There may still be "men" out there who think that they have formed a FRIENDSHIP

Is a "FRIENDSHIP" that is only INSIDE THE CLUB similar to a "FRIENDSHIP" with a wallet?

Why would a REAL FRIENDSHIP stay inside the club?

RL,
Do you believe it
I'm in DENIAL! That's why I GO to strip clubs. I tip, buy drinks, lap dances, etc....... from FRIENDLY dancers beacuse they ARE friends. I'm very much in DENIAL beacuse that's how you make FRIENDS at stripclubs.

Would YOU believe it??

Well I've had a few girls I've met at clubs and I would definately say we were friends, since I;ve seen them OTC, they call me every so often and that is just to hi and see how I am doing. These few are friends to me since I've know some for several years and the relationship is the same as anyone else I would call a frend.

Can you tell?

Is it FRIENDSHIP?

I have this friend who I've never seen outside her work although she has mentioned maybe going to the gym together, which we're both into. She's in her early 20's, a very intelligent college student, and very pretty, just the type of girl that I like. She's also very spiritual which I also like.

Anyway when I go to see her we usually talk for awhile, then go into this small private room where clothes come off, then there's a lot of touching to nice music, and when we're done I give her money. And even though we only see each other at these times I think we both consider each other friends.

I love getting massages from a really good licensed professional like her, it's very relaxing. But I guess some of you wouldn't consider us to be true friends since there's always money involved. Some of you would say that she's only nice to me because I'm a customer.

What's with the "friendship" that "only stays in the club"? How is this real "friendship"?...... or is it only LIES and DELUSIONS?????

"FRIENDSHIP" only at the club??????????

and just in case there is anyone that didn't get my sarcastic humor in the post above. Please look at the names on your money. :)

There is such a thing at "club only friendships"meaning,you meet the young lady in the club while shes working,talk to her,and you strike up a friendship of sorts that stays ONLY at the club and no other place,because that is the only place you can talk to her...if you are a man,and you step in a club,you are a client,first and foremost..you are business.even if we talk to you and we strike up a friendship with you,you are STILL business...what we do is the same as if we were sales clerks at a mall,or cooking food at a resteraunt...we have a job to do to make money,thats why we are there...in club friendships are just nice bonuses that happen from time to time...talking to nice people makes the night go by quicker and easier.

friendships are no problem..but if i sense that a person is getting too emotinally attached to me becaause hes lonley or whatnot,i,ll do the right thing and politely and carefully set the person straight,without hurting their feelings and rejecting them...i have a heart too,and i know what its like to have that heart hurt,so i dont do it to other people.some dancers prey on lonley,emotionally hungry men..i dont...as a dancer i have many responsiblities...to entertain,to make a person feel better if they,ve had a trying day..and if they start to go down the wrong path and want more then entertainment with me,to gently put things back into place....i think dancers who coo love words or pretend feelings they dont have for the sake of fattening their purses are disgusting..and its also risky...situations like that can lead to stalkers.broken hearts and hurt feelings can make a person do harmful things if provoked in the wrong fashion.thats why i keep things straight and honest.i try to see things not just from my point of viuew,but from th epoint of view of the person who might be looking at me...later

I believe RL is actually making some sense here. I can give some examples of some "men" who stick to the strippers like glue but they get tossed around like they are nothing serious. I believe one "man" Mr. George Washington seems to stick to all the girls and they act like he is their friend. Then on occasion you see another "man" who is friendly with even more girls. His name I believe is Mr. Lincoln. Some "men" like Mr. Jackson prefer to be seen hanging out with the girls in the lap dance area. I believe these "men" stick around dancers all the time and may be paying to get affection. I don't believe they are true friends. As soon as the dancers leave a club, they are ready to get rid of these guys and trade them off for something better. Just my two cents here.