Comments by whghIost (page 2)

Just wanted opinions on such a situation. Anyways, I did find a backup, but she works at another club. I guess, if my ATF here is willing to make me wait for 3 hours, then I'll leave and go to the other club. I am not sure if she realize that I too want some conversation with her before going to the VIP. There are some things you do treat all regulars the same. She need to address all not just me that her job is to make money by providing us fun. If you spend too much time with one guy, then the other guy will be upset. You would need to tell guy that are you ready shortly or otherwise you will come back and talk with guy number 2. Spread yourself with both guys. Esp, when both guys pay you about the same if you were to spend equal amount of time. Just because you spend more time with the first guy and save you the money on drinks, it is not worth to guy 2. Both guys want to spend as much time you allow them. Unless, either guy is short for time.

That would be a great idea, but there was 2nd backup at this club. It is nice, but not very many hotties.

Well, winning money is fun, too. However, you cannot win at a strip club. You just lose money.

You could say that again,"Ugh"!! I think this guy is moving in slowly to persuade her to stay overnight at his place. I think he wants her to sleep with at his place, not at the club. I hope this guy gets bored with her. I did, until she upgraded her service. Now she has downgraded her service because she is making plenty from this guy. However, she got me addicted to her. She got me upset with her, because now she is playing hard to get. I hope this rich guy leave and go to another club. He should vacation and go to palm beach, fl.

I don't know many who is okay with his girlfriend doing others, even if she is being paid. Unless, the other guy is paying 4 figures an hour, I said never.

If you wanna hook up with a dancer, then you must not go to a high end strip club. High end strip clubs are like the Cheetah or Pink Pony type. Those girls want too much money.

There is a line. Dancers who goes beyond the lapdance is cheating. It is cheating when it comes to provide intimacy like kissing or any form of sex. Dancers have to make us believe that they like us. That is a part of courtship required for us to be interested. Sure, some guys want more. It would be easier, if they are single. Some dancers will pretend that they do not have boyfriends or husbands. They may provide extras, but they do know that they are cheating. If by accident that I end up with a dancer as my girlfriend or wife, she would have to quit the profession.

Are you supposed to pay for her time on the OTC date? I had my OTC date, but I just bought her clothes, shoes, food, etc. I never paid her time, except for extras.

Well, all of you make some good points. It was just bad timing for me. However, saga continues. I am not sure what's wrong with her. She has lately been calling out a lot. She drinks a lot of beer, 30 bottles a week. I saw her this past weekend and she left early because her stomach was hurting. The richer dude is having an effect on my fun. She does not want to do any extras. But I was okay with that. I think he is setting her up. I think he wants her to do extra with him outside the club. He did take her out and on a date to the club she works at. I ran into them there. She brought in a third person in the date. She later told me that she is using him and that he is upset that she brought a friend with them. I am not sure how long this rich guy is going to last. I may just leave and come back in a couple month. I hope he gets bored. He supposedly had so much sex in his youth that he is looking for a more meaningful fun. I suppose he want it in a future. It turned out that she is not making a grand, but several hundreds. Anyways, her calling out from work is getting me upset. Her loser boyfriend finally got a job and it is messing her schedule up. Plus, she has 2 kids and finding baby sister is awful. I did sent her flowers because she was sick. I thought it was a nice gesture. I assume she is working today, but I have not heard from her. Maybe she called out the entire week. Not sure how sick she is. I hope her boyfriend did not hurt her. He has threatened her, if she was being unfaithful.

I don't have enough clues to know if she is not telling the full story. However, it is odd. The richer guy is older like in his fifties. Plus, I am getting extras from her. I got the extra for 1 bill. It was a great price, but the VIP was only 15 min. I was upset with her shortening our visit rather sharply. You may judge her sharply without the entire facts, if you like. For me, she should have seen both of us. She should have done the 1 hour VIP with me and then go to the richer guy. Who knows, the richer guy may not pay her as much as she thought. Maybe, he'll not come as often as I do or as often she said he would. I'll know more later.

