Comments by bluemonday (page 4)

... or like me still new-ish to this site, i been to loads more than 9 clubs, more reviews to come though.

when its 1 and 1 and the review is great, you defo gotta ignore. hey they are all great the first time or we wouldnt go back ! think where you are from counts too. depends what you are used to on your own home patch. i would hate to think what most of you would think of my local clubs thats for sure. you would just give this whole thing up, or like me, travel. but when i review any club i try to be fair and judge it compared to what is expected in that town/area.

i'd open it in london !!! and just make it like a vegas club. or any other decent north american one ? instead of 'teasers', call it 'defo not teasers' ?

the nearest club is about 10 miles. the nearest good one, or at least the one i call home, is 3500 miles !

much prefer the club scene, still a little of the thrill of the chase in seeing what you can get either ITC or OTC, and really i just enjoy the whole atmosphere of being in a good club. escort or massage parlour doesnt excite me in the same way at all. as the guy (rod) above mentions, there has got to be some chemistry at play and if i dont feel a little of it back, i wont play. i am usually about the same age, (or younger even sometimes) as the girls i try for, so while i know its all about the money in the end, i also reckon can tell when a girl is being reasonably genuine in wanting to be with me or not too. so defo clubbing only, but having said that, i do like a trip to amsterdam a couple of times a year too.

it's good when you find that there are some real nice people out there. i have a girl who will phone me every time a get back home from a trip, to thank me and make sure i got home ok. must admit this works well for her, as i'd rather spend my time and money with a genuine decent person, so plenty of repeat business for that little lady. art.. she also is from toronto.. be amazing if it was the same girl! but i find almost all canadian girls are just so nice anyway?

my first ever proper club night out was at spearmint rhino in birmingham in 2000. been a serious clubber since 2008 only though. prob did about 50+ club nights out last year in canada. not bad for a man from newcastle, england!

i have a real good memory. if a girl is cheeky with me once, even if a year later i'm back in that club, i'll remember who it was and give them a hard time if they dare try ask again. recently was watchin a fave who i did loads of dances with that night, on stage putting on a great pole show, which i enjoy, when some annoying youngster comes barging up. i try explain sorry but am just watching stage show at the moment, so she calls me a cheap bastard and loads of other shit. next night am back in the same club and she comes back up again forgetting who i am, or maybe just having the balls to ask again after that. just told her no i dont do dances cause i am a cheap bastard so can fuck off. i've also turned away dancers always politely and they go yeah, you prefer dances with ######, and then proceed to say loads of shit about my girl, before storming away. you can be as polite as you like and i always am, but some girls just dont know when to leave it. i find it's mainly the younger newer ones, or girls fresh over from europe. you would think they would very quickly learn though when they are wasting their time. i never say maybe later or not right now though, unless i mean it and would do actually prob do a dance later. that just gives them the excuse to keep coming back. an annoying dancer hassling you can really spoil the vibe of your night.

i'm with club_goer again on this one, not interested who is the prettiest... more like who has the best (natural) boobs. my current ATF looks like a double of sofia lomeli, but all natural.

Make sure you getting plenty extra back off your regular girl though so that it works both ways. if your putting all your time (and money) in with her, she should treat you right too. If you feel you really are getting a good deal, then ok you might not want to spoil it. There is no doubt if your now established with her as her customer and then start to dance with someone else, she will find out straight away even if she not working at that time. Often a girl loves to take another girls guy and they can't wait to say 'hey i took your guy for a dance' etc You say it is strictly a professional relationship, if so, she should be professional enough to not mind at all if you have your fun with others. If you want to end up more OTC 'friends' then its different. as SINCLAIR says, ask if you like, but she prob gonna say she would be upset even if she aint, its her job to make sure as much of your money goes on her, not someone else? There are defo benefits in sticking to same girl, but make sure your getting those benefits, otherwise you should feel free to play around? Just go for it and see what happens, even if she is 'upset', the money always talks and you'll soon get her back onside once your spending on her again.

