Comments by docsavage (page 31)

I was involved in a scenario a little like that. I had a female apartment neighbor I was friendly with one time when I was younger. She couldn't pay her apartment rent one month and she offered to have sex with me if I would pay it for her. I told her she didn't have to do that and offered to just lend her the money. I knew I would never get paid back. A couple weeks later I was sitting in my apartment late one night. I heard a knock on the door and when I opened the door it was her. She told me she was feeling depressed and lonely and asked if she could spend the night with me. I've always felt like she did that as a way to pay me back for lending her money so she wouldn't get kicked out of her apartment.

There has been a slow ghettoization of the Indianapolis clubs and, as an old white guy, I feel increasingly out of place in them. The music is almost all very loud rap and the ghetto black girls are overly aggressive and quickly turn into the stereotypical angry black woman if I don't respond in just the right way to them. When talking to them, I feel like I'm walking across a field and any moment I might step on a land mine that will blow up on me. Guys with money have mostly disappeared. Pretty young females won't show up for a bunch of broke guys so they have mostly disappeared too. I used to have lots of long term regulars but fewer dancers stay a long time now, since they make less money. There are still a few bright spots. We have more pretty Hispanic dancers now than we used to. There are three or four clubs that tourists go to that have held up. Last Saturday night I went to Red Garter downtown and got lap dances from a pretty blonde who told me she was a college economics major. The Indiana clubs outside Indianapolis are about the same and I've had nice visits to Anderson and Kokomo clubs recently.

A common complaint I've heard over the years from men is that women don't want sex enough and from women that men want sex too much and aren't romantic acting enough. There are exceptions but this seems to be the norm. If you want the relationship to last, there has to be compromise. The nature of relationships have changed, though. Couples used to have long term relationships in order to engage in the long term project of having and raising children. There are now large numbers of childless young people. There is not much reason to compromise to maintain a long term relationship in which no children are involved. The complaints of your fav are valid but you need to be aware that she is picking the guys she is complaining about so if her relationships don't work out it may be partly her fault. She says she picks guys according to how handsome they are but it is the really handsome guys who are always having women trying to entice them into sex. Maybe she might want to pick a more average looking guy who is more likely to think she is the best he can do and will therefore be more likely to remain faithful and more likely to be reasonable in demands for sex. If she has a baby with one of these cheating good looking guys who all the other women are chasing after too, she is likely to end up alone. The average looking guys she snubbed before are not likely to be interested in her as a single mom at that point.

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I don't usually have sexual fantasies involving old tv actresses because I watched little television after my childhood. I was oblivious before adolescence to female attractiveness. When I watch old sixties television shows I'm always surprised by the attractiveness of the actresses that I was unaware of at the time they were first on. Some of the actresses I can now see were pretty include Mary Tyler Moore on "the Dick Van Dyke show", Barbara Eden on "I Dream of Jeannie", Carolyn Jones on "the Addams family", Donna Douglas on "the Beverly Hillbillies", Dawn Wells on "Gilligan's Island" and Diana Rigg on "the Avengers".

I've never had a stripper ask if she can come live with me, but I have had a stripper ask if her cat can come live with me. Her cat wasn't getting along with her dog. I politely declined but might have been interested if it was part of a package deal where she came with the cat.

Many girls quit after a short period because they don't make much money. I've asked long time dancers what they did to be successful and make money. One thing they tell me is that it really helps to have regular customers. A dancer with no regulars just has the left-over customers after all the other customers show up to see their regulars. It takes time to develop regulars and many girls get antsy and either switch clubs all the time or leave shortly after starting. Successful dancers also tell me they had to learn to be friends with the guys a little bit to get them as regulars and the unsuccessful girls couldn't figure out how to do that or didn't think it was important. This strategy might not apply so much in a few tourist destination cities with many one-time visitors but will in most clubs frequented mostly by locals.

BigThirdEye, I just do standard lap dances. Here in Indiana they cost $20 to $30, with the amount going higher if the club lets the dancers charge their own prices. I wouldn't pay more than $40 for a lap dance. Since I don't do anything sexual with the dancers, I wouldn't pay hundreds of dollars for a VIP room. Paying VIP prices doesn't seem worth it to me for just a really long lap dance.

I go about once a week and buy two or three lap dances when I go. I feel like I need a slightly rigid system to keep my spending under control. I go different days and times and to different clubs, not always same time and place.

There is not one sole reason. I like lap dances rather than escorts because they are less expensive. I like lap dances because they aren't illegal. I like lap dances because there is less chance of a std or getting someone pregnant. I like lap dances because they are done in a location where there are security personnel and it is usually safer. I like lap dances because they are done in a location where I can also talk to the girls, look at the girls, drink alcohol and relax.

