Realistic Pricing of Extras
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I've been arguing with numerous idiots in a private Facebook group today for price shaming other strippers for trying to charge $500 for FS and extras. This girl asked if we charge more for head than FS. Several girls said they charge more for it than FS. One person offered that $500 is a typical price for FS. And that's where the thread went to hell.
This moron, whom I want to punch in the face, is trying to argue FSSW dancers should be charging $5,000 for FS. No joke.
I told them pricing is typically based off of location using Detroit as an example given the amount of FSSW girls who are willing to do things for as low as $100.
Are you, the customer, going to choose the girl who is willing to charge $200 for FS, or are you going to choose the girl who's charging $600? Be realistic. I'm assuming you're going to choose the girl who's willing to charge $200 so long as she isn't a hot mess and not sloppy drunk.
This new generation of strippers are fucking dumbass whorephobes. I don't feel any stripper should be shaming another stripper for how she makes money. All strippers are whores in the public eye regardless of how we make our money. Vice looks at us all the same, too. I can't stand these ignorant post pandemic baby strippers at all.
Just wanted to rant.
This moron, whom I want to punch in the face, is trying to argue FSSW dancers should be charging $5,000 for FS. No joke.
I told them pricing is typically based off of location using Detroit as an example given the amount of FSSW girls who are willing to do things for as low as $100.
Are you, the customer, going to choose the girl who is willing to charge $200 for FS, or are you going to choose the girl who's charging $600? Be realistic. I'm assuming you're going to choose the girl who's willing to charge $200 so long as she isn't a hot mess and not sloppy drunk.
This new generation of strippers are fucking dumbass whorephobes. I don't feel any stripper should be shaming another stripper for how she makes money. All strippers are whores in the public eye regardless of how we make our money. Vice looks at us all the same, too. I can't stand these ignorant post pandemic baby strippers at all.
Just wanted to rant.
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I often wonder what the TUSCL web site looks like from the stripper perspective?
$5,000 for FS in a strip club setting is pure fantasy, as far as I'm concerned. I know that there are ultra-high-end escorts that get flown out to Dubai, etc., who charge that kind of money, but that's a completely separate world from the average (or even above average) strip club setting. So, that to me sounds like internet posturing (we see a fair amount of that here...).
It's relatively rare to get FS for $200 around here, at least with a dancer who would generally be considered a solid 7+. I would say $300 is low(ish) end of the price range. $400 or so is about average. $500 to $600 is above average but not unreasonable. Anything over $600 is an exceptionally hot dancer with a good reputation ... or a guy who's not smart with his money.
I don't like to waste my money, but I'm also not a bargain-basement shopper. The price tag is not necessarily the sole deciding factor if I take a dancer to VIP or ask her about OTC. But, everyone has their own way of making choices. It's none of my business.
Same goes for you. Set the limits that make you comfortable and charge the rates that get the rent paid. New strippers and new customers all learn their lessons eventually.
In my area, I would knock anywhere from $50 to $250 off those numbers, depending on the club, and the girl, of course.
I’ve been doing this stuff quite a while, and I have never had a girl offer FS for less than head. I have had a few that would do FS but not head, or vice versa, but never FS for less than head.
And yeah, $5,000 for anything is complete fantasy land.
In my experience, that’s what they usually say about kissing.
That's the exact quote.
I just reread the post and mostsay they charge by the time and not service actually. But I think most are talking about OTC whereas ITC I have only ever heard of it being charged by the type of service.
Another quote in regards to charging more for BJ than FS. And she's not lying. Some take 30 years to cum it seems like.
That’s crazy talk. I only recently did my first $500 OTC. I’ve done a few since, but they have always include a couple of hours of dining and drinking first, like a sugar baby date. Unless inflation gets a lot worse, that my limit.
The girl should try to get as much as she can and shouldn't let the trick haggle. Realistically high end limits would be around $1000. Although I know girls who have been paid $2000 and up to $10,000 to take trips. But that's not a common thing.
I think now $300 is probably the average and better looking girls can get $500.
I've had girls in Vegas clubs offer sex for like $200. All nighters for $500 to $700. Lowest offer I had was Jack in the box and a ride home lulz.
But hoes working clubs will get hate coz they decrease everyone's earnings. The point of dancing is to make the most doing the least. Not doing the most for chump change.
