OTC Offer at first visit

I did it once when I was a newbie and things worked out without any problems. I am older and wiser now and would think about that twice before jumping in. Leaving security out of the question. If I ever do an OTC again it will only be with a dancer that I know well and will give me a GFE.

yeah she offering, but she's offering to loads guys all the time right?, pay up and enjoy if you want it... personally, i wouldnt meet at her house, meet at a decent bar or whatever, make sure your gonna get a GFE like the man says and that its gonna be a worthwhile experience. for me its gotta feel genuine and that she enjoy my company too, or not worth bothering with at all. only way to tell is if she will put some time with you too. then you can trust her a little more and relax.

Only once have I had an OTC with a Dancer after an initial meeting in a Club. Saw her at a "Cheap" motel. I got EXACTLY what I was looking for!

Gives you phone number that easy? Meeting at a house in Detroit? Phone number goes to a neighbor?

Too many red flags here. You don't want to be found dead in an abandoned house on the Eastside.

Her cell phone was picked up by old woman and man, she leaves in nice burb.

just be careful jac, like alucard says meet in a motel/bar and just enjoy, or meet somewhere safe if you got some real designs on her and suss her out. you say you like her, but dont get your hopes too high. the big red flag against this is that she would only meet for an hour, and i guess your paying for that hour right ? neutral/safe venue would be better if so. your worried enough to post, so think on. let us know how you get on...

STD, getting mugged or rolled and becoming an involuntary sugar daddy are all possibilites.

If you feel uneasy, don't do it. You could get robbed or killed.

If I was in Detroit I would just do ITC action rather than go out of the way for OTC.

My Motel OTC was NOT in the Detroit area. :)

1. She is a hooker
2. The guy is her pimp
3. They will rob you.

OTC action you pay for is just a pooner transaction, much better places on the net to find paid-for tail without such a crapshoot.

Do not EVER go to the girl's place for OTC. God gave us hotels and motels for a reason.

Sinclair hit that one square on the head. If she won't meet on neutral territory, dump her and try somebody else. Especially in Detroit where, based on posts here, decent action the rule, rather than the exception.

@Art: In all my years in this hobby, I can count on the fingers of one hand the number of dancers at whose house I've played. And all of those were only after I'd known them and successfully completed a number of previous meetups with no incident.

And I always get my own room; never go to hers.

@georg:

I assumed that it was just understood that the hotel or motel assignation would be in my room.

I have NEVER gone to the girl's place for the deed; but then I am not packing a 9mm. up here in Canada.

@Art, there are a number of local girls who do in-call at their own hotel/motel room. The same caution applies, though. There are also a number of local mongers who've had...interesting experiences in those situations. I don't care how cheap she is, unless you have an ongoing relationship, it's just too big a risk. Even if it's not a sting, too many of them have "boyfriends" who aren't averse to rolling a well-heeled looking customer.