Comments by ssewarrior

I had one offer full friction till release. I was surprised and could think about what I was gonna do with my underwear after, hahaha so I turned it down. So I wondered if anybody has ever done that. I just assumed a dancer would freak out if she's not expecting it.

Awesome info everyone, thanks for the input. I'm now armed with the info to go forth and splooge, hahaha. Seriously though, all good stuff and great perspectives from both sides. I had never thought about being black listed and stuff like that so thanks! Special thanks to ChiTown, Dougs & ShadowCat. Great comments!

I'm with you casualguy, I love the smell of vanilla. Probably because I used to date a dancer about 10 years ago that wore some vanilla lotion and body spray and it drove me nuts so I still love it. I often find myself loving certain strippers perfumes, noticing that my clothes smell of it when I get home and take off my shirt and wonder what the perfume is cuz it smells so good. I gotta start asking I guess! The one that I do now I love is Victoria Secret's Heavenly. It lives up to it's name.

Here's a truth I've learned about strippers and phone numbers... 99.9% of the guys they come across in the club don't act REAL with them. And let's be honest, 99% of the time we're there to just have no strings attached fun anyway right? What works exceptionally well is just being yourself, not throwing game, treating her like a lady, actually UNDERSTANDING that she is a real person and has a life after she leaves those doors and making sure she understands that. You'd do that for someone you were actually dating in life right? Trust me, do these things and treat her like you would someone you met at a cocktail or company party and you'll get mileage you won't believe. I've been given dozens of phone numbers, had breakfast, lunch or dinner with dozens of other dancers, seriously dated several and if nothing else (and probably most importantly) just had really frickin awesome times in the club because the girls feel comfortable with you. GAME doesn't work with most of them because they see it and hear it every 10 minutes. There isn't much they haven't heard unless they're "newbies" and if they are it's probably a boring dance and boring time anyway right?

I agree that I think it depends on the club, the city and the rules in that city. Different places you can get away with more. Some clubs/owners try to "sucker" people into thinking they'll get more. I've been in clubs where I got more in VIP and I've been in them where I got less. I've had as little as a table dance no contact in some clubs all the way to a BJ on the main floor in other clubs. Viva Texas! haha

As stated by many here already, the 2 previous coins didn't catch on and these are not likely to either. Playing devils advocate for a moment, the easiest and fastest thing I believe clubs would do is to issue "funny money" that they tip the girls with in which the girls exchange for real money at the end of th evening. There is actually an advantage here because "funny money" doesn't feel the same to a person as REAL money so the tendency to spend MORE is higher.

1. Starting midway through a song and counting that. I respect the girls that sit on your lap and chat saying, “We’ll wait for the next song”. 2. Purring in your ear – this is the absolute worst for me. 3. Doing the same sequence of moves over and over during an LD. This becomes more noticeable during multiple dances. Tells me they’re either not that into it or are newbies and just stick to a routine. 4. Slapping the ass is just plain stupid. 5. Also just as stupid is slamming their shoes into the floor while on stage. Interesting what different people like Chandler. I personally happen to love getting beaten side to side by a big breasted woman. That and nuzzling my face right in the middle. That being said, I have a question, why is it called a “stevie”?

Is RL writing a thesis? Sounds like questions from a sex therapist wanting to know the "inside" world without diving in.

To me there are sexy comments while getting an LD that are a turn hot and then there are the flat out compliments by way of the dancer giving me her phone number because she wants to hang out. In the LD scenario, the biggest turn on for me is in their body movements. If they are IN TO IT then the movements and eye contact reflect that. If it's just another LD then the "routine movements" ensue. It's the movements that give me renewed wood regardless of the words. Body language says all. If these things happen during the LD then that is when I am presented with a phone number. Nothing is more proof in the pudding then that.

I'm with Chiton. Dressing nice always gets more attention. It shows you have some class and probably even more than that it shows that you have some money to spend and afterall... that's what they want outta ya and that's why you're there. There is a delicate line here though because being too "decked out" also gives the illusion that you "got all you want/need" OTC and "could" be less likely to spend money. It's often the guy that has hundreds in his pocket and isn't Mr. GQ that is willing to drop every dollar because he doesn't get all the ladies OTC. So in my opinion finding the balance between the 2 is the best for maximum yardarge.

On a different note on SC Attire. I've had dancers tell me "next time you visit, make sure you wear loose pants and silk boxers". Trust me it's worth it

To a certain extent I agree with you RomanticLover. It's the 80/20 rule like most things in life. 80 percent of dancers dont' have a TON of self esteem as it is and if they're single they're just looking for someone they can relate too. The 20 percent that don't have this problem DON'T have a problem with the phone number question. If a dancer feels that there is any remote possibility that it might be worth having coffee, a drink, lunch or dinner with a customer then they typically are not shy about taking the first step. As you'll hear me say often in my postings... things are pretty simple in life. What is and isn't possible is ALWAYS written on the wall we just have to read it. The complexities and hurdles we face and that I read are self imposed 80% of the time. These aren't hypothetical theories I post out of my ass, they're based on experience. Believe it or not.

