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6 years ago
I don't recall ever getting any questions like that when I go to a local hotel. Mostly I get indifference and occasional amused looks with a rare look I assume is jealousy from the guy wishing he was with my date. Maybe I just don't notice because I really don't care.
adopt that attitude. Just don't care what others think. Act natural when you check in. There are many reasons you might check in. Fight with the wife, work on your house, you plan on getting drunk, a night away from the kids so you can rest.
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6 years ago
You should tip housekeeping by leaving money when you leave.
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6 years ago
I noticed where they pulled their info. tripadvisor and yelp. I don't believe either is anonymous. The best clubs are not likely to get reviewed on such sites.
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6 years ago
I don't think it would work on a NJ summer night. Way too humid. lap dances would be very unpleasant. You both stink and stick to everything.
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6 years ago
I am assuming this isn't one of our new troll class.
In forty years I have never had issues. There are some hotels that had problems with LE and will not give you a room if they think you are up to no good. They would rather lose the customer than their license.
Call ahead and confirm a room first. They probably won't ask for too much information. "Hello, this is K, I need a room for the night. " Once they say yes, tell them you will be right there. They aren't going to suddenly rent out the room. If they ask for a credit card, I always tell them either that I am driving or that I don't feel comfortable giving it out on the phone.
Don't act squirrely when you check in. Go in by yourself, bring an over night bag. check in. Ask for a better room if you don't like the one they gave you. Many motels try to give away the worst room as soon as they can and to someone they don't expect to see again. I learned that when I helped a company deploy property management software at various mom and pop motels and hotels.
try to cultivate a local business. Once they know you are a steady customer that won't cause them trouble, nice tips help, you will find any problems you have disappear. You might even find you don't need to provide ID or Credit Card info any more.
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6 years ago
Building off of Subraman's comment...
For BA in NJ they make a point of the BYOB and the on stage hot seat. At least for BA they are factoring in other items than the hotness of the dancers. In AC I'd say BA does have hot dancers but so does Stilettos. Stilettos has a better variety of dancers and lesbian shows. The odds of OTC are better at Stilettos.
BA is good if you want to hang out with a younger party crowd. There tend to be more women in the audience. You won't pick any of them up and none of them get too wild.
For straight up hot dancers, nude - GGR, Bikini- Bourbon Street
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6 years ago
Bare exposure may be the best in Atlantic City but that is like saying she is the tallest midget.
A better way to describe Bare Exposure is to say it doesn't suck as much as the other clubs in AC.
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6 years ago
I dont want to know, i want it to remain mysterious and magical
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6 years ago
My comment did not make it, Apologies if this is a duplicate
She may not be there because of bad choices. She may choose this over her other options.
Twenty five years ago it was mostly single moms, addicts and women with no other options that provided extras. The Russians and Brazilians that came in may not have other work options but the attitude was there is nothing wrong with being a sex worker and they wondered why more American dancers weren't willing to provide extras. It was easy, good money and it might even be fun.
More recently I have noticed many American dancers have the same opinion. Some have told me they worked regular jobs before dancing and struggled to pay bills, worked more hours than not. Vacations and the finer things were out of reach. Once they started dancing their money issues disappeared.
She might make one hundred before taxes in an office job or as little as seventy five per day in a fast food job. One ten minute lap dance/BJ and she easily does better. The lucky ones find a PL like me that takes them to dinner, perhaps a show and makes sure they have as good a time as I do.
She can always get that crappy job when her looks fade. Why not capitalize on it now?
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6 years ago
Baller
I am sure i am not alone in saying i dont like the drama, i dont seek the drama and i try to avoid the drama but the drama often is there regardless of my intent and efforts.
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6 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
I know some ladies that had stuff posted on at least one of the sites mentioned in the article and similar sites.
Some was posted by another dancer that hated losing customers to a younger prettier new girl. A customer posted all sorts of stuff about one because he found out she had lied about having a boyfriend. He even admitted this is one post and he felt this was her worst sin. Once a person gets some attention on these sites, people pile on and post every story, rumor and picture they can find.
