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13 years ago
I hate it, and I'd say every dancer I've ever had to do an all-stage with hates it, too.
First of all, if you're at a club where they do it at the beginning, that's one thing, but the clubs that demand all-stages where I've worked do it in the middle of the night. That means the dancers have to abandon their customers, which is annoying, especially if you're in the VIP area. Secondly, yeah, it's dehumanizing and usually the stages are not large enough for multiple dancers, so we're all packed together like [insert analogy here].
Did I mention it was just annoying?
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13 years ago
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mjx01Aspiring Global Hound
If you're young, tip the girls, and buy dances. Don't just sit there with one Bud Light and drool at the dancers. You're there to spend money, not hang out. Spending money = strippers coming over to you. In my experience, young guys are rude and cheap. So I don't approach them unless I know they're tipping. Also, if you're young, have more to talk about than tits and ass.
That's my advice for young guys. Older men have it down pat for the most part. :D
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13 years ago
Did you use butter for lube?
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13 years ago
If the dancer says no, don't keep asking her incessantly. There, that's my advice.
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13 years ago
It`s also hot when drunken customers try to lick my face and then give me a list of stage names I should go by instead of the one I chose
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13 years ago
So, in the line "all strippers are stupid, lying, thieving whores," I'm assuming we can take out 'stupid' now? We'll work on the rest later.
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13 years ago
damn, a malefactor, too!? I'm enthralled now.
lol, larry.
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13 years ago
+1 to looneylarry for using the word scofflaw which is awesome and not used enough.
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13 years ago
Idk if that would drive business away, though, holding the customer responsible (though he should be). What happens is that the names of the girls providing extras eventually reach the manager -- that's what's happening in the club I'm at now and the club I was at previously. So the manager does an overhaul of the club by firing aforementioned girls and lecturing the others. That's what happened to us. Customers weren't involved; the extras girls were just given the boot as a warning to everyone else.
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13 years ago
To my knowledge, no, nothing happened to him. Nothing ever happens to those guys. It's the girls who get punished. Sometimes the bouncers just don't care so the other dancers take matters into their own hands.
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13 years ago
Sometimes girls talk about their conquests in the back, too. Unless it's a huge club, like shadow was saying, the other dancers *will* know, or at least a percentage of them.
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13 years ago
It might get around that you'll tip for lookouts and you could find yourself being hit up by a few different dancers for the money. They also might think they could get more than $50 out of you. Be careful!
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13 years ago
That's probably true, shadow. I think the highest number of dancers at a club *I've* personally worked at was probably about sixty. The clubs I'm referring to have maybe 20, 30 girls between night and day shift. The way the "extras" girls are usually found out is because some customer they serviced starts bragging about it. I had some idiot try and get me to join his escort service and he tried to break down my defenses by stating that another girl in the club worked for him. He even named her. Wtf is that?
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13 years ago
That was just night shift. Not sure what goes on during day shift. I'd rather not give out club names in a negative light, though I did write one bad review, lol.
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13 years ago
It was just verbal. I've seen worse. The girls at that club just lectured her firmly and told her to take her business outside the club. The girls at another club utterly fucked a dancer up because she was giving extras.
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13 years ago
dammit, lol.
If a girl is giving extras, all the other girls in the club know it. I don't care for confrontations with other strippers, but I have seen a group of girls gang up on a dancer who was letting a customer finger her, etc, in the VIP and she never came back.
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13 years ago
I make it a point to gently suggest to the customer that we start during the next song. They never seem to have a problem with it.
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13 years ago
If all strippers are lying, thieving whores, why frequent strip clubs? Do you *enjoy* being ripped off and lied to? If all women fit into that category, why bother getting involved? Why not just find a nice guy to settle down with? Lol, too funny.
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13 years ago
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mjx01Aspiring Global Hound
I watched. I listened. I made friends with the older, more experienced dancers who would have me sit with them and their customers. It took me a bit to learn, but I smoothed my approach out eventually. It`s a continual process, learning this trade
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13 years ago
LOL
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13 years ago
I never ask, so I don't know.
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13 years ago
Fuck yeah! But here in Indy, "breathable" translates to see-through, which is not allowed. It sucks.
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13 years ago
Sure, it helps out. And any money is appreciated, but I'd like it a lot more if you stuck it in my clothing instead of tossing it at the stage. Some girls like the stand-offish touch, some do not. I'm in the latter party.
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13 years ago
love it, lol.
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13 years ago
Military discount!?!?! :D I've given free VIP LDs to soldiers before. They're always respectful, they buy drinks, and they tell stories. I'm a sucker for military stories.