaming of getting entwined into a relationship with a stripper I don't think her having a SO or not will play a significant factor. In either case, unless she's a terrible stripper, she's involved with many other guys just like you in the club. Adding one more guy she's involved with outside the club doesn't really change the odds much. They're very low in either case. If you want to continue with the same fantasy, I can tell you that I've had a few strippers get dumped and kicked out by their boyfriends who've come and stayed here for a while. Some level of romantic intertwinement occurred in those cases, I put forth very little effort as it wasn't something I wanted, but who knows, had I tried it's possible something could have happened.

I do a bit of everything. I don't plan significantly in advance, but often the day before or at least the morning of. I like having a fave, I find the rapport results in a better experience. I'm also usually angling for OTC, so again the rapport goes a long way. I'll often make plans to see her at the club, mostly around the time she plans to arrive. Or I'll get her to come in early to see me. But strippers come and go, and I sometimes wonder if the grass is greener or simply want a little something new. Unplanned visits are a good way to meet someone new. I find its always good to have a new girl or two on the radar as potential new faves. And a few times my old fave had been gradually lulling me into accepting substandard service and a fresh face helps me see it. I sometimes go spur of the moment regardless of my desire to see a favorite stripper or not. If I'm driving near the club and there is traffic, I'll stop in. Or maybe a meeting will get rescheduled and I'll decide it's a good time to go see some titties instead. Often times I'll go watch a game with a couple of buddies, and one of them will suggest hitting up a strip club. Sometimes it's quasi planned, like this week I'm going to an area with a club I'd like to check out. I don't know exactly when, but I'm sure while I'm there I'll check out a shift or two.

Much better look in the gwm link, I'd sure as shit not kick her out of bed. I feel like those tits are gonna look horrid when that top comes off though, which might keep me from pursuing her at the strip club. And agree that the gwm video is a much better look with less aggressive makeup and less excessive lip filler.

Not really. Sure, I've had a fave quit or otherwise disappear and had a brief period where the next one wasn't as good. But it never lasts more than a week or two. The clubs themselves tend to evolve over time too, they'll change policies or prices either on their own or in response to local laws or changes in enforcement. But so far at least, it seems another club is able to take its place. I had a lot of fun at the old Tootsies, when it was a tiny joint in a strip mall. I suppose I have some nostalgia for those times, but by the time I hit add comment on this post it'll probably have faded.

I'm not an OF subscriber. I've known 2-3 girls who do the webcam/OF thing successfully and more than I can count who have dabbled and given up. In my experience, girls who I like in person don't have the personality types to be successful on OF and vice versa. As grrl said, they're not the same. I don't have any suggestions, but its because I'm not interested in it. If I knew a stripper who was doing OF that I thought was good, I'd happily recommend her. It's kinda petty to try to keep her to yourself or whatever by not sharing her info. And like I said, odds of a girl being good in real life and on OF are slim so its unlikely I'll face that dilemma. As far as who buys it, what I learned from the girls who were successful was that their best customers were much less interested in the porn aspect of it and much more interested in the interaction. The messaging feature was far and away what they paid for. They wanted her to ask him about his day, tell him about hers. They had notebooks with notes on customers and would ask about wives and kids and shit. The second biggest spenders were guys who wanted them to do specific things because they ask them to. Silly shit like write "Property of customername" in lipstick above their ass or pussy and make a video. They also said there was a lot of overlap of guys who wanted to video chat and either just talk or give orders and watch them get followed. I don't know if their experience is representative of the market at large, but their explanation sorta makes sense.

Thanks for the review. Your experience lines up with mine, which I've repeated several times.

Not terribly surprised to hear this, as mentioned, they had been shut down for that in the past and I thought they were getting a bit bold with the 3-4-100 room.

I'd let her show me how to make a bank shot. If you know what I mean. She's cute. I wouldn't be clammoring to get my mits on her in the club, but I'd almost certainly engage with her if she approached me.

I probably would have rejected it and told you to post it as a discussion or article. I'm all for a sliding scale, being pretty damn lax about approving reviews for clubs that don't get a lot of reviews. That said, a review of a club that's more than a year old isn't worth very much in any circumstances. Sure, I hear the argument that it adds as much value as the 19th review of a popular club saying the same thing, but I don't agree. A club with a lot of similar reviews provides value in that the reader can be highly confident that the content is accurate and typical of visits. A review of a club that is from more than a year old doesn't tell me much about what the club is like today, it tells me what it was like a year ago. That may or may not be accurate now. And it pushes down the most recent review, which likely has more up to date information. It makes me less confident about what the club is like. Is it a big deal? Fuck no. Do I feel like the posted cheated to get free VIP, not really. I probably would have approved it as a story-time style article which would have given him the same credit. And it's not like the VIP credit comes out of my pocket anyway. But in the spirit of answering the question, I don't think reviews more than a few months old are valid. As a rule of thumb, the only time I'd approve a review from a visit more than 3 months ago would be if the club hadn't had a review in longer than that time. You could probably extend that out to 6 months. After that, the review has zero value to me whatsoever.

