Was wondering if any of you ever experienced any issues with lodging staff when you're on your OTC sessions (suspicions, questions, etc.)? Moreover, do you have the room reserved or get it on the spot with the dancer there. Lastly, do you always go to the front desk and check out or just leave?
I've never done OTC without arranging it advance...but I used to fuck a g/f at a 4 hour no-tell motel. $40 and it was reasonably clean. They weren't born yesterday; why did they think I was there in the first place?
I cannot recall any issues with the staff of a hotel. I doubt I am the first old fart to bring a young hot woman in for some OTC.
I get the room first. If you show up and there is no room available it could end your session before it begins. Getting the room first also let's me setup. Valuables in the safe if I don't lave them in the car. Condoms easily accessible.
Most hotels have a drop box and I make use of that for checking out only because it is quicker
I think this is all a risk-balancing game: risk of spending $$$ on a room and her not showing up, vs risk of her showing up and no affordable rooms available. The risk of the first one -- her not showing up -- is FAR greater than the risk of the 2nd, especially in my city, where a mediocre-but-acceptable room might cost $170 (with tax), and it goes up from there, so I could easily be out $200+ if I get the room in advance. With more-reliable girls, I might get the room in advance and just have her come straight there. But 90% of the time, I:
- Use the internet or mobile app to find available rooms in the area I want...
- ... but, don't hit the purchase button until she texts me "I'm in the city". Not "I'm leaving in an hour" -- astoundingly, it turns out LOTS of things can happen in that hour before she leaves -- but "I'm in the city, crossing the bridge now, be there in 20" or whatever
- With really unreliable girls, we'll go to lunch or dinner first, and I'll get the room on Hotel Tonight (or whatever) during dinner
Okay, so, what if there are no available rooms, or no affordable available rooms? I always tell her IN ADVANCE, "if I can't find a room, we'll go to the hot tubs". I found some really nice hot tubs, they are not as nice as a room but they're nice enough and surprisingly clean, and only cost $40/hour. As long as you set her expectation in advance that that's a possibility, most girls are ok with it.
I like your thinking Subraman. Going at this OTC we mongers speak of, I'd get a room in hopes I'd arrange some OTC (I live ~90 minutes from SV city). While taking this approach I never did any OTC.
So then I started having things develop and would get the room in advance. This showed to be a waste too, because so far the few I've had have always flaked the first or second time. Only one followed through the first time.
Now I prefer to just get it on the spot. I'm 32 and in my opinion and from others I appear in my late 20s sometimes younger. So I'm close in age to most dancers. Haven't met any 18 - 21 yrs old yet. But these dancers dress all kinds of ways, especially if it's after her shift. Not to mention they may want to come in with their bags which clearly show their shit. It's just awkward checking-in in that respect because they may or may not have on makeup to go with the appearance.
Anyway, on the spot check-in has worked out just well aside from the awkwardness depending on how they are dressed. I had one try to play as my wife which threw me off guard, and made me suspicious of the clerk and what they were thinking.
So the check-in is what bothers me as how it looks. I guess it's my paranoia in general. And checking out after a couple of hours. However, recently will be my first time checking out without stopping by the front desk.
Always reserve in advance, and I often check in with the stripper next to me. Nobody cares. Never go to desk to check out unless there's an issue or need a receipt.
Only issue I've ever had was when the DS was smoking a blunt and our neighbors smelled it and called security.I talked my way out of it, but got a fine for smoking in the room.
Ch3ll not sure this will help your question but will do my best.
I'm usually on the road anyway so I am already in a hotel regardless. If it's on my dime I always use Priceline or Hotwire and book at least a 3.5 star hotel, never go below a 3 star. I often can snag a nice hotel for as low as $65 after tax and fees. Rarely pay more than $125 a night.
I am younger like you as well, and I usually let the dancer just come straight to my room, I've never had any issues. One thing to make sure is can she get to your room? For example many hotels restrict their elevators to key access only after a certain hour during the night. If that's the case I tell her to txt when she gets in the parking lot and I meet her at the front door.
I usually don't check out - just leave my key in the room, sometimes I accidentally take them with me and just throw them away.
As others have said, I've never have had an issue with it in the past.
The hotel staff could care less. It's just their job and you are paying for their wages by staying at their hotel so no one really cares one way or the other if you are bringing someone to the room for sex.
Never had an issue.
Even when getting a room less than 10 miles from my home. I don't think they care. The few I have known on a personal level do the same thing. :) So that hottie behind the counter my have her own room for good times.
