Should you buy a Valentine's Day gift or Rose for a stripper?

12 comments

• rattdog

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  a day ago

  a bag of ghiardelli's chocolate should be good enough.
• wallanon

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  a day ago

  I've bought flowers for two dancers out of many, many dancers. It's not super common, but not that uncommon. I've never given a dancer flowers at the club, because those things are destined for the trash unless you really are one of her favorite customers.
  
  Some clubs on special occasions like Valentine's Day will have a flower guy walking around. Like a hookah guy but with flowers. Easy enough then to buy a rose see how the dancer of your eye responds.
• FoCoChronic

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  a day ago

  I don’t think that’s weird at all. If they’re your ATFs, then I’m sure there’s some good rapport already established and they will appreciate it and know the place it’s coming from. It would only be overbearing or off putting if it was a dancer you didn’t know very well, I would think. Maybe get a little $5 or $10 vase so it stays safe at her locker/mirror while she’s on the floor. Despite women saying they love flowers, experience tells me they don’t really appreciate them all that much. I agree chocolates is a good idea too
• jaybud999

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  a day ago

  Probably not. You're just doing business in there.
• CJKent_band

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  a day ago

  Let your 🕷️ spider sense decide.
  
  I gifted my ATF one of those teddy bears with a rose and heart shaped box of chocolates and she was very very happy.
  
  One of the best investments to get her to accept that we move things OTC with GFE and PSE.
  
  Let’s just be careful out there.
• Studme53

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  a day ago

  A sad tableau
• FoCoChronic

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  a day ago

  Just because it’s business doesn’t mean you can’t have a good working relationship and enjoy your business partner as a human being. Strippers have customers they prefer, just like we all have professional relationships that we prefer over others. Giving a dancer flowers is no different than giving your realtor/lawyer/whomever a bottle of wine or whatever. It’s a gesture of good faith and an expression of gratitude
• georgmicrodong

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  a day ago

  I once bought my ATM a necklace with her kid's names on it. She loved it.
  
  Other than that, I don't remember anything.
• wld4tatas

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  a day ago

  If she's really your ATF then yes.
  
  One of my most treasured moments in this hobby was the first time I gave my ATF a gift. It was on Valentine's Day many years ago. I gave her a generous gift card for Victoria Secret. Let's just say at the time she was not working in an upscale place, and it's possible I was the first customer to ever get her a gift like this. The look and reaction of complete astonishment and joy from her was priceless.
• ilbbaicnl

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  20 hours ago

  Learn some origami, and fold a $100, or even a $20, into a rose/flower shape. 90+% chance she'll like that better. If it's too much bother, just give her the money, and say "Happy Valentine's Day!". It's risky to do things for them in a way that a friend or boyfriend would. It can stress them, get them worried if they need to start faking that you are more than a customer to them.
• Dolfan

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  11 hours ago

  I don't know that I'd bring gifts into the strip club. I've bought shit for strippers I see OTC, but as stud says it feels like a sad tableau to walk into a strip club carrying a bouquet. Maybe I've just only seen it poorly executed, but the dudes I've seen doing that didn't make it look good.
  
  Worrying about Valentines day in October seems a little off too if I'm being honest. I'm all for advance planning, but 100 days is an eternity in stripper time. She might not even be a stripper in Feb.
• etsutwigg222

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  11 hours ago

  I always make sure to give them a pearl necklace in every trip in.