Handing sex workers money... đź’°
Icee Loco (asshole)
I'm a fucking loser
If you hand a woman who has sex in exchange for money, money. If you view yourself giving her money as an act of generosity. And she in turn takes the money then acts like she is your girlfriend and sleeps with you. Is it prostitution?
Is regularly engaging in this scenario a real relationship?
Asking for SJG
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Is regularly engaging in this scenario a real relationship?
Asking for SJG
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I will play along and answer your questions:
Q: If you hand a woman who has sex in exchange for money, money. If you view yourself giving her money as an act of generosity. And she in turn takes the money then acts like she is your girlfriend and sleeps with you. Is it prostitution?
A: YES; it is prostitution in the USA; because in the USA, prostitution involves engaging, agreeing, or offering to engage in sexual conduct with another person in return for a fee. It is a crime throughout the United States except in few rural counties in the State of Nevada.
Some women offer GFE and/or PSE, and it is just fulfilling the needs of a paid request.
Just remember than in the Western Capitalist societies/cultures sex is never “free”. As a matter fact, ALL activities sexual or not have a "cost" in money or time or effort, or a combination of the three.
Men and women have a natural desire to have sex, but have to invest the time, effort and money to have a sexual relationship.
In some cases, men have to go to through a lot of effort, risk and expense to get sex from a professional sex worker.
Q: Is regularly engaging in this scenario a real relationship?
A: YES; it becomes a “regular”, long term human/customer relationship. This type of relationship can last for a long period of time, if both parties feel/believe that is a good mutual benefit relationship.
I had a lot of fun with this girl but she was expensive. I insisted on paying her per meetup, which she initially objected to as she "was not a whore" lol. But eventually got on board with. I had no interest in getting on the hook for even more than she was already costing me, including nights on the town in NYC and a healthy cash kicker on the back-end.
As far as what to call it, who cares? I don't need to push things into rigid mental buckets in order to process them. It was what it was.
Pics and Vids or it didn’t happen.
:D
If someone has to wallow in delusions to do it they should spend money on a therapist.
And it's both ways. Like the girls who "don't fuck for free" or think they get paid for their time.
I'm a big believer in win-win relationships. Even if you manage the long shot of financial success through win-lose relationships, you'll end up around people who are either too broken to have you back, or who will put the knife in and twist it if you give them your back. So I try to stick to SWs who feel like what I'm giving them is a fair exchange for what they give me. But if a woman prioritizes $ comfort over enjoyment of sex, I don't see as I have a reason to assume that's a bad choice for her. If she can find an unjealous SO, or is down with hookups and fuck buddies, then (assuming crappy survival sex doesn't dampen her enjoyment of good sex) she can have both. If she has a low sex drive, then getting a lot of pleasure out of sex is not an option anyway.
I gave the last owner of my house the cash value of the house, and he was so impressed with my generosity that he gave me the house.
See how ridiculous this gets?
Why do we take advice on _anything_ related to females from a guy who buggered up his last relationship as badly as SJG, and probably hasn't seen a real strip club in a decade?
His delusion about hookers drives me nuts. The way he tries to rationalize paying for sex not being paying for sex. That hookers aren't hookers but payment is expected coz she has bills to pay.
It's as crazy as his James frank take on mental illness and homelessness
I pity SJG, living several layers of delusion deep on so many issues.
If an attractive woman offered sex due to a $ emergency, I think all I'd ask for would be for her to strip down to a thong and let me give her a full body massage. Since a massage is something people pay for generally, getting paid to get one typically doesn't inherently feel undignified. If she said she was just lonely and depressed, I think I'd try first snapping her out if it by taking her to Olive Garden.
Generosity = money
Handing women money = paying a hooker
Off script or girlfriend audition = gfe
She had a killer hourglass figure. She told me, after very little conversation, she was down for being my sugar baby. But she had a strong vibe of sadness and frustration. She told me she'd had to move back in with her mother due to being bad broke, and she loathed living with her. So, I got skittish. I mean, it would still be rape if it was somebody else was holding the knife to her throat. At what point does it become rape, even if you are not the one creating the circumstances forcing her to have sex with you? I asked her if she had had a sugar daddy before, and she said no. So I asked if she was really sure she wanted to do this, maybe she could get help from some program for homeless people. For some reason, that really pissed her off, she said to just forget it. Ironically perhaps, that then made me feel more comfortable, told me she didn't feel like she couldn't say no. But she was no longer interested. She then remarked she had lived with a boyfriend, and kept living with him when she wasn't feeling it anymore, to keep the $ support. So it really would not be her first rodeo. A few days later, she DMed me and said she needed a ride home from something, if I gave it to her, we could talk more and she would reconsider. I told her I had a date with an escort, so I could only pick her up a bit later than when she wanted. That prompted her to do the I'm-not-a-prostitute huff, and I never heard from her again.
Getting money up to the per song dance rate is common. Going beyond that, what does it mean, it depends on what is said.
You can give her your business card on top of the money and say, "Let me take care of you". Or, "I like those high heels on you, I know you have expenses to be here, let me take care of you."
The reason for strip clubs is for guys who like handing money to beautiful women.
SJG
Ass
https://tuscl.net/photo.php?id=9417
It's pretty great.
SJG
ANd building big things often takes time. I am only discussing some outside parameters, not any of the mechanical details.
SJG