Childhood memory. Had an Uncle and his wife visiting from far away. Some family thing Can't remember what. Dad and I went to pick them up. There was a list of rules on the back of the door. I can remember this one. "While the room is occupied by 2 unmarried adults of different sex this door is to remain open". Gotta love those bible thumping voyeurs.
I've done OTC a bunch of times this year with three different strippers. Because I'm staying overnight in their city anyway, I reserve the room and check in to set things up. If a girl did flake (so far it has never happened), I would probably visit a strip club and then return to the room alone -- I don't have the game to snag one right from the club.
After checking in, I pick her up, go to dinner, and adjourn to the room for the festivities. By the time I take her to my hotel, I already have a key card and use it to enter by some back door, not through the lobby. In the morning I check out in person, sometimes with her right next to me and other times she goes straight to my car. Others are correct in pointing out that *nobody* at the front desk cares about your marital status or just what activities you have engaged in .
I should add, I've checked in with the stripper right there, if she happened to be with me ... and also checked in without her, sometimes. It's never been an issue for me. However, I would note that escorts who use hotels do pretty consistently have stories about hotels whose front-desk staff are trained and responsible for trying to spot prostitution. Again, never happened to me, but something to note.
A regular chain hotel doesn't care either way. Sometimes I think the staff of a typical hotel would like to participate in the activities. During my recent stay at the hotel I stayed at when looking for my new residence, I got the one maid to BBBJCIM. Probably figured I wanted the company. It was fun while it lasted.
Your question was about lodging staff....so yes, I too try to stay at 3 star or above using online apps to sang. Downside is the front desk staff, attempting to provide good customer service, will ask friendly questions like "what brings you to the area"..."are you here on business or pleasure".... "have you stayed with us before"? I usually just smile and answer with short, polite answers that indicates that I appreciate their efforts but I'm too busy to chat. Always works.
There's a hotel I've used for some OTC sessions and being they are always at night I've seen the same guy at the desk each time. Three different dancers I've brought there. I sometimes wonder if he recognizes me or something. Nonetheless, I've gotten the vibe that he's "cool" so I try not to worry too much.
Rarely do I have an issue and never with the lodging staff.
For starters, I never setup OTC in advance. I am busy and don't like to advance schedule that sort of thing, especially when there is a risk of wasted time if she cancels/no shows. Also, in my experience, the flakeout %s increase dramatically when there is a large block of time in between agreement and execution.
Same night club to OTC events rarely go sideways for me once an agreement is struck. Now one runs the risk that his favorite(s) will be otherwise occupied and that he will go home empty, but if so then so be it. There is always next time and I don't lose any special time or money investment in the process. But I can usually score same night OTC in my favorite club often enough that I don't leave empty handed too often, especially since I often club on slower nights.
I usually wait until the same night agreement is struck to pull the trigger on a hotel 5 minutes on priceline usually does the trick. Now maybe once or twice a year I will be surprised by coming up empty on available rooms nearby. It doesn't happen often and, when it does, I usually just let the gal know that we may need to try another night. A couple of times this has resulted in trips to girls' houses and another couple of times car dates,, but sometimes it has meant walking empty-handed. Again, c'est la vie. It doesn't happen often enough to be a regular problem and, when it does happen, there is always another day.
Usually for me I'm on the road anyways so I already have a room, and I usually stay at higher midrange hotels. Usually there is not a problem, as that I try to avoid the lobby and use a side entrance near a stairwell. Only twice had a problem with the staff, one was because the girl's deadbeat boyfriend followed us and was rather vocal in the lobby toward us (one reason to avoid the lobby), and other time was because guy at the front desk knew who the dancer was and informed me afterwards that they didn't condone such activities in their establishment.
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I get the room first. If you show up and there is no room available it could end your session before it begins. Getting the room first also let's me setup. Valuables in the safe if I don't lave them in the car. Condoms easily accessible.
Most hotels have a drop box and I make use of that for checking out only because it is quicker
- Use the internet or mobile app to find available rooms in the area I want...
