Comments by desotophil

Money's not as easy right now according to the girls I talk to at the clubs. Some girls who used to make $500 - $600 a shift are now havin to bust their ass for $200. Of course there are exceptions at every club, but generally, I think most girls are happy if they make $200 but would rather make $400.

I've had the experience from both sides. Used to sit with the same girl, sometimes for hours, any time I went to the club and would pay her whether we did dances or not. Depending on my frame of mind, I would tell her that if she had a dance offer, I was cool with it, but she usually refused to leave me. On the other side, have had girls follow the money and tell me they were tied up with a regular who got there before me. It's all part of the play, so you can't take it personally. It's their business to decide how to butter their bread.

Sometimes it's hard on the ego when we realize we're not as "special" to the girls as we thought. Try not to take it personal, lotsa juicy fruit on the stripper tree. Just move on like it never happened.

I've been to clubs a few times when the attitudes were flyin and everyone seemed to be in a bad mood. Generally, I would agree, a bad day at a SC is still a good day, but there are exceptions. When tempers flair and everyone is a victim, it's better to stay away.

I typically prefer a girl in her late 20's to early 30's because they seem to get into the moment more effectively. Too young typically means selfabsorbed and too old means selfconscious. However, one of my ATF's is 23 and the other is 39. Both are beautiful and their sexuality is full blown. It's less age than attitude, but inexperience takes so much away from tight bodies imo. Sensuality combined with a great body makes for a memorable experience, more please!!

Of course! Happens all the time. If the girl knows her game and really gets into the dances, it can be a very special experience. Typically, I like to get dances in 10 LD sets to let the mood build. It's usually with a favorite, the most I've gone is about 20 consecutive dances before I need a drink or take the game OTC.

Of course! Happens all the time. If the girl knows her game and really gets into the dances, it can be a very special experience. Typically, I like to get dances in 10 LD sets to let the mood build. It's usually with a favorite, the most I've gone is about 20 consecutive dances before I need a drink or take the game OTC.

Of course! Happens all the time. If the girl knows her game and really gets into the dances, it can be a very special experience. Typically, I like to get dances in 10 LD sets to let the mood build. It's usually with a favorite, the most I've gone is about 20 consecutive dances before I need a drink or take the game OTC.

I'm actually a guy who thinks some tats are tastefull and sexually enhancing and see nipple and hood piercing as hot. I believe the whole boob thing is a little out of control, but if it makes the girl feel better about herself, then I say go for it. If a lady's breasts are sensitive and part of her sexual game, it doesn't matter to me if they are big or small, shapely and healthy is cool enough. I do hate to see anything detract rather than emphasize a lady's beauty, but I guess that's subjective and in the eye of the observer. To me there is nothing more wonderful than a lady's body paired with a sensual attitude. True art work. Be beautiful ladies!!!

I don't smoke but it's your choice if you do. However, smoking is kinda like driving drunk, it's not a great idea for the person that does it, but it directly impacts the public without giving them a choice. I don't mind being in a place where people are smoking and I sure don't mind if a honey I'm attracted to wants to smoke. The problem I have is like a lot of peoples comments, it's a tell tale issue when I get home and smell like smoke. Getting harder and harder to explain since so many places now have banned smoking.

I get that a lot and identify with the nice guy tag, aka, soft touch. I enjoy getting to know the dancers personally but try not to get played too bad. I have learned to take any hard luck story with a grain of salt. It's kinda like the guy that approaches you at the gas station needing only a few bucks to get back home to his sick kids. It's a hustle that's easy to see, you just gotta screen the bullshit and realize that these girls are real people and deserve to be treated that way, but they are also hustlers. It's how they make their living. Don't believe it when they tell you what a wonderful cock you have, hahaha. I wouldn't want to walk on their side of the con either and try to figure out the assholes who will follow them home and leave em in a mess. It can really be a game on both sides but it's their life and what the girls do every day.

I'm terrible at remembering names anytime. If I'm impressed with a girl, I usually remember her name, but no guarantees. If you're a good tipper, most girls will remember you and it's embarrassing when you can't reciprocate, but it's not the end of the world. Remember it next time, they won't hate you.

