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8 years ago
What an excruciating bore you can be, SJG!
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8 years ago
Most of the clubs that I go to with any regularity charge $20 for topless lap dances, generally with two-way contact. Exceptions include:
Silver Bullet, Urbana: $15 (but no titty-touching)
Hip Hugger, Kokomo: $10
Several clubs in Indiana have 2-for-$20 dances at certain times or on certain days:
6th Avenue Dancers, Terre Haute: daily (Tue-Sat) from 9 to 10
Night Moves, Bloomington: 3-6pm on Mon-Fri and all evening on Sun
Harem House, Babes, and Classy Chassy in Indy: all day Tue
Also, lappers are $12 between noon and 2 at Brad's Brass Flamingo in Indy.
I absolutely agree with Papi that I buy a *lot* more dances at $10 than I do at $20. I think both dancers and customers benefit from a lower price per dance. I would *never* pay more than $30 for a lap dance, and I've seldom paid $30.
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8 years ago
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san_jose_guymoney was invented for handing to women, but buying dances is a chump's game
I have only once with a stripper. On a Sunday afternoon date in her apartment a couple of months ago, my ATF's period had just started, so instead of our usual 69 she sucked my dick while I pleasured her with one of her many vibrators. An excellent time was had by all.
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8 years ago
Hmmm indeed, Longball! Great minds think alike :)
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8 years ago
I'm a big fan. I've posted pics of Emily on multiple occasions.
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8 years ago
I have gotten lappers from two, both at the Criket in Dearborn: hotstuff69babi (Lindsay) and keepitbreezy1 (whose dancer name I forget).
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8 years ago
Correction: *all* of the girls that I post pictures or videos of are exquisite :)
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8 years ago
"Bovine look" - LMAO
How about Asians with big natural breasts, Clubber? I'll keep my eyes open for you.
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8 years ago
As shailynn and Clubber have just demonstrated, people's tastes in women differ widely. In my defense, sometimes I post pictures of brunettes with oversized tits :) Examples: Abigail Ratchford, Emily Ratajkowski, Holly Peers, Lucy Pinder, . . . (I could go on and on).
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8 years ago
Club 390 in Chicago Heights is supposedly a nude club (billboards even proclaim "All the Liquor, None of the Clothes!", but in my experience most of the strippers keep their bottoms on when they're on stage. On a Thursday night a few months ago I would estimate that 2 out of 20 dancers removed their bottoms. One of them didn't the first time, but after a few lappers we had enough rapport that she did when I asked her to the next time she was on stage.
BTW, at both Club 390 and Jimmy's (also in Chicago Heights), topless lap dances are $20 and nude ones are $30. I almost always choose topless, no doubt to JS69's bewilderment. To me, *no* lap dance is worth 30 bucks!
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8 years ago
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GACAUn-retired: Met my ATF. Married her. Divorcing her.
I have a story along these lines. My ATF, B, took a couple of months off from dancing starting in mid-August and we immediately started seeing each other OTC. About a month later we agreed to meet at her club on a Saturday afternoon to hang out and do a VIP room. (Yeah, I know: I paid her rent for that month *and* paid for a VIP. I'm a PL.)
One of her dimmer colleagues saw us sitting together and put two and two together, saying "Hmm. . . Deuce is here for the first time in over a month. B is here for the first time in over a month. Deuce and B are sitting together. I'll bet Deuce and B are hooking up!"
Of course we both vehemently denied it, but she was spot on. A couple of days later, on our next date, B said "That stupid L thinks she has it all figured out!" I said "Sweetie . . . she *does* have it all figured out! All we can do is deny, deny, deny."
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8 years ago
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GACAUn-retired: Met my ATF. Married her. Divorcing her.
I certainly don't tell anyone at a club that I'm seeing a dancer OTC, and I know my ATF doesn't tell anyone, but I'm pretty sure that dancers in general talk too much to each other and know who's boinking whom. It has been said on this board before that being known as the guy who has seen Exxstacy OTC increases your chances of getting more OTC dates, because Exxstacy lived to tell the tale.
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8 years ago
What JS said. Checking into a hotel with a woman and showing ID have literally *never* been issues for me.
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8 years ago
I will restrict myself to the period since 1900, as I'm a little vague on the relative merits of such presidential luminaries as Tyler, Taylor, Fillmore, Pierce, Buchanan, A. Johnson, Grant, Hayes, etc.
My favorite Presidents since 1900: Coolidge and Reagan. (No one else is even close for us lovers of freedom and limited government.)
Most destructive Presidents since 1900: Wilson, FDR, Johnson, Carter, GW Bush, and Obama. (See, there's a Republican in there!)