Maybe? There's a lot baked into that assumption. But I wouldn't know because I only go to strip clubs to drink at the bar. Or if I'm feeling frisky I'll tip at the stage.
If anything, I think the open shaming has lessened over the years? I think the first “mainstream” influence to lessen that is Jacq the Stripper, even if she has fallen out of favor in the past few years? Then even more mainstream, Cardi B blatantly rapping about allowing activities in her music. (Tho she def does price shaming in her songs while she’s at it) That’s just my vantage point though.
For me a lot goes into the decision making, price honestly only being one factor. Yes I have a limit as to how far I'll go and how often I'll see a girl who is pushing my price limit, but I'm also long past the point of shopping in the deeply discounted bargain bin.
As far as what you're hearing in another venue, that's just posturing and noise. The market will always tell you what you should be charging - or not if you decide that market rates aren't worth it. Who cares about what some silly girls who likely don't really sell xyz think about anything?
For me fabulous nights like this don’t happen often so $100-200 more is not going to spoil the mood.
This is really right on. A lot of PLs don’t feel good unless they get a deal or haggle, but this completely misses the qualitative boost from a service worker who feels they are being fairly compensated.
If things are going well, it’s not worth it to negotiate hard to bring the price to a minimum.
In my view, a seasoned club customer knows the range at his regular club.
If a dancer quotes $1,500 at a low end club, where $400 is a very fair FS price, then it’s a simple no.
If a simple no causes her price to drop from $1,500 to $400, I’m not playing her game.
I’ve had dancers tell me - you can’t afford me. I’m fine with that and accept it as a no. But, I’m curious as to what the unaffordable rate might be - unless it’s her way of saying no.
I understand the concern over customers being willing to pay higher prices, and the possible chance it could push overall prices higher. I’m not sure there is enough communication that a few customer interactions would have a definite effect on overall pricing.
If dance prices were an exchange traded service, then overpaying could have a marginal effect on elevating overall dance prices. Since that’s not the case, it’s left as dancer word of mouth. I wouldn’t find this to be a concern. Many other factors are going to be part of a dancer’s rate.
That said, it's not good for anyone if dancers get into desperate, race-to-the-bottom price wars with each other. In the long run it will mean the woman who think it makes sense to become a stripper will be similar to the ones who think it makes sense to become a street walker. The youngest dancers especially need to be careful not to ask for too little. A certain sum of money doesn't seem like so much once you get use to paying for your own rent/bills/groceries.
I was thinking of not doing anything with my atf dance wise, but now wondering if I should offer 2k, or even 3k on her for FS and toys and squirting!
Just pick the one you want and try to make something happen with her. Then try to get her outside the club to continue ASAP.
Coming out of a strip club, assume you'll be handing her money. If she likes you she will be reasonable. But don't like at it as fee for service, look at it as Mistress Maintenance.
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More recently it's been the same dance price, but I find myself tipping more like 100.
For OTC I'll pay for a cheap motel room and 200 to the girl and that's for no set period of time, but I keep it to about an hour. At the massage parlor it's 80 for the room including a clean-up in the shower room. 200 for the girl. There it's a timed 1 hour.
Some of the costs I've seen in this thread, even the lower ones, all seem high to me and some are outright ridiculous. I'm in central NJ, and the girls I go with may not be model quality, but if they weren't halfway decent I wouldn't be paying them. Not sure if these same girls might charge more for some new guy because I've known them all for quite a while and they get semi-regular business from me.
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I agree "clean" strippers and prostitutes are viewed the same way by the general public.
I would also say the general public views girls allowing some touching as prostitutes.
Anyway I should stfu now lol
Like 2k now im thinking if I should do it
Skibum you just owned Icee
Now Icee that comparison is invalid, you dont get to say what price you suck a dick and get fucked for, its men so it would be what price you eat pussy for and fuck pussu for. And you could say its pussu you normally dont want to suck and fuck, to be fair to the women who dont want to suck fuck a dick but do it for money.
The more experienced Dancers learn to tune it out for the most part; or indeed watch them learn or burn.
There are nuances too, from the Dancer's side which the newbies can miss. A successful $600 offer is not necessarily going to turn out safer or better longer term than $350 from a regular you get on with.