I had a dancer I was attached to, but I never crossed the line into overspending on her. That is what you want to avoid. I saw her about three times a month for five years and would do two or three lap dances with her each time. I met her and had dinner with her a couple times and she was the only one I ever met outside the club like that and she was the only one I ever bought a present for. When she quit dancing she became a bartender at the same club and got permission from the manager to take breaks and still do lap dances with me when I came in. It was like I had my own personal stripper at the club because I never saw her do lap dances with anyone else. If I had been thirty years younger, I would have tried to get her as a girlfriend. One time I mentioned I would never see her again after her stripping days were over and she said "why not?" and got an angry look on her face. I'm not sure why she reacted like that. I'm 100% sure she didn't see me as a potential boyfriend in her post-stripper days and thought maybe she wanted to stay friends. I talked to her a couple times on the phone after she left. Then she didn't answer her phone three or four times when I called so I didn't call her after that. If she had wanted me as a friend in her post-stripping days, I think she changed her mind and I was fine with that.

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BigThirdEye, something is an extra if the dancer thinks it is an extra. The problem comes when the dancer assumes the customer already knows what is and isn't an extra to her without her telling him. To take an example, here in Indianapolis breast touching and butt touching are considered part of a standard lap dance but touching her between the legs would be considered an extra by most dancers. Sometimes, though, I'll do a lap dance with a new dancer who gets angry if I touch her breasts because she would consider that an extra that requires her permission first. I've even had new girls think a no touch air dance is the standard lap dance and anything else is an extra and get angry at me if I touch them at all. What usually happens is that most customers quit after one lap dance with her and pick a different girl on their next visit. The new girls then realize if they want to successfully compete with the other dancers, they have to offer on a standard lap dance what the other girls are.

Telling a dancer you won't give her money unless she does what you want is not coercion. Physically threatening a dancer if she doesn't do what you want is coercion. Coercion would include acting in an angry belligerent manner where she feels physically threatened, not just explicit threats. She should feel like it is safe to walk away from you at any time if there is a disagreement on payment or service provided. I've had several of my regulars tell me they have to deal with customers who get angry if she doesn't do extras in or outside the club and I've seen it with my own eyes.

BigThirdEye, I like organic grass-fed beef but about the only place to get it here in Indianapolis is go to Whole Foods and then take it home and cook it yourself. There have been a few restaurants here like Elevation Burger, The Mug and Burger Fuel that tried to sell grass fed hamburgers. They failed because, unfortunately, local diners are not very health oriented and didn't seek them out. I went to some expensive steak places but never saw one with grass fed steaks. It's also worth paying a little extra for wild caught salmon over farm raised salmon but it's hard to find that in local restaurants too.

This is not a club that any out-of-town visitor should ever want to spend time traveling too since there are much better clubs to go to if you are paying a short visit here to Indianapolis. Also, since it is primarily a club visited by locals, the dancers focus on cultivating those locals as regulars. Out of towners are more likely to get ignored here than at other clubs. I recommend Brad's, Dancers and the Red Garter as being the most tourist friendly clubs. Having said that, this is a decent little club. I live here. It's not part of my regular club rotation but I visit it about three times a year just for variety. This is a seldom reviewed club and I appreciate the review. I'll need to look for your Cuban girl next time I visit.

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I had a period lasting a decade where I made several thousand extra dollars a year from working overtime. This gave me a high income during that time. I spent five thousand dollars a year on strip clubs during this period. Beside strip clubs, I spent lots of money on two other things. I had never had a pet, so I bought a pet cat and then pampered him by buying the most expensive cat food on the market. The second thing I did was eat in expensive restaurants.

I've never been arrested or seen anyone arrested in hundreds of strip club visits. Out of curiosity, I've asked my stripper regulars if it ever happens. They have told me that police raids usually just lead to drug possession arrests or tickets involving fines for things like not wearing nipple tape. Your chances of being arrested for illegal sexual activities in a club are quite small. You can get thrown out by the bouncers, though.

Beware. This club allows dancers to charge their own prices so ask before doing any lap dances what the price is.

This forum has the largest collection of experienced strip club goers on the internet. It has been my experience that when I start a discussion asking a question and the replies form a consensus then that consensus is usually wise advice. The consensus evolving here on this discussion appears to be you should move on to another stripper still working in one of the clubs you go to. You don't have to take that advice but before arguing with others you need to spend some time seriously thinking about the advice you were given and not just dismissing it because it goes against what you want to do.

I forget why I joined TUSCL. I think I'm turning into Joe Biden.

I don't see a lot of handsome young guys in strip clubs. The exception is on a weekend night when a good-looking young guy is just hanging out with his buddies drinking and relaxing. I also see some young guys who appear to be just trying to meet and pick up girls. On occasion, a young guy will be there buying lap dances just to be buying lap dances. He may be wanting a little variety in females and feeling a little too lazy to chase after one.

I would agree with your rant. You can't really say someone should be charging x amount of money rather than y amount of money for FS because that is decided by supply and demand.

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