BookGuy, I hear what your saying and I agree whole heartedly with your thoughts and comments on Funny Money. In today's environments it's a way to exploit the credit cards and make one PAY for hiding the dough. My point though was that if $1 coins actually break the previous barriers and are successful this go around then the clubs might take a different tune to Funny Money. Think about it... the difference between flipping a coin on the stage and a dancer walking around like a pirate with a bag full of "Booty" vs. collecting funny money. The "ease of use" would likely be worth it on it's own. I'll tell ya one thing, if they didn't I'd be sure to bring in coins by the tonage and sprinkle them all over the place until it got annoying enough that everyone figured out a solution. :)

LMAO about the Stevie. Thanks Everyone! That is frickin hilarious.

Train, Chandler and Chaitown got it right. A spinner is a very small/petite girl that is so small she can be spun around a hard dick like it's a "sit and spin".

Yeah I hear ya CG. It's a lot like searching for a date in the clubs in my opinion. Body language is easy to read. Some are desperate, some are evaluating and some are SUPER confident and will walk right by you. It's about preferences of size, weight, shape, color, dress etc. just like in a club. We've all seen the dancer walking our way that is NOT our type and we quickly look the other way, take a sip of our drink, intently watch the stage, face the bar or any other number of "moves" in order to try to avoid the "hustle". Conversely we've all sat there as a dancer we'd LOVE to get an LD from walks by and anticipating the moment of eye contact so she WILL approach you and you can say yes, BUT... she sadly walks by. Is it mind reading or body language?

That's hilarious. But we all know that "Papa" gets his in the club right! :)

CG: I don't think it's unusual at all to make a stripper laugh. In fact, it's what separates you from the masses. Many men in the SC's treat the dancers like "objects" and just pieces of "ass" and NOT human. Making them laugh shows you are being at least somewhat genuine. I'll go so far as to say, from experience, that making them laugh is the first step to possibly getting their attention long enough to show them you have interest in them OTC. Even if that isn't your intent you are going to get better attention, a better LD and burn a "memory" in her brain. You draw the conclusions and benefits of this from there.

The string and the argument were too much for me to read, but I wanted to add this comment/thought/opinion... One of the many beuties of strip clubs for me is that we can find whatever it is that we want in there. Depending on our mood, fantasy, roll play etc. ALL of it is available inside those walls. I mean this in the most respectful way. If I want a MILF type she's in there, if I want the one on the educational path that has a wild side - she's in there, if I want the hardcore naughty, break all the rules type - she's in there, if I want the high school teacher that's a lady in public and whore in bed then she's in there. Love Big Tits and Fat Ass? She's in there. Love the spinners skinny as a Super Model - guess what? She's in there. So whatever one is searching for she's in there and the Key to Strip Club Success rests solely in what your intent and desire is when you walk through those doors.

I'd enjoy reading that post too. I haven't heard about it to date. Personally I think it's silly to be worried about it. Many dancers have told me their real name after a night of friendship. I suppose if one was really trying to hide their identity from another day job, family, friends etc. it might worry them though.

Man that's crazy. I gotta google that and learn more.

Not too much info yet it seems: http://www.timesleader.com/mld/timesleader/16204061.htm

You hit it on the head CG. They have to dance anyway when it's their turn so they'll might as well do it for a dollar here and there. The ones that master the stage will make 10 - 50 for their dances if they get everybody going. Think about that on an hourly wage basis. Ya dance 1 to 3 songs and make 20 - 60 bucks for 15 minutes work? Do the math readers... :) So as CG said, you get a guy or two going and then the rest may follow. Especially if they are interested in an LD after, it creates the "competitive" environment to try to get the dancers attention in hope she'll come to your table after she's off stage. With several of the dancers I have dated, I actually participated in creating this scenario. I'd walk up to the stage when my girlfriend was on stage and start throwing a bunch of 1's to get guys going. Then other guys would come up because it breaks the ice and they suddenly feel comfortable and then it's like dominoes. Result was more tips for my girl and I got to enjoy the energ. Kind of sexy to know everybody wanted your girl, but she was going home with me.

I don't know about the typical help (unless there is a connection made with a dancer here and there) but I know Papa gets his when he wants it.

I second that. I've had girls dance 6 or 7 songs while I sat at the bar on a stool and never expect a dime.