outside of the USA/Canada strip clubbing is different. Europe/Asia is more like brothels then what we would call a strip club(and i include cheap Mexico to be like that too?), UK is loads of clubs in even the smaller towns now, but just air dances, though a good looking girl can actually make more there than anywhere else for doing nothing basically. stip club capital of the world would be Vegas, but then it's capital of the world for lots of other sin city pleasures too. portland, oregon is famous for having the most strip clubs per capita so could that be considered? from my experience as a european and therefore an outsider really to the north american culture of strip clubs, i gotta go with farmer art's nomination and agree toronto is the daddy of them all. for quality and quantity of clubs, girls and perhaps more importantly whats on offer, it just can't be beaten. having travelled a fair bit, down the QEW at niagara is now my adopted patch and i aint moving on having found whats on offer there. in europe we got amsterdam, prague, krakow etc which are all great destinations for us like minded individuals (i think most people on here gotta fly over and try the DAM at least once, but these place are not to my mind strip clubs places, would defo open your eyes though). UK where i am from is what we call lap dance clubs aplenty, but they differ greatly from what a north american would expect and again are not really what i would call a proper strip club. Vegas is good but expensive to get what you want, other places are big cities where you would expect to find something going on, eg Dallas, ... Detroil i must admit aint been to yet but it sounds good, but a little too dirty for me, but i will be trying soon? you only gotta look at the revew lists ... with cannonball, sundowner, penthouse etc always near the top, those who have been to them, rate the southern ontario clubs amongst the best. i'm defo in that group and it will take a lot for me to move on to somewhere else now.

like i say guys, you just dont notice, but your girl does! must admit last nite i was out and had four different dancers, no clue as to the music, but then they were not great dances. if your with a fave or a regular though, and you got the time, take note... it really does make a difference!

@maddog_romeo... to do that you are both, a mad dog and a romeo! classy, and your right you cant take it back ever, but i'd be gutted if that same girl didnt at least come say hi or give a dance or two in return. @shadowcat... well if a fave insists, and the girl is nice, suppose you have to force yourself eh? otherwise i'm with alucard here ... no tipping unless its earned. i tip the waitresss/barstaff who aint making much money for every drink, but dancers who are raking it in one way or another, no, no, no.

did she ask if that was 'a gun in your pocket ... or were you just pleased to...er... see her' ? sounds like a good start to your night!

just be careful jac, like alucard says meet in a motel/bar and just enjoy, or meet somewhere safe if you got some real designs on her and suss her out. you say you like her, but dont get your hopes too high. the big red flag against this is that she would only meet for an hour, and i guess your paying for that hour right ? neutral/safe venue would be better if so. your worried enough to post, so think on. let us know how you get on...

juice ... easy as 'ABC' ?

defo woundnt worry about C ... espec if she herself 'known' for her high mileage? she prob just trying to corner the market in what's being offered right ?

sounds better than the other post started below j lad, but shit... i spent my last 500 on strippers last nite. sadly you will have to count me out.

sounds better than the other post started below j lad, but shit... i spent my last 500 on strippers last nite. sadly you will have to count me out.

you either hit if off with a girl or not. if you really do as rick says, you gotta talk right. should flow, feel nice and natural so you real can enjoy her company as well as her tits. but gawd, a lot of the talk can be so boring, when it's is someone you in the end just want rid of. now lads, the music bit, nice point, so gonna start that discussion!

in life you always screw up no matter what eventually... but with dancers, at least you can always go back and set things right. you know where they gonna be, and a little spending always talk if nowt else... (one of a dancers greatest traits over a 'normal' girl) well, i have fucked up a few times with both my current two ATF'S, wish i could have that wasted time back, but decided to keep going and got sorted in the end... now just gonna enjoy them ... until the next screw up.

yeah she offering, but she's offering to loads guys all the time right?, pay up and enjoy if you want it... personally, i wouldnt meet at her house, meet at a decent bar or whatever, make sure your gonna get a GFE like the man says and that its gonna be a worthwhile experience. for me its gotta feel genuine and that she enjoy my company too, or not worth bothering with at all. only way to tell is if she will put some time with you too. then you can trust her a little more and relax.

have you been on the happy baccy or what mate? no wait a minute, you got one of those calenders with something 'clever' written on it for each day ??? "club hard or go home" that sound more like you my boy, sign me up for the cult of juice-ism.

it went off and now looks some changes being made, v nice. this newer look is perfect.

agree its much better if they come to you. always best that way. but if there's one paticular stunner working and the whole busy club seems to wants a dance with her, i make sure i beat the whole club to it. depends on how busy the club, how much you want that best girl and how much time you got to spend waiting?