Mr. Nice Guy in the strip clubs
larryfisherman
California
At this one club I go to, everyone knows me there, from the DJ, to the managers, to the owner, to the strippers etc. I'm there about twice a week.
I have a reputation of spending a lot of money there sometimes. I also have the reputation there of being Mr. Nice guy. Throughout my 3 or 4 hour stay, all the strippers will come and chat with me for awhile. As soon as one stripper sits by me, five seconds later a waitress is at our table asking if we want drinks. I think it's rude to not get the girl a drink when she's sitting with you, so I always buy the girl a drink, and sometimes the girls order expensive ass drinks. Of course this shit adds up, and my drink tab is always above $150. I'm not at the strip clubs to drink, and while money isn't a big thing for me, I don't like spending money on girls I have no interest in.
I'm thinking I need to stop being Mr. Nice Guy in some situations. Not all the girls that sit with me are my type, and I don't necessarily want them sitting with me, but me being too nice, I always let them sit with me. I'm thinking I need to tell some of them I just want to chill by myself for awhile, and when the waitress comes around, if she asks if I want to buy the girl a drink, I should just say NO sometimes.
Do any of you have this problem?
I have a reputation of spending a lot of money there sometimes. I also have the reputation there of being Mr. Nice guy. Throughout my 3 or 4 hour stay, all the strippers will come and chat with me for awhile. As soon as one stripper sits by me, five seconds later a waitress is at our table asking if we want drinks. I think it's rude to not get the girl a drink when she's sitting with you, so I always buy the girl a drink, and sometimes the girls order expensive ass drinks. Of course this shit adds up, and my drink tab is always above $150. I'm not at the strip clubs to drink, and while money isn't a big thing for me, I don't like spending money on girls I have no interest in.
I'm thinking I need to stop being Mr. Nice Guy in some situations. Not all the girls that sit with me are my type, and I don't necessarily want them sitting with me, but me being too nice, I always let them sit with me. I'm thinking I need to tell some of them I just want to chill by myself for awhile, and when the waitress comes around, if she asks if I want to buy the girl a drink, I should just say NO sometimes.
Do any of you have this problem?
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Nice guys (guppies) get taken advantage of in the club. The seasoned club girls (sharks) can smell blood a mile away...
Alcohol is peripheral.
SJG
If you make a habit of getting a drink / dance from another dancer in addition to your CF or favorite that night, the dancers will be more likely to see you as someone worth talking to and your CF might be less territorial. I expect that you would have a higher general approval rating in the club, too.
I wouldn't get drinks or dances from a dancer just becase she sat down, though. There has to be some value in her presence.
It depends on the club, though, since they vary between more social and more transactional. At a more transactional club, you might just confuse them about why you bought a drink without intending on going for a VIP session.