Many of the sites no longer exist so much of it has disappeared. One site removed posts for a variety of reasons. There are still a few items out there but nothing damaging other than her family knows how she and all her friends make a living
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6 years ago
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steeldog65I swear, it's just shrinkage due the cold
It is probably nothing to worry about but get professional advice. If it is a problem, the sooner you catch it and treat it the better
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6 years ago
Relationships are not and cannot be fair. Expecting them to be fair will destroy a marriage
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6 years ago
That's the spirit.
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6 years ago
He isnt even presenting anything worthy of discussion.
Would anyone really take time off if they had three women interested in him?
I think new2 is a teen convinced he will rule the strip club world when he comes of age. If not, he has read a bunch of PUA crap.
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6 years ago
I have not heard of any crackdowns in NJ. If ICE was having an impact on the strippers in any of the clubs I go to, the others would be gossiping about it.
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6 years ago
My advice hasn't changed. if you are not a troll and this is all real, grow a set, man up, make a decision and tell the women what you want. Telling us won't help. Or do you expect us to pass them notes in study hall? Why would you talk to Girl A about what girl B said. Talk to Woman B directly. The only reason to do things as you do is to create tension and drama.
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6 years ago
Sent you a pm
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6 years ago
You are almost there. Try using an ' in contractions and learn to spell "though".
Why involve the manager in this? There is no reason to make trouble for her unkess she makes trouble for you. He won't get rid of her if she makes him money. Dont be surpised if you are banned from the club if you date girl number 2. Most clubs ban BFs from the club
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6 years ago
Newtothislife
I usually reply to obviously troll posts with a comment recognizing it as probably BS but there is still a topic worthy of discussion or perhaps a lurker has a similar question. So here goes
Most men would not kill to be in your situation. Especially not the men on this site. It sounds as if you are into drama. The lack of drama is why I and I believe most men on this site are in this hobby.
If she needs money for groceries and you are so inclined, either give her the money or offer to let her earn it. Or don't give it to her. Be a man and decide. Be a man and stop jerking her around if you want a relationship or not. Grow a set and tell both of these ladies what you want and what you don't want. I expect the behavior you describe from middle schoolers, not a man with power. Women drop hints and skirt around things.
the experiences you posted are far from awesome. Two days ago I spent the evening in a hot tub with a 24 and a 26 year old. The 26 year old was taking her new tits out for a test drive. Awesome was watching them go down on each other. Awesome was the 24 year old blowing me while new tits straddled my face. Awesome was waking up at 5:30 to take a piss and realizing I had two 20 somethings splayed on me. Awesome was showering with each of them in the morning. Not bad for a man more than twice either of their ages. By the way, new tits and I are getting together when she gets off work in a few hours. I'll let the group decide, which of us has the more awesome story?
If you want to be taken seriously,
-fix your posting style, use paragraphs
-Misspellings are fine but at least try
-lurk a little and learn a little of the culture before posting
-I've been at this for 40 plus years and I am far from the senior member. We've done and seen a lot. It will take a lot to impress us.
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6 years ago
"By definition, trolls rarely have a 'game plan' that goes beyond being annoying and stirring pots."
and
"Yep. Just to be annoying. Read any article on studies about trolls, and what kind of people they are, and you'll get it"
I guess I have a problem understanding how someone can be so desperate for something to do when there are so many better choices.
is this how it plays out in their minds? "What should I do today? Read a book, listen to some music, go for a walk, start an actual conversation. No, those are too constructive and I might make a friend. I think I will annoy people instead."
Sorry for the derail.
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6 years ago
Cus? Chic?
Troll? Probably but what is the game plan? To annoy us with poorly formatted, poorly spelled rambles? I can do that myself.
There is no need to show off if you aren't a troll. No one is impressed. Hooking up with strippers is kind of common around here.
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6 years ago
Besides what 25 posted, consider a rewrite to make sure your use of the pronouns "her" and "she" are clear.
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6 years ago
I am with shadowcat. I will also add i prefer those that are a bit selective.