Going to Strip Clubs, Wast of time??
whghIost
Georgia
I go because it sorta fills the void. It is not always what I expected. There are women who don't need to be dancing nude. It takes an actress who can pretend to like you and make you feel somewhat happy. She can set her own rules as to what she is willing to do. However, there is collateral damage, when it comes to any men's hearts. One can fall for the dancer and it is so hard to rid that feeling. It is even tougher, if the dancer sense it. She may ignore you or stop pretending. So, is it waste of time? You may fun, but.. watch out.. feelings can come out of no where. Plus, there is also, con artists out there, too. Some dancers will bait you and said that he will have a great time and then it was the worst time. Once I find a dancer I like, I tend to stick and be loyal. Guess, like all things, nothing ever last forever. I wish it could last a year or two, rather than six months. Sure, this may be a waste of time, since it is just for fun.
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His unhappiness is why he always told me that crapola (that he honestly believed) that *I* didn't money. Bottom line there are people who have much more money than they'd ever wish to spend and for whatever reasons they ain't happy. They might even rather waste time in a stripclub and get something valuable like a good time and entertainment rather than something worthless like more money. IOWs, for some the stripclub is a much better deal than the stock market.
A person may perceive it as a "waste of time" in that they could or should have been doing something else. That something else is normally making money or positioning oneself to make money e.g. higher education.
It can also be a "waste of time" in retrospection. For example, I loved spending time with my girlfriend. That wasn't the point. I desired more of a permanent type relationship wherein she desired more of a government marriage type relationship e.g. if the relationship fails the government should beat the living hell out of me. Her demand for a government marriage was a deal breaker after over a decade together----I didn't recover from the loss for many years. I wasted a lot of time that could have been better spent nurturing relationships with strippers. :)
Excellent post TUSCL_Brother. But, for a tiny minority it is an easy and fun job. That is a tiny minority, which feels like that. I had this sweetie over at Angels and probably the last thing on her mind was making money. Yes, I did pay her----it was like forcing money on her and then she'd insist on doing free dances. Some customers didn't like it because they just want to cum fast and go. They wouldn't like her wanting to spend time hanging out and she wasn't interested in just doing a fast service.
Of course *some* are Bones...you should know better than that by now! The best description of a stripper that I've ever heard of came from a stripper's mouth herself: "We are professional money-makers." There is nothing wrong with that IMO...
Does your congressman get lap dances?
Making fun relationships. Good!
Looking for love in all the wrong places. Not good!
So...
Chill out. Have fun. Escape one day at a time. Sooner or later you'll discover reality. Just be realistic along th3e way.
The woman that I should be looking for is lower income and lower education and counter-culture or ghetto culture or red neck culture. A stripper or hooker is ideal. A teacher not so much. A secretary not so much.
And, it seems like most strippers realize that they're actually better off with the loser boyfriend than some upstanding citizen. Too bad the upstanding citizen can't comprehend that. I did see some strippers getting wet over military men, especially if the men were rough cut.