I guess the richer guy spends more for less because he can. It is a power thing. What I don't understand, why did he not go to a better club. The club I went has very few hot girls. If I was that wealthy I would have gone to a club that is classier and better looking girls. The club I went to has a reputation for extras. However, this guy only wanted company and few dances. He could have score better looking girls elsewhere.

I don't mind that she went with the bigger offer. What upset me was that I am a loyal regular who have a long relations with her. Plus, it was my 3rd attempt to see her that week. The first two she was not there due to her illness. Plus, I live a long distance to the club. Also, she was not thoughtful in calling me to inform me that she is serious ill and wont be in the club till the following Monday. Plus, I was already sitting with her for an hour before the wealthier came in unexpectedly. I usually see her for an hour, but this time I got 15 minutes of the 30 minutes I bargained. It was a rushed session and she only charged 1 bill. I usually paid her 2.5 bill for an hour. Plus, I had to go to work the next night and work 7 straight nights. So, If I had not done a VIP with her, it would be another week on top of 2 weeks I have seen her last. What I did not kinda understand was that she could have done an hour VIP and let the wealthier guy wait. He just got there. She could have made more from me and still make her money from him. She was concern that he may move on with another girl, but if he is a regular, why would he do that. Anyways, she was 30 minutes away from him and he was talking with another dancer. She joined them. The other girl left after 30 to 45 minutes later. I left after an hour watching them. I don't mind her making more money, but she could have treated me better. She could have treat me worse, which I am glad that she did not do. This wealthier guy was supposed to come the next night, but he showed up early. HOwever, I am the one who is punished. Not fair.

Well, I have been seeing a dancer for about 5 months. It started with light interactions in the VIP to much more. I do notice that she is not interested in me as much as i do for her. I would prefer that she was into me more. I am not sure if I could last as long as you have with your dancer. My dancer has a boyfriend. So, it is difficult for her to call me. She may call, but her boyfriend does not work. Sounds like he is a control freak.

It is not as common here in Georgia. However, I have met one girl who did. It is great that a dancer is offering, however, she needed to be careful.

Paying is cheaper in the long run. You don't have to spend money those x many times you failed to get laid. You don't have to spend the money for special clothes for dates. You don't have to spend money for 1 year anniversy, etc. So, it is cheaper.

If the girl got payment upfront, she will not dance as nice as you may expect. The clubs I go, we want more than just dances and dances on the floor is just table dances. Lap dances are not allow here in Atlanta,ga. Girls will lapdance in VIP. One girl said that she has no problems of lapdancing in VIP, but wanted money upfront. This made me think that she will not comply with what we agreed. She danced but did not lapdance the whole time, but maybe 10 % of the time. She let me touch her breast, but not much. She was somewhat distant. She would say, "let me warm up" to whatever. I have never been treated badly when I pay her after the VIP is done. Another example, I paid for an hour VIP ( was horny ) and paid up front. She was nicer and basically did what she promised but got miscommunicated about "busting a nut". She does not like it for her to get wet. She placed her hanky, but my sweets passed through my pants and the hanky. She was not happy. My VIP lasted only 30 minutes. I got what I wanted, but my time was cut in half. She said that, since I got her wet that it cost me 30 min. I was upset. If I had not paid her upfront, I would have just given her half of the money. I paid for the time and service. Plus, she was tight on how I could touch her. If I did not pay her upfront, I bet she would not said anything. She let other guys on main floor touch her tits which is not allowed. She did not demand more money for that. So, I don't want to pay upfront. It is a gamble on which girl to trust. I was trying to expand my collections of babes.

All girls in a strip club look like strippers. Once a girl is in a strip club and wearing the outfit, she is a stripper. Most guys would think a stripper would always be dropped dead gorgeous girl, however, we know better. I don't understand why club owners don't choose better girls. I don't know any hot girls who appear to be out of place. Maybe not a whore.