That photo is clearly fake. It's not even close. But, yeah, she was hot and may still be. I didn't go looking for a recent photo.

I don't know that much about other areas. I know here, it's centralized around Miami and the further you go away from them there the lower the percentage of Cubans you see in a club. And when you do see them further away, they're generally more integrated. And to shadowcat's point, that's how it starts. But over time they start spreading out. Either a few will want to branch out, or a club will want to add some variety. Pretty much all our clubs have at least a few Cuban chicks at this point. Once they start americanizing, they start spreading out significantly more too.

hard to tell based on that video, but based on https://www.youtube.com/shorts/wsq7UGW5Qu0 I would for sure.

I prefer full nude, but honestly a full bar is a stronger preference. Luckily in my area, the majority of clubs are able to be full nude with full bar, with a few exceptions here and there.

I don't have a strong preference. I'm always fine with bald, it's probably the safest choice. Natural is alright things are naturally neat down there, but full on bush is not something I prefer. There's a niche for that though. If there's going to be hair, I prefer closely trimmed but in more of a natural shape. I don't know the proper terms for it, but pencil thin landing strips I find offputting, while shorter but wider styles are fine.

I don't know that I'd bring gifts into the strip club. I've bought shit for strippers I see OTC, but as stud says it feels like a sad tableau to walk into a strip club carrying a bouquet. Maybe I've just only seen it poorly executed, but the dudes I've seen doing that didn't make it look good. Worrying about Valentines day in October seems a little off too if I'm being honest. I'm all for advance planning, but 100 days is an eternity in stripper time. She might not even be a stripper in Feb.

If Solid Gold aligned their dance prices to BT/Cheetah/DD, odds are they'd take lots of business from all three. As it stands now, they're a little more expensive than the other clubs and deliver a sub-par experience. I stop in about the same frequency, every 6-9 months or so. I can't remember ever walking out of there thinking to myself "that was fun, I'm looking forward to coming back" it's always "why did I bother coming over here? To have a chance with an older, less attractive, less friendly chick who wants to charge me 30% more than the younger, hotter, friendlier chick at Cheetah?" So basically I guess what I'm saying is +1 to what PAWG_Patrol said too. Cheap + Crappy gets is easily forgiven, Expensive + Crappy much less so.

I can't recall leaving the house in sweats as an adult. And I don't wear athletic shorts aside from when I'm engaging in athletic activities, which is to say not that often. But I do wear board shorts often, which probably are equally as offensive to her, so I am probably on her no-fly list. That's fine with me, I actually agree with her that I'd prefer there be some clubs around with dress codes that suit her needs. Then, all the dancers who feel like her can go work there and all the customers who like those girls can patronize that club. I'll stick to my less pretentious club with girls are more comfortable with the activities I prefer. You're in south Florida I think, there's plenty of clubs she can work at where she won't have that problem. I can think of half a dozen or more clubs where she's not gonna find guys wearing that shit. I've never seen her, but I'm guessing she's not hot enough to get hired at those clubs on prime shifts. So she's left to troll the bottom tier clubs, rotating from club to club to avoid getting a reputation for being a girl who does the least.

Just to pile on, the answer in my opinion is very much that you have to read not only the room but the specific dancer. Some places are very conservative and something as small as tapping the ladies thigh before placing a few bucks in her hand could cause a fuss. Other places I've seen guys literally licking pussy on stage while no one bats an eye. It's not always consistent at clubs in a single area, nor is it consistent between girls at the same club. I find it's also a bad indicator of future friendliness. Many girls demeanor during stage tipping does not align to their behavior in a room. You can spot germaphobes, excessive entitlement, and some other problematic traits, but a girl who is relatively highly interactive on stage compared to her peers isn't consistently high mileage during dances. Often times those girls do exactly the same stuff during private dances that they did on stage. And often times the reserved girls on stage are wild in a room. One thing I think is consistent is that generally, most people tip while they touch. Some people take it to the extreme and grab ass with a dollar between their hand and the ass. But even for those who don't take it quite that literally, usually the tipping and the touching occur within seconds of each other. Personally, I'm not looking for lots of mileage while stage tipping. I don't like when girls try to give me a Stevie or shove their assess or pussies in my face, I certainly do not want the feed bag treatment. When I'm tipping its usually because I want to ask her to join me when she gets down. So ideally she'll make eye contact and give me an opportunity to ask. I generally like to make a little physical contact too, maybe brush her thigh or pat her ass a little to see how her muscle and skin tone are. If you're looking for high mileage stage interactions, you should be aware people like me exist and our interactions don't represent the limits of what's possible at that club. You should probably be aware that there's also plenty of guys who push the limits too far and don't get thrown out, but the girls notice and steer clear.

