Ever feel like you can read a strippers mind?
I got the feeling the other day. I got the perception she was a complete lesbian somewhat new to dancing. She wanted my dollar bill though and was glad to have her little stage tip over with. I guess you don't really have to be a mind reader to know what some strippers are thinking. Of course I don't know what some strippers are thinking about when they say some things.Other times I thinking she's putting on a good show while I'm tipping her a dollar at the main stage just to get other guys to come tip. That actually works for me and the dancers I tip. Then there are other dancers who are wondering why almost no one is tipping them.
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They have to dance anyway when it's their turn so they'll might as well do it for a dollar here and there. The ones that master the stage will make 10 - 50 for their dances if they get everybody going. Think about that on an hourly wage basis. Ya dance 1 to 3 songs and make 20 - 60 bucks for 15 minutes work? Do the math readers... :)
So as CG said, you get a guy or two going and then the rest may follow. Especially if they are interested in an LD after, it creates the "competitive" environment to try to get the dancers attention in hope she'll come to your table after she's off stage.
With several of the dancers I have dated, I actually participated in creating this scenario. I'd walk up to the stage when my girlfriend was on stage and start throwing a bunch of 1's to get guys going. Then other guys would come up because it breaks the ice and they suddenly feel comfortable and then it's like dominoes.
Result was more tips for my girl and I got to enjoy the energ. Kind of sexy to know everybody wanted your girl, but she was going home with me.
It's about preferences of size, weight, shape, color, dress etc. just like in a club.
We've all seen the dancer walking our way that is NOT our type and we quickly look the other way, take a sip of our drink, intently watch the stage, face the bar or any other number of "moves" in order to try to avoid the "hustle".
Conversely we've all sat there as a dancer we'd LOVE to get an LD from walks by and anticipating the moment of eye contact so she WILL approach you and you can say yes, BUT... she sadly walks by.
Is it mind reading or body language?