Do you ever make a point of remembering dancers names if they remember yours?

Mar 29, 2009, 3:17 PM

I guess it seems a little bit awkward at times if a dancer asks if you remember her and she knows your first name. I typically don't worry about it but one dancer seemed to enjoy giving me a hard time about not remembering any dancers names. I do remember a few though. The way I see it, if you don't see them that often, why bother trying to remember their names? Longer term, I tend to remember real names a lot better but I don't really want dancers to start telling me their real names and expect me to remember. One dancer had a good method to make me remember. She had me repeat her name 3 or 4 times. I guess I should make more of an effort to remember names of regular dancers I talk to. I think this is like telling a dancer I can remember her phone number and then after a few beers and a few hours, I get it mixed up.

Now if you show me a dancers face and ask me to describe her body, that's a lot easier to remember. Same thing for you?

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shadowcat16 years ago

That depends on how intimate we get. Verbally and physically. If I have a good time, I remember both of their names. Real & stage. This can be a problem at times. Which name to use when talking to other dancers and customers about her.Which name do they know her by?

casualguy16 years ago

One of my favorites I do remember her real name but can't remember her stage name. I end up not saying her name at all. She doesn't dance on stage so her stage name never gets called out. In all the time I've known her I haven't even had a reason to call her name out. I don't believe a dancer would like me using her real name in the club. Some might not care. That is something else a dancer should tell me if they tell me their real name. Whether or not she cares if I use her real name in the club. Using a real first name might be a trend. I'm not sure.

DandyDan16 years ago

I try to. I had one embarrassing episode once where I spoke the wrong name to this one dancer who hadn't been around for a few weeks and she didn't want to talk to me for a while after that, but we kissed and made up eventually.

Clubber16 years ago

I only remember if it goes beyond a couple of dances and more than a single trip to a club.

Notsosly16 years ago

I only remember her name if I got more than 3 lap dances with her and I really liked them. I could care less whether they remember my name, and I am really suprised when they do because I sure don't expect them to. She's in that club 3-6 days a week seeing several to many guys everyday. No way should I expect her to remember my name when I return a month or so later.

icedawg16 years ago

as a point of being a human being, i try and remember names. also, where shes from, and a little factoid about the place, even if ive never gotten a dance from her. it connects us as humans.

also, i need to know what "name" to input in my fone, in case someone looks through it and wants to know why i have 5 entries for "destiny".

SuperDude16 years ago

Only if they are registered voters.

desotophil16 years ago

I'm terrible at remembering names anytime. If I'm impressed with a girl, I usually remember her name, but no guarantees. If you're a good tipper, most girls will remember you and it's embarrassing when you can't reciprocate, but it's not the end of the world. Remember it next time, they won't hate you.