Have you ever got attached to a dancer?
Just wondering if any of you have ever got attached to a dancer or fallen in love. From my experience, it's tough. You know that they might not be real or good for you but you cannot help but want to see them and then you keep spending your money to feed your fantasy. What did any of you do when this happened to you? I knew this one who spent like 100 k on a girl and went broke. I think that is sad.
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real good!
The Thrill is Gone + Summertime (BB king + George Gershwin cover)
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Actually, she was pretty boring to chill with except for her sexual side.
Don't look a gift ho in the mouth.
She's only in love with your money until you're fucking for free.
I think what also helped me, besides the brief window when I was single and dated a dancer, was the fact that for most of my adult life I've been in live-in relationships. That has a way of keeping one grounded, especially once the kids come along.
Now I'm old enough where that sort of thing would be just goofy. That helps me maintain perspective too, even when dealing with the most gifted seductress. Age and maturity are very clarifying unless one is emotionally weak and yearning for something he thinks he missed out on in this life. Fortunately I haven't missed out on much, so I'm not inclined to get wrapped up in a girl who should rightly be with a guy half my age. I had my springtime romances - now it's her turn with a guy who is discovering all the same things that she is.
Hanging out with them 24/7 is only briefly what it's cracked-up to be.
Pay to enjoy the best parts of her while you can, whenever you can.
Thankfully one of mine started doing private meet ups for similar to club experiences. My Vegas fun though getting severely cut on pricing post-COVID.
Fixation is more about wanting to control someone else. As opposed to an attachment to who they really are as a person.
^^^Good on you but it takes a special kind of pride to kiss the same mouth and fuck the same pussy that sucked and fucked all kinds of dick for money and drugs earlier in the day.
Next time you're with your bottom bitch, remember she might be bringing home some leftover rickdugan cum for you. Swallow it with pride, "bro". 🤭🤡
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If I had been thirty years younger, I would have tried to get her as a girlfriend. One time I mentioned I would never see her again after her stripping days were over and she said "why not?" and got an angry look on her face. I'm not sure why she reacted like that. I'm 100% sure she didn't see me as a potential boyfriend in her post-stripper days and thought maybe she wanted to stay friends. I talked to her a couple times on the phone after she left. Then she didn't answer her phone three or four times when I called so I didn't call her after that. If she had wanted me as a friend in her post-stripping days, I think she changed her mind and I was fine with that.
If she's out there with a kid, that was definitely my summer mistake and i have no regrets.
She was very nice about it. She looked right at me and said, "I think you're great, but I'm not going to date a customer. Maybe you should hang out with someone else." I consider myself lucky, because she could have bled me dry if she really wanted to. I won't say that I was heartbroken, but I felt more than a bit foolish and unhappy. I actually took an extended break from clubbing (about a year, maybe more). When I went back to it, I had a more mature view of the intended relationship between a customer and dancer.
At the very least, find another club and another dancer. Or, perhaps a break from clubbing is in order. If this is happening a lot, then maybe strip clubs aren't a great place for you.
I will play along and answer your question
Q: Have you ever got attached to a dancer?
A: Who hasn’t?
Most tuscl members have experience love-at-first-sight/infatuation, in their lives, it is a natural occurrence in l human beings caused, in most cases, by physical attraction.
They might have become attached to a stripper, but she might not reciprocate because they share no common ground,
Most people realize that to participating in the hobby and benefit from the experience it has to be within their budget, and it is important realistic expectations.
Remember
“In this country, you gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women.”
~ Cuban refugee Tony Montana (Al Pacino) in the movie Scarface
The dancer was a petite Russian beauty at a Wayne NJ club named Lace. I’ve told the story before, as I was very into her, and did many stupid things as a result. I called a buddy to get dinner reservations at a nice NYC lower Manhattan restaurant for us. I picked her up in Brighton Beach, and acted like a big spender. I was acting like stupid’s slow brother!
Back then, I thought I could stay married, and act like a drunken fool, and work a crazy number of hours each week, and it would all be ok. That was naive and a mistake. But the Gray Goose made it feel so logical!
I drew the line and I wouldn’t allow her to smoke in my car. Lol! A fucking laundry list of stupid shit - and I decide that smoking in my car is too unhealthy!
No way, I do that at home.
Attached? Once or twice; not a fan of fishnet clothing.
He (Tony Montana) is not “rong”.
In our Capitalist Society:
Money doesn't buy love/sex and happiness,
Money buys you crazy-ass love/sex and happiness.
:D