I also hear sad stories too frequently about $1k or more a day paid trips gone wrong; and most of the cash spent getting the next flight back.
@Icee, once again you make no fucking sense. That's not a fair comparison because it involves GAY shit, which I understand doesn't make any difference to you, but most of us consider that much more repulsive than a girl getting fucked by a guy for money, even if the girl is a 20 year old smokeshow and the guy is a 60 year old disgusting slob.
The real question is how much we would charge to eat out some old woman's hairy wrinkled cunt. While that doesn't sound very appealing to me, I'd definitely do it for less than 5 grand. Probably for a thousand. And if I worked in a job where I could do it up to a dozen times a night for a bunch of old horny grandmas, I'd lower it to a couple hundred.
I'd probably just try and pick up a pizza delivery job instead. HAHAH
Some here argue high volume low price is best. So is sucking 10 dicks for $50 better than sucking 1 dick for $500?
You're triggered coz I said hoes working in clubs are different from strippers. And they are. That's why the tension between them.
A hoe in a club is a bottom feeder with no game selling pussy.
A stripper does the least for the most and hustles
I can hate and love who I want, darling.
Yay! Icey is fantasizing about sucking dick!!!
Another variable is that regular-SCers/TUSCLers are often gonna be more sensitive to price b/c they are doing-it on a regular-basis and can’t afford, or don’t want to, to often be paying a premium or overpaying above the going-rate – it’s one thing to overpay once or twice a year on a SC trip vs when one is going once a month or more.
Having said this – I’d say “on average” a fair offer lies in b/w $300 and $500 – IMO one is not underpaying nor necessarily overpaying by a lot depending on the caliber of the club and the dancer – so I’d say that seems like a fair going-rate but of course there are many outliers for various reasons.
IME I would say I feel I’ve hardly ever felt I had a much better time by paying more of a premium – if anything I’ve felt there have been more times I’ve been underwhelmed when paying towards the higher end of the scale vs the lower end – I think that has something to do w/ dancer-entitlement but that’s just been my personal experience and obviously not a universal truism.
I think most dancers that feel extras should be super-expensive it’s b/c they don’t want to be extras-girls so for them it would take something along the lines of an offer they can’t refuse – dancers that are ok w/ extras seem to have a more realistic view of things and that while there may instances where there are custies paying a premium for extras they are def not the norm and extras-girls can’t really depend on these exceptions to make the living they want/need.
She had some great thoughts on the topic.
You have no problem paying $15 for an omelet when you can get a dozen free range eggs for $2.79. So don't bitch about markups.
I'd say that stripping/extras isn't a market here price fixing is likely to work. Strippers being upset at other strippers for charging too little isn't going to be any more effective than the customers who get upset about guys paying too much and trying to band together on one side or another. The dynamics at play here aren't new or entirely unique to this scenario, nor are they overly complex.
Exactly I mean the reality is that no matter your wanted price either as a customer or a stripper, the market will only allow so much fluctuation for a “right” price. I’m not 100% on the soreness aspect, I mean it probably does play a part, but at the same time people want what they want and if you’re going to try and charge much above your standard they may just pass, you may have made your nightly “quota” but I mean what about that coming sucky day where you make virtually nothing because it’s slow af.
$70 Olive Garden dinner X (dancer hotness level/average hotness level of 5)<sup>2</sup> X (my age/dancer age) = realistic extra price
A smoking hot 9/10 23-year-old is therefore $591.65.
A 7/10 39-year-old is $211.08.
Now there are some variables. You get a discount of $100 if it's close to the end of the month, you're wearing a white polyester leisure suit, and you pretend to be a chemical engineer. On the other hand, there's a $3000 premium if you rode to the club on a Huffy bicycle, think dancers will fall in love with you if you can only get them to kiss you, and are trying to recruit them to be sex slaves for your organization.
I thought everyone knew it was a simple mathematic formula. Pretty sure I saw this the first time over on the pink site.
Women in strip clubs are working for a living. Guys do give them money. And if you want them to engage with you, you have to give them money. But this does not mean that you should ever look at it as though money buys them.
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Thats what pornstars with millions of fans charge. And even they arent fully booked at that rate.
Some no name escorts charge that much, but it’s intentional because they want to be exclusive. And only get a few clients a month probably.