Girls with the rating of 8 and above only. NO FAT girls and NO OLD girls. Age restriction should be less than 32. Private rooms with no cameras and with either a solid door or a solid curtain. No peek windows. Law changes required: price control and sex should be allowed. VIP prices should be 150 for 30 min (even with extras, gfe). For an hour, it should be $250. The cost for the room should be free. Lap dances should be ten dollar with mutual touching. The club should also have a kissing booth.

Well, I guess we all would travel 240 miles, if there were no clubs like follies or shooters here in atlanta. If all clubs were like Pink Pony, then Atlanta would be so dull like in Columbus,ga. Good thing that we do have clubs that break the rules.

Well, I guess, what I was trying to say was that you have to go to Atlanta in order to find nice strip clubs. In Florida, you would have to go to Tampa, West Palm, Miami, or whatever. There are more places in Florida then there are in Georgia. I do travel for work and no where other than Atlanta has nice clubs. TimboAtl, cities like Columbia or Tampa do charge $20 per song, but better looking girls. Only Follies provide true lap dances. Good point on VIP part. However, it is not as private as you think. Mardi Gras has a window for manager to look in and camera in the room. Pink Pony has no door or curtain. Follies has bead curtain. Only Oasis and Shooter's alley have solid curtain. So, it is not that great. Platinum Plus in columbia is fun. However, can you get more than just lapdances there??

Glad to hear. There are a lot of dancers who prefer guys to throw money to them for free. One dancer prefers to sit with you and make her money without doing much dancing or provide mileage in VIP. Some guys do want a dancer to speak and simply enjoy talking to her. That's crazy. She should speak with you for free, especially, if he is a regular. Some dancers like to make bigger bucks in the VIP and provide no extra mileage. For example, Pink Pony does not allow girls to straddle. So, they are table dancing like they do on the floor. Some guys wise up and just have the girls dance on the floor at $10 per song. They have the girl at least 2 hours, because the guy would have her dance 3 song at a time and then chat with her and buy drinks. Plus, the table dance consists some flirtation ( some touching ). Granted, in the VIP, you could touch breast, but for the price of $200 or more for 30 minutes is too high. You be the judge, 30 min versus 2 hours. So, I would not take the girl to VIP without some extra mileage (true lapdancing (straddle), kissing, sex). Plus, you can find a club that would do friction dancing. So, some clubs do let the dancers charge too much, because they can get a bigger share of their earnings. So, guys be thrifty! Make these girls earn their money! Perhaps, they should do away with VIP all together. Some girls do promise extra mileage and then ask for the money up front. Then, they don't follow up with what they say they will do. Then you feel cheated. You can't complain. She just won't get repeat business by you. You can share with other customers that night, but she wins. I have met a few of these cons over the years. They don't last though.

I have fallen twice. The first one was more fun. My first actually moved in with me. I had many wonderful time with her and bad ones, too. Was it worth the trouble. I think it was an experience to write a book about. My second one is weird. She just did not trust me, even though, we spend a good amount of time. Guess, 6 months is not long time for her. It was for me. I got too personal and she panic. I learn a lesson. Don't get too attached!! I still love her though. It will take a long time to forget her.

Brad is right. It affects clubs like goosebump and others like the ones on Cheshire Bridge. Doraville is not affected. If it was, then Oasis would too. Both are outside the perimeter. Not everything inside the perimeter is affected either. Pink Pony won't be affected. It is basically fulton co. However, would this law or ordinance spread?

Well, I was not serious about suing. I was just upset about the whole situation. However, I will walk away. If I was an owner of the strip club, I think I could run it better.

It is not so much a vendetta. The club and Paris have hurt me, when i did not pose harm to them. Yes, perception has an effect, but the facts are that I did not committ what she aluded me to. Plus, the club ban me simply because she is not comfortable and did not wnat other dancers to be uncomfortable. Paris did not get hurt physically and she impose the emotional part herself. She could have resolved it by hearing me out and giving me the benefit of doubt. So, I endured more pain than they did. I deserve something here. The club owes me punity damages. I want to sue them. I just don't think I have a case here.