- ... but, don't hit the purchase button until she texts me "I'm in the city". Not "I'm leaving in an hour" -- astoundingly, it turns out LOTS of things can happen in that hour before she leaves -- but "I'm in the city, crossing the bridge now, be there in 20" or whatever
- With really unreliable girls, we'll go to lunch or dinner first, and I'll get the room on Hotel Tonight (or whatever) during dinner
Okay, so, what if there are no available rooms, or no affordable available rooms? I always tell her IN ADVANCE, "if I can't find a room, we'll go to the hot tubs". I found some really nice hot tubs, they are not as nice as a room but they're nice enough and surprisingly clean, and only cost $40/hour. As long as you set her expectation in advance that that's a possibility, most girls are ok with it.
So then I started having things develop and would get the room in advance. This showed to be a waste too, because so far the few I've had have always flaked the first or second time. Only one followed through the first time.
Now I prefer to just get it on the spot. I'm 32 and in my opinion and from others I appear in my late 20s sometimes younger. So I'm close in age to most dancers. Haven't met any 18 - 21 yrs old yet. But these dancers dress all kinds of ways, especially if it's after her shift. Not to mention they may want to come in with their bags which clearly show their shit. It's just awkward checking-in in that respect because they may or may not have on makeup to go with the appearance.
Anyway, on the spot check-in has worked out just well aside from the awkwardness depending on how they are dressed. I had one try to play as my wife which threw me off guard, and made me suspicious of the clerk and what they were thinking.
So the check-in is what bothers me as how it looks. I guess it's my paranoia in general. And checking out after a couple of hours. However, recently will be my first time checking out without stopping by the front desk.
Only issue I've ever had was when the DS was smoking a blunt and our neighbors smelled it and called security.I talked my way out of it, but got a fine for smoking in the room.
I'm usually on the road anyway so I am already in a hotel regardless. If it's on my dime I always use Priceline or Hotwire and book at least a 3.5 star hotel, never go below a 3 star. I often can snag a nice hotel for as low as $65 after tax and fees. Rarely pay more than $125 a night.
I am younger like you as well, and I usually let the dancer just come straight to my room, I've never had any issues. One thing to make sure is can she get to your room? For example many hotels restrict their elevators to key access only after a certain hour during the night. If that's the case I tell her to txt when she gets in the parking lot and I meet her at the front door.
I usually don't check out - just leave my key in the room, sometimes I accidentally take them with me and just throw them away.
The hotel staff could care less. It's just their job and you are paying for their wages by staying at their hotel so no one really cares one way or the other if you are bringing someone to the room for sex.
Even when getting a room less than 10 miles from my home. I don't think they care. The few I have known on a personal level do the same thing. :) So that hottie behind the counter my have her own room for good times.
Childhood memory. Had an Uncle and his wife visiting from far away. Some family thing Can't remember what. Dad and I went to pick them up. There was a list of rules on the back of the door. I can remember this one. "While the room is occupied by 2 unmarried adults of different sex this door is to remain open". Gotta love those bible thumping voyeurs.
After checking in, I pick her up, go to dinner, and adjourn to the room for the festivities. By the time I take her to my hotel, I already have a key card and use it to enter by some back door, not through the lobby. In the morning I check out in person, sometimes with her right next to me and other times she goes straight to my car. Others are correct in pointing out that *nobody* at the front desk cares about your marital status or just what activities you have engaged in .
For starters, I never setup OTC in advance. I am busy and don't like to advance schedule that sort of thing, especially when there is a risk of wasted time if she cancels/no shows. Also, in my experience, the flakeout %s increase dramatically when there is a large block of time in between agreement and execution.
Same night club to OTC events rarely go sideways for me once an agreement is struck. Now one runs the risk that his favorite(s) will be otherwise occupied and that he will go home empty, but if so then so be it. There is always next time and I don't lose any special time or money investment in the process. But I can usually score same night OTC in my favorite club often enough that I don't leave empty handed too often, especially since I often club on slower nights.
I usually wait until the same night agreement is struck to pull the trigger on a hotel 5 minutes on priceline usually does the trick. Now maybe once or twice a year I will be surprised by coming up empty on available rooms nearby. It doesn't happen often and, when it does, I usually just let the gal know that we may need to try another night. A couple of times this has resulted in trips to girls' houses and another couple of times car dates,, but sometimes it has meant walking empty-handed. Again, c'est la vie. It doesn't happen often enough to be a regular problem and, when it does happen, there is always another day.
I never check in or leave together. Just have her come up to your room.
So all this time I've been checking out at the front desk when I didn't have to? Well, I learned something on TUSCL.
Locally, I generally wait until she says she's actually on the road, or until after I've picked her up.
The girl I'm seeing now has been on time for every meet up. It's unnerving. Of course, she's not a stripper. :/