People will get suspicious of someone charging $100 or less an hour. But $200 to $400 is what most people are looking to pay. The more you charge the less people will be willing to pay. You might easily get 3 people to pay you $350 each compared to one person willing to pay $1000.
$1000 to $2000 is what insta models and pornstars with hundreds of thousands to millions of fans charge.
Bullshit. If you can't earn just because you're doing less than some others, you were never going to earn anyway. I hear this BS excuse time and again in dancer threads - "Wah wah the club was too dirty so I couldn't make money." Ah huh.
Time and again I've seen "clean" girls make money in "dirty" clubs. Not every guy wants to nut in a club and many will spread their spending out among different types of girls for different types of entertainment.
One of our local clubs, Wackos, is a prime example. There are a lot of Cuban girls working there and every single one of them fucks and sucks in the back. Yet on any given night half of the crew consists of Americans who by and large do not. As my favorite in the club has told me, she works there because she makes more money in the club than in any other club in J'ville, including the so-called "cleaner" clubs.
As I've always opined, in order to make decent money in a club, IMHO you have to have one or a combination of the following attributes: (1) Be very hot; (2) get guys off; and/or (3) be able to make connections with guys when interacting with them. If you don't have any of these advantages, you're fucked regardless of what the other girls are doing. Any complaining that a girl does on a discussion board about so-called "dirty" girls is really just scapegoating to avoid facing her own shortcomings.
Miss Chloe, whoever you are, you are aware that there are numerous Facebook groups. I don't even remember which Facebook group I was referring to at the time.
BTE, shut the fuck up. I believe I've told you numerous times already that you are not welcome in any of my threads. Nobody has time for the amount of retardation you have.
At my favorite club dancers would know I can ask someone else. They have a pretty good idea what the other girls would do it for too. It’s hard Togo too high in that environment. The dancer has to determine what the most she can get is and then decide whether it’s worth it. That’s going to vary a lot.
Lol. I'm on a staycation at TUSCL and I'm gonna reply all the threads! So BubbleYum doesn't do the extras but supports those who do at reasonable prices?
I think now $300 is probably the average and better looking girls can get $500.
I've had girls in Vegas clubs offer sex for like $200. All nighters for $500 to $700. Lowest offer I had was Jack in the box and a ride home lulz.
But hoes working clubs will get hate coz they decrease everyone's earnings. The point of dancing is to make the most doing the least. Not doing the most for chump change.”
Icee, $1000 is not a realistic number for a no name dancer with no fame working a random strip club. Its what high end escorts charge, who intentionally want to restrict their number of clients and types of clients. Low volume escorts. And its what girls with millions of fans charge.
Dancers and escorts have an opportunity cost. If you want to book a dancer during her working hours, youll have to pay more than if you book her outside the working hours since she loses money if you book during working hours.
With an escorts its even more the case since their hours are often 24/7. The ones being paid 2k or 10k are likely putting in lots of time. It would be tough to charge that for just one hour.
Some escorts offer exclusivity packages. One was like 300k per year for her to live with you, and give you all her time besides 8 hours of sleep, 2 hours free time daily.
The girls offering you $200 for sex or $500 for all nighters werent giving you a special discount. Those numbers are common. For a stripper, doing an all nighter doesnt have the same opportunity cost as it does for an escort. So you can often get $500 for an all nighter wheras an escort might want you to pay a discounted hourly rate for each hour. An escort might do $400 an hour then offer $2000 for an all nighter since she loses clients with the all nighter.
Escort prices always have an influence on what girls in clubs can charge. Those girls have no right to be hated they’re literally doing more work for more money. They don’t decrease anyones earnings. If one dancer isn’t willing to do as much as another one that’s her problem and her choice. Nobody is entitled for money for nothing and if your approach to dancing is doing the least for the most money that’s called being a scammer not a dancer. Scammers do the least for the most. You can commit all sorts of heinous acts and justify them under the logic of “well im just doing the least for the most amount of money, its all good im such a hustler”
If you watch escort vlogs, many will say it's not worth it to do less than an hour for a discounted rate. A lot of the fixed effort/costs for the scort are the same, even if the session is half as long. And you're putting up to twice the wear and tear on your lady parts. And the customers for full hours typically don't take as much out of you, even though they are paying more.