I got hooked on a girl in a club once and gave her $800 for spending most of a shift with me. During the shift, we only did maybe 5 or 6 dances, no extras, but it was a nude club and the dances were hottt. Typically I spend $20 for a lapdance, but I'll tip if it's special.

I've known one dancer who was 52 and she was past her bloom, she was enhanced and tight, but heavy in the butt and thighs. One of my favorite dancers is 39 and she is gorgeous and sooo sensual. I don't prefer the 18 to 21 year olds because they are usually immature and haven't learned how to interact. However, another of my favorites is only 23 and she is amazing.

Baby Dolls is the class of Dallas for topless variety. You will find a wide range of girls for every taste. Level of fun depends on the girl, you'll find what your looking for if you take your time. The waitresses can be pests, but most are cool. For Nude, I'd suggest The Gold Club, Jaguars or The Clubhouse. Each offers a different experience, but you can have fun at all.

hahaha, ok, the kitty bank is cool, but even with good hygiene, money is nasty. It's been EVERYWHERE! I've seen guys put money in their teeth and girls put it next to their pussy, but it's kinda like unprotected sex, ya never know what lives on that bill.

Ugh, shadow, I'll never think of a gentle kiss the same again, hahaha.

Choosing dancers to work in a club is as subjective as customers preferences. I've known some attractive girls that got turned down at a club because they didn't fit the profile that club was looking for at that time. It's just business, but when a girl gets denied, it's hard not to take it personal.

It happens. I've had good enough relationship with a couple of dancers that they will leave anyone they are with, but that's not the norm. Usually if I go in and the girl I want to spend time with is busy, I either leave or find a way to entertain myself. If you are really a regular and she knows you're there, she will usually give you a heads up. Sounds like she really doesn't value your business so much. I'd just move on. Either find a new club or at least a new girl. She usually needs you more than you need her, or she's just playin ya anyway.

That practice is a sure pathway to a solicitation ticket.

Getting emotionally attached to a dancer isn't unusual. Sometimes tho, you just gotta keep a clear head and remember she doesn't come to the club to find love, or even friends. She's payin the bills. Love happens, even in a strip club, but the value system is mostly dollars and good sense. Bein exclusive boosts your ego, but mostly leads to drama. I've had girls want to leave me and go pick up some supposedly easy cash cause they think I'll be there later. I ALWAYS say cool, go make your money darlin, it's a job. Then I'll find someone who wants to play with me. It's amazing how often the dancer will change her mind if she thinks she's gonna lose a sure thing. But if she doesn't, it really IS cool. It's all for fun for me anyway, right?

Ok, that was inspiring, hahaha, lookin for a new career myself!!

You know dancing can be a rough life, you're cute, but you gotta be willing to hustle to make it. If you decide to dance, find a way to enjoy it. Your tips will follow your ability to sell the fantasy.

Hmmm, interesting question. I suppose it is different for every person and every relationship. I've been married for 37 years and only started going to clubs about 5 years ago. At first, my wife was open minded about an occasional night out, but that changed with their frequency and she became very jealous. I've had to use more discretion and she doesn't monitor as close. Actually the cash flow thing is usually an exposure. It's not that hard to "follow the money". I think it's healthy to be aware of the concerns you express. It's really not out of the ordinary for one or both members of a relationship to need some outside expression, but we all live by fairly complex rules and have varied needs and desires. Balancing those in any relationship, with or without a written contract, takes a lot of give and take. Only you are close enough to your partner and your own situation to judge your options. Take a hard look and make your best decision.

Go back, give the waitress an extra tip and a nice smile if she's your server. Tell her no hard feelings and if you were out of line, apologize. Apologies don't cost a thing, even if you shouldn't have to. The club wants your money and not the bullshit, so if you blow it off and enjoy yourself, you'll be welcome with no penalty time outs, hahaha. Last hour incidents happen in every bar and usually have no lasting affect. But remember, it's not the end of the world, just a bad end to one day.