Like 25 said, it depends on the nature of the situation. Most of the time it'll be B. But if for example it's a club sponsored party where the venue is picking up the tab, I'll up my tips a little. If it's a situation where I know the person paying is a big tipper, I may go with option d and tip a little more stingy. I often change my approach in those situations though. When I'm buying drinks at the bar, I tip for every drink since there is already an exchange of money. If I don't have to pay for each drink, I'll often toss the bartender $20 or something for my first drink and then not have to bother getting out my wallet the rest of the night. I think that change in approach isn't that uncommon, and I think it gives many the false impression that people aren't tipping.

There's a few around here. They don't really get better overall, but some of them will periodically get one or two strippers who are good enough to make up for the rest of the shittiness. And that's why I stop in from time to time. The interval really depends. It tend to be kinda decaying interval from when the last time I had a good experience, but it's also influenced by how well the other more reliable clubs are doing. For example, if I go into a club and stumble into a great stripper I might go back in a week or two. If she's not there again, It'll be a month or two before I go back. If I strike out again, it might be 6 months before I'm back. But if I had a good time again on that 2nd visit, I'd probably keep rolling the dice a 3rd or more consecutive weeks till I lost. I guess that really only applies to clubs with nearby nearby though. Other places that aren't great, but aren't within 5 minutes of reliable options, I don't bother with. And I guess it depends why they suck. I almost never go into the place nearby that scan's ID's, because I don't want my ID scanned. It'll take a management/ownership change for me to really consider going again. But I'll check out the place that just rarely has hot chicks from time to time, but doesn't have objectionable management policies.

That girl in the screenshot is way too big for my tastes. I wouldn't want to see her on stage at a strip club, and wouldn't buy dances for sure. I wouldn't call her obese, but clinically she might be. I'm guessing those thighs are probably largely fat, which would push her BMI over 30. Also: https://tuscl.net/discussion/85471

I've been in south Florida my whole life, I've been through many. Back as a teenager I was in a house that had the roof ripped off of it in Andrew. That shit was wild, I'd never seen anything like before and haven't since. We were literally sitting inside one minute, the next minute we were basically outside. Luckily, it wasn't my family house that was destroyed. I've had significant damage to commercial property I owned during several storms. Back in I think it was 2004, we had those 3 or 4 storms in a row, I had significant damage to the first residential investment properties I ever bought. Those turned out to be positives for me, as the houses were kinda shitholes basically held together with duct tape and construction glue. But insurance ended up covering a lot of the repairs I had planned to make anyway. More than the stories of damage, I remember the hurricane parties. We get all geared up and hunkered down, then when the storm comes it's fairly minor. We wind up in garages or on porches with friends or neighbors, drinking booze, talking shit. Often grilling out. We'd all usually play hooky from work and take an extra day off to "clean up debris" or "wait for the roads to be cleared" or some bullshit, which usually consisted of 2hrs of cleanup and 10hrs of time out on the boat. In recent years, some of those hurricane parties have included strippers, which always makes for an interesting time. I also remember the aftermath. After Andrew, looting was a serious issue. It started out with regular thieves just trying to take valuables. There were assholes driving around breaking into any house or business that wasn't destroyed. But we had no power, no phones, no gas or grocery stores were open. So it escalated into people scavenging for food and gas and that's when it got real. Cops weren't really around. I got into my first fight that wasn't just some childhood bullshit bickering. Damn near got shot, damn near shot other people. More recently, I have more pleasant memories of the aftermath. There was that storm that came through and flooded the shit out of the Fort Lauderdale area a few years ago. After that, I had a parade of strippers coming over for some time in the AC with a hot shower and a hot meal, followed by some hot sex. I don't remember if it was that same storm, or another one, but there was something that flooded large areas and took out power to a large area but somehow the old Pre-remodel Booby Trap still had power and was unscathed. They opened that motherfucker up while it was still blowing 45mph out there, and it was fucking packed full to the gills.