ssewarrior

I had one offer full friction till release. I was surprised and could think about what I was gonna do with my underwear after, hahaha so I turned it down. So I wondered if anybody has ever done that. I just assumed a dancer would freak out if she's not expecting it.

Awesome info everyone, thanks for the input. I'm now armed with the info to go forth and splooge, hahaha. Seriously though, all good stuff and great perspectives from both sides. I had never thought about being black listed and stuff like that so thanks! Special thanks to ChiTown, Dougs & ShadowCat. Great comments!

I'm with you casualguy, I love the smell of vanilla. Probably because I used to date a dancer about 10 years ago that wore some vanilla lotion and body spray and it drove me nuts so I still love it. I often find myself loving certain strippers perfumes, noticing that my clothes smell of it when I get home and take off my shirt and wonder what the perfume is cuz it smells so good. I gotta start asking I guess! The one that I do now I love is Victoria Secret's Heavenly. It lives up to it's name.

Here's a truth I've learned about strippers and phone numbers... 99.9% of the guys they come across in the club don't act REAL with them. And let's be honest, 99% of the time we're there to just have no strings attached fun anyway right? What works exceptionally well is just being yourself, not throwing game, treating her like a lady, actually UNDERSTANDING that she is a real person and has a life after she leaves those doors and making sure she understands that. You'd do that for someone you were actually dating in life right? Trust me, do these things and treat her like you would someone you met at a cocktail or company party and you'll get mileage you won't believe. I've been given dozens of phone numbers, had breakfast, lunch or dinner with dozens of other dancers, seriously dated several and if nothing else (and probably most importantly) just had really frickin awesome times in the club because the girls feel comfortable with you. GAME doesn't work with most of them because they see it and hear it every 10 minutes. There isn't much they haven't heard unless they're "newbies" and if they are it's probably a boring dance and boring time anyway right?

I agree that I think it depends on the club, the city and the rules in that city. Different places you can get away with more. Some clubs/owners try to "sucker" people into thinking they'll get more. I've been in clubs where I got more in VIP and I've been in them where I got less. I've had as little as a table dance no contact in some clubs all the way to a BJ on the main floor in other clubs. Viva Texas! haha