lap dance tipping etiquette
What is the proper etiquette for tipping on a $20 lap dance? I usually don't tip unless it was really good, then I throw in an extra $5. Am I considered a cheap ass? Seems like the $20 IS the tip.
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Anyway, I hate to admit it but I actually agree with something that RL said. If a girl treats me as just another wallet I rarely tip her more than I absolutely have to. As RL says, why tip a girl who is only after your money? The only girls I tip generously are those I know really well and who treat me as a real person.
To "phoenixxxblaque" - Strippers generally don't come to work because they feel sorry for PATHETIC LOSERS who PAY FOR AFFECTION and/or CONVERSATION! Strippers want MONEY! Why should someone who a stripper REFUSES to see OUTSIDE THE CLUB or even tell her REAL NAME and PHONE NUMBER to sympathize with that stripper?
It has been written many times that strippers generally see customers ONLY AS A SOURCE OF MONEY so it seems FOOLISH for a customer to pay an OVERINFLATED price because he sympathizes with a stripper.
As for myself I have been going to clubs for quite a while and I know the ladies are lucky if they take home 33% of what they take in on any given night. Unless I feel the dancer was trying to rip me off, (dosen't happen that often but every once in a while you run into someone who is dishonest.) I always tip! But what I tip definately depends on the level of service. I don't necessarily mean mileage but conversation, friendliness, and professionalism all factor in.
and,while we are on this subject,lets bring up everything that i have to pay for to make me and ladies like me that perfect sexy fantasy..taning bed sessions(over a hundred a month)trips to the hair/nail salon,gym memberships(600 a year)nice clothes,nice shoes,eating healthy food so we dont look all flabby,..what,you think all this crap is freei suppose???you want the fantasy,that ok,but realize,just as for you,also for us,it aint for free..we have to pay for it too,ok?and on top of that....considering all that i tip out at night,all that i pay for to look the part,plus all the physical labor that goes into it,i,ll be damned if i,m doing all that for 5 measely dollars a dance...you feel 20 bucks is too much?you have conviction behind your words?great..you get onstage and you do it then for 5 bucks....more power to you.....but 20 bucks is a fair price.guys like you come into clubs wanting that sexy fantasy,well,that fantasy means continued investment in the self....neverending maintenance in every way possible...that 15 minutes you spend in our company(or more)well,be aware that HOURS went into that appearance to make it look appealing.later
I've been known to tip double or better for "extraordinary service," but this falls into the "YMMV" area