Comments by RomanticLover (page 15)

To "phoenixxxblaque" - I have posted about guys who take advantage of strippers in the past. Some guys who MANIPULATE strippers and use them for their MONEY are actually PATHETIC LOSERS who would like to make MONEY themselves but they are NOT CAPABLE so they MANIPULATE strippers and take their MONEY. Some of these guys LOOK DOWN on strippers who sell SEXUAL FAVORS but DO NOT look down on themselves for BUYING SEXUAL FAVORS (at least they may not admit it)

who wants to reply?

any comparisons?

What's with the "friendship" that "only stays in the club"? How is this real "friendship"?...... or is it only LIES and DELUSIONS?????

To "kitana007" - It may be OBVIOUS to you and I that strippers are often NOT INTERESTED in having anything to do with their customers when they are not being PAID. However, there may be customers who actually believe (or are in DENIAL) that the reason that a stripper that they spend MONEY on INSIDE THE CLUB is REFUSING to see them OUTSIDE THE CLUB because she is worried about her SAFETY and therefore needs more time (while the customer is spending MONEY) to "get to know" the customer better. I think some of these "men" who believe these LIES may be LOSERS, how about you?

To "FONDL" - It may surprise you that I KNOW that there are strippers out there who want EMOTIONAL SUPPORT. Let me ask you this - during the time that you have known your "FRIEND", how often did she PAY for anything when you went out with her? Please keep in mind that her OFFERING to PAY for something once in a while may not be good enough! Strippers sometimes make a half-assed offer to PAY (which may include them COMPLAINING about not making enough MONEY) in order to PRETEND that they are not complete LEACHES. Even if this girl is genuine and has ACTUALLY PAID some of the times you went out with her, it is still possible that you are being PLAYED by other strippers. Some folks may be quite surprised that a girl who may SEEM SWEET and INNOCENT actually LIKES being FINGERED, FUCKED IN THE ASS, GANGBANGED! Is this the kind of stripper you want to spend MONEY on? Strippers often put on an ACT, even OUTSIDE THE CLUB, especially if a customer is spending MONEY on them. If a stripper seems to be feeling better about herself because of encouragement and MONEY that a customer is giving her that DOES NOT mean that she has given up ANAL PENETRATION, both PENILE and DIGITAL, and does not mean that she has given up hanging around with guys who have questionable moral character.

What about the BOYFRIEND?

To "phoenixxxblaque" - The dancer in the situation you described can give the customer her PHONE NUMBER and arrange to meet him OUTSIDE THE CLUB for FREE if she is busy making MONEY INSIDE THE CLUB and if she is a TRUE FRIEND. If the stripper DOES NOT WANT to spend time with the customer INSIDE or OUTSIDE the club for FREE then she is probably NOT A FRIEND!!!!!!!

To "phoenixxxblaque" - What makes you think that I have low self esteem? (please elaborate) About the customers who PAY strippers for CONVERSATION - the problem with that sometimes is that the customer is HOPING and/or TRYING to BUY A GIRLFRIEND/RELATIONSHIP/FRIENDSHIP with the stripper and that is why he is PAYING for CONVERSATION. Have you read posts on various websites about "men" who "know they can't have" the stripper that they are PAYING for CONVERSATION? Seems reasonable that they are hoping, though. Sometimes, some customers who PAY strippers for CONVERSATION are in deep DENIAL and PRETEND that the stripper is actually going to like them and see them OUTSIDE THE CLUB because of it.

To "phoenixxxblaque" - The love may come when more strippers choose to act TRUTHFUL and STRAIGHTFORWARD even at the risk of someone not liking them and/or not spending MONEY on them. There may be more posted about this later. Your post did not adress the problem with customers who are PAYING strippers for CONVERSATION - There may be customers out there, MANY customers who are PAYING strippers for conversation because they are TRYING/HOPING to turn the "fantasy" into the REALITY of having a real FRIENDSHIP/RELATIONSHIP with the stripper they are PAYING for CONVERSATION. If these men knew FOR SURE that PAYING a stripper for CONVERSATION would NOT get them any FRIENDSHIP/RELATIONSHIP with the stripper, at least some of them would not pay for conversation.

You seem to be writing about tipping a stripper EXTRA MONEY in addition to the RIDICULOUSLY OVERINFLATED price of TWENTY DOLLARS per dance. Have you ever read and UNDERSTOOD anything written on ANY strip club message board?