America has just endured 16 years of the two Presidents who have done the most long-term damage to our nation's finances and foreign policy. We, and the world, will be paying for Bush's and Obama's egregious errors for decades.
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8 years ago
I'm going to vote for topless clubs, mainly because the vast majority of the 80+ clubs I've visited have been topless. At the moment the only nude clubs I can think of are XTC in Austin, Cowboys in Lexington, Hollywood Show Club in Washington Park, Skybox and Club O in Harvey, Club 390 in Chicago Heights, and Palace in the Pines in Lowellville, OH. There's much to be said for maintaining a bit of mystery. I'm *very* turned on by a beautiful stripper in a thong and high heels! Nudity in the VIP room or on an OTC date is, of course, a must.
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8 years ago
SJG, we don't always see eye to eye, but I want to thank you for bringing my attention to these issues. I will watch the YouTube videos that you posted and investigate the connections between ED, psychological stress, sugar, and caffeine. I certainly consume too much sugar and caffeine but am able and willing to cut way back. I'm also frequently under stress, but this is harder for me to fix. Thanks again!
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8 years ago
Yes, they is, TT. Yes, they is :)
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8 years ago
*Someone* has to comment on this thread -- so I will! Personally I *love* it when a woman's tits are big enough that you can see both of them from behind her. Hayley-Marie is thus endowed.
Come on, shadowcat -- call her a dairy queen!
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8 years ago
I have a similar problem at a club whose afternoon shift I frequented (at least until I started seeing one of the day girls OTC). The strippers there all [pretend to] like me, so they take turns sitting with me and tend to order $10-15 drinks. If I like the girl and expect to get dances or do a VIP with her, I don't mind. If I don't, I have learned to say "No, I would prefer to spend my money on dances". We grown-ass men have to learn not to be intimidated by a 20-some girl in a thong and a bra :)
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8 years ago
I'm not aware that I do, but I suspect that more do than don't on this board. It's an occupationall hazard of the extras-seeker, one would think :)
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8 years ago
I really appreciate all the comments so far. My story seems to have hit a nerve with many of you. I am already starting to lose weight (down about 15 lb in the last few weeks) and will start a walking regimen during my Christmas break. I don't have diabetes or high blood pressure, and my parents both lived to be 90+, but I'm sure my cardiac health isn't what it should be. I'm hoping to avoid prostate surgery and testosterone replacement and treat this as naturally as possible.
If SJG is to be believed, my erectile issues are solely attributable to my not being a social justice warrior and to being stuck in fuddy-duddy ways of thinking. Should I send money to Jill Stein's pointless recount efforts and join in the anti-Trump riots? Fuck that!
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8 years ago
I've done OTC a bunch of times this year with three different strippers. Because I'm staying overnight in their city anyway, I reserve the room and check in to set things up. If a girl did flake (so far it has never happened), I would probably visit a strip club and then return to the room alone -- I don't have the game to snag one right from the club.
After checking in, I pick her up, go to dinner, and adjourn to the room for the festivities. By the time I take her to my hotel, I already have a key card and use it to enter by some back door, not through the lobby. In the morning I check out in person, sometimes with her right next to me and other times she goes straight to my car. Others are correct in pointing out that *nobody* at the front desk cares about your marital status or just what activities you have engaged in .
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8 years ago
Most of my hundreds of lapgasms have occurred at low-contact clubs, where the customer can touch hips, waist, shoulders, back, etc. but "no titty, no kitty" (as the dancers at one of them so charmingly say). I do prefer clubs with more contact, and nowadays I tend to travel farther for clubs with extras, but over the long term, most of my SCOREs have *not* involved free roaming -- the grind has done the trick.
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8 years ago
Correction: I have a stash of Viagra, purchased from an online Indian source for about $1 per 250 mg pill. Most of the time I use a pill cutter to cut pills in half, so that my dosage is 125 mg. I do agree that one should take the minimum dosage to get the job done. I also agree that a Viagra-assisted erection doesn't feel quite natural and doesn't always end in ejaculation.
justme62, I sympathize completely. Several times this year I have been blown by a gorgeous stripper, in the VIP room or in bed, and have not gotten off despite getting it up. On my last overnight date in October with my ATF, who is a very skilled and tireless fellatrix, the BJ at bedtime went fine but the morning one, 11-12 hours later, ended without orgasm despite her dedicated efforts. (I should clarify that our morning session ended without orgasm on *my* part, but as a result of our customary 69 position she had several!) I actually enjoyed the experience and thanked her profusely for giving it the old college try, but I would never have guessed a year ago that a BBBJ wouldn't get me off.
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8 years ago
If you're married, keep the wedding ring on. Strippers don't care if you're married. Hell, some of them *prefer* married men!