I thought this could be interesting. Please mention some ways you screwed up when you thought you had a decent chance of going out with a dancer.
For me I was on vacation for a couple of days. I even had my own hotel room and was traveling alone. One dancer and I were really clicking. I brought some beer in with me to drink during the night in the club. Anyway she gave me her phone number and I said I would call her tomorrow around lunch time. So far so good. Where I screwed up was that I told her I could remember numbers pretty good even though I forgot names real fast. Anyway I remembered her phone number. She asked me what it was again an hour later and I still remembered. 3 more beers later an another hour, I still remembered. 2 more beers and another hour and I still remembered. Left the club and went back to my hotel. Wrote down a phone number but realized it was getting fuzzy. I went to sleep and after a while I called. I thought fake number. Here I thought she was serious but she must have done an excellent job faking me out.
I went back to the club during the night. She was working. I heard someone say she was upset at me because I didn't call. She said she waited by the phone for an hour. Uuuuuhhh, I'm thinking. How stupid. I should have written it down in the club. It was too late now because I was leaving in the morning and she was working the night. I transposed two of the numbers. It was a good number she gave me. Never saw her again that I know of.
How about you?
Had spent a good bit of time both in and out of club with one dancer (no OTC, just dinner and such). Then one night she offered OTC. I told her that I'd have to think about it, as I saw her as the wildest roller coaster in the world -- fun as hell, but you really wonder the whole time if you'll survive. For a number of reasons, that was my one and only shot, and I'm still pissed at myself.