To "parodyman" - Some men who have had REAL FRIENDSHIPS/RELATIONSHIPS with strippers have figured this out! If a stripper PAYS some of the time when you are hanging out with her (unless she is paying small, token amounts) either INSIDE or OUTSIDE the club then she may actually be spending time with you because she LIKES YOU! If you are PAYING for everything ALL of the time then there is high probability that she ONLY WANTS YOUR MONEY! Do YOU ("parodyman") ALWAYS PAY for everything when you spend time with a stripper? (I have a feeling I can guess the answer)

Tipping for "friendliness and conversation" - That may sound like someone trying to BUY FRIENDSHIP and AFFECTION! What about PROFESSIONALISM???? Is that the "professionalism" of a stripper with years of experience of SELLING SEXUAL SERVICES????? To "phoenixxxblaque" - Strippers generally don't come to work because they feel sorry for PATHETIC LOSERS who PAY FOR AFFECTION and/or CONVERSATION! Strippers want MONEY! Why should someone who a stripper REFUSES to see OUTSIDE THE CLUB or even tell her REAL NAME and PHONE NUMBER to sympathize with that stripper? It has been written many times that strippers generally see customers ONLY AS A SOURCE OF MONEY so it seems FOOLISH for a customer to pay an OVERINFLATED price because he sympathizes with a stripper.

To "komey1970" - Let's say that some "men" are AVOIDING REALITY - If a stripper (or a girl who is not a stripper for that matter) sometimes PAYS for things that you do together that cost MONEY, there is a better chance that she is actually your FRIEND than a stripper who EXPECTS her customer (who she may call "FRIEND") to PAY for everything

To "FONDL" - A good way to find out if a stripper really likes you is to avoid spending money on her and see if she still hangs around with you. You need to do this several times because sometimes a stripper may talk to you for free once or twice in order to make you THINK that she really likes you. However, if you repeatedly DO NOT SPEND MONEY she may stop hanging around with you if she is REPULSED by you.

To "Dandydan" - Wow, I'm impressed (I am being sarcastic). Are you spending MONEY on this dancer? Did you ASK her for her PHONE NUMBER? Did you ASK her if she WANTS to spend time with you OUTSIDE THE CLUB for FREE? It may be too soon to jump to conclusions about AFFECTION.

a chance for true feelings?

To "DandyDan" - It seems to me like you don't get it! If a stripper gets mad at you for ASKING for her PHONE NUMBER, it may mean that she DOES NOT LIKE YOU, or at least DOES NOT LIKE YOU enough to spend time with you when she is not being PAID to. If you are spending MONEY while HOPING/TRYING to get a stripper's PHONE NUMBER then you may be WASTING MONEY. If you are spending MONEY trying to get a stripper's E-MAIL address, there is an even bigger chance that you are wasting MONEY.

To "Komey 1970" - It seems to me like YOU don't get it! "DandyDan" seems to be thinking (if I am reading his post correctly) that the stripper who gave him her E-MAIL address actually LIKES HIM. What I am saying is that OFTEN, when a stripper gives a customer who regularly gives/pays her MONEY her E-MAIL address but REFUSES to give that customer her PHONE NUMBER or HOME ADDRESS, it is an indication that she is ONLY INTERESTED IN HIS MONEY and DOES NOT really LIKE him. In fact, a stripper giving a customer her E-MAIL address while REFUSING to give out any other personal information may actually be a MORE INTERESTED IN HIS MONEY than a stripper who REFUSES to give ANY personal information.

Strippers may sometimes actually LIKE the customers who they talk to for FREE for HOURS while telling their REAL NAMES and PHONE NUMBERS

Strippers have been known to LIE about how long they have been stripping. "White knights" who try to "rescue" strippers from the stripping lifestyle may get told this LIE more often. Some "white knights" may be JUDGMENTAL of strippers in the sense that the "white knight" may THINK that it is SOMEWHAT ACCEPTABLE for a girl who comes from a bad background and/or is going to school but UNACCEPTABLE for a girl to be a stripper because she ENJOYS SEXUAL ACTIVITY. These "white knights" sometimes get PLAYED by strippers who may see them as SUCKERS and some strippers may actually DISLIKE "white knights" because the stripper may think the "white knight" THINKS that he is MORALLY SUPERIOR to the stripper

What do you think of men going to strip clubs who are HOPING/TRYING to BUY AFFECTION in strip clubs while PATHETICALLY trying to BUY EMOTIONAL FULFILLMENT

Any strippers care to comment?

What about the sexual favors?

let's get some more here