I've noticed over the past few months that it is more and more difficult for me to finish ITC/OTC with a dancer. Last night I was with a fave for an hour in a room, had a blast but didn't finish. 3rd time that's happened to me in the last month and a 1/2. I don't date so it's been a while since I've had civilian sex. And at the age of 54, I'm not sure how much that has to do with this either. Thoughts anyone? To be honest, the ladies seem to enjoy the extended time, and so do I.
I'm 76 and it happens to me once in awhile. I can explain it usually by how well I feel medically and how hot and proficient my dance partner is.
I would get your testosterone checked. I am on the low side of normal and my urologist recommends that I do not get any therapy unless absolutely necessary. The side effects can be worse than the positive ones.
Dr prescribed me a medicine once that as a side effect made orgasm impossible. It went away quickly when I stopped that medicine. Marijuana also can cause delayed ejaculation. So the first thing I would do is to research the side effects of any drugs that you take.
If it’s not drugs then I would talk to a doctor. Testosterone will no doubt be one of the things to check.
Thank you for the input guys. I know my testosterone is OK, I'm thinking this is more of a mental issue for me. I'm just wondering whether the lack of emotional attachment is potentially causing me some issues and I was curious if anyone else had encountered this. I was married for 30 years before my wife passed and I haven't dated since.
You guys are awesome. My weight is fine, 5'11" 200 lbs and I work out. Porn frankly bores me. I think that is why SC's work for me. I will tzlk to my doc and just enjoy the ride so to speak. I do appreciate all the input as you are all correct in mentioning the doctor. I just need to go.
The advice provided is important to take - as seeing a doctor will provide you with valuable information.
A doctor can tell you if your plumbing is working properly - to get the load out. If your plumbing is all good - then it could be an emotional or mental issue causing it.
Itc can be a challenge - if there is minimal privacy and you aren’t comfortable in that environment. Otc should allow you to relax more.
steeldog65 said "I was married for 30 years before my wife passed and I haven't dated since."
Knowing this (and all the other details you posted), I'd say that your issue is probably more mental / emotional than physical. Not uncommon and it can be worked out. But probably not here.
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Juice, I got the same problem. One, maybe two songs and I’m ready to explode. What’s more difficult is knowing the dancer is trying her damnest to get me off, knowing I will tip her for quick service. It’s a fun game trying to hold out as long as you can and she working for you.
Also, are you referring to just getting high mileage dances or bj/fs? If it is just high mileage dances it could be that you aren't as excited by them as you were in the past.
If you're getting a bj/fs experience and nothing is physically wrong ask yourself if you are more stressed than normal. I know that a few years ago when I was going through a career change I was extremely stressed and I found it harder to finish. The ironic thing was that I was going to clubs and seeing dancers otc more often to help relieve the stress but found that faiiling to finish just added more stress.
The only time I've ever had issues was when I was trying to save a dollar and go to fugal chicks...
Looks matter a lot to me.... I've been sucked on by a four and couldn't even get hard.... was fucking a five once and didn't finish because I have up... just was disappointed in myself paying for such low quality
I know shop for nothing lower than a seven and have issues holding back LMFAO
Juice, I am very picky about dancers actually. Normally it takes me quite some time to find one I find attractive and I won't touch one I don't like regardless of $$ or extras offered. My personal threshold is an 8 or better on my scale plus capable of holding a conversation.
It's been a bit of an issue for me of late. Not often with my ATF, but she's gone, not to return. I was with a 30 year old last night and s healthy BJ didn't even get it semi-hard. She apologized and promised to return tomorrow night and to stay as long as it takes. I'm trying Cialis instead of Vitamin V and initial impressions are that I won't get hard like steel, it may take longer to get there but will regurn more quickly.
I ordered more viagra today. Noticed on my credit card receipt that my $$ was converted to crypto-currency.
Juice - after reading your comments - it seems that your weight loss has had a good effect. You have a strong sex drive - and you cum frequently. It sounds very economical too - as you cum quickly itc - so you aren’t wasting money with lots of dances to get off.
Wtf - why be concerned if the dancer cums? They get creamy when they see your roll of bills! Lol!
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I'm nowhere near 54. I find it damn near impossible to finish in a club, unless I'm totally inebriated which I hardly ever am.
sex in the club it's just not comfortable enough to finish in for me. But I'm pretty physically active sexually which is probably why.
I would get your testosterone checked. I am on the low side of normal and my urologist recommends that I do not get any therapy unless absolutely necessary. The side effects can be worse than the positive ones.
If it’s not drugs then I would talk to a doctor. Testosterone will no doubt be one of the things to check.
A doctor can tell you if your plumbing is working properly - to get the load out. If your plumbing is all good - then it could be an emotional or mental issue causing it.
Itc can be a challenge - if there is minimal privacy and you aren’t comfortable in that environment. Otc should allow you to relax more.
Knowing this (and all the other details you posted), I'd say that your issue is probably more mental / emotional than physical. Not uncommon and it can be worked out. But probably not here.
Good luck.
In case you are not aware, you can turnoff notifications in your profile so you don't get an email-alert every time some post to your thread - once someone opens a thread there's no telling/controlling when people will stop posting to it.
SJG
Also, are you referring to just getting high mileage dances or bj/fs? If it is just high mileage dances it could be that you aren't as excited by them as you were in the past.
If you're getting a bj/fs experience and nothing is physically wrong ask yourself if you are more stressed than normal. I know that a few years ago when I was going through a career change I was extremely stressed and I found it harder to finish. The ironic thing was that I was going to clubs and seeing dancers otc more often to help relieve the stress but found that faiiling to finish just added more stress.
Meat lord I agree on that kind of fun
What's wrong with me guys... I've lost a hundred pounds and jerk off damn near daily to all kinds of porn on the Hub.
I'm able to bust a nut with a dancer in two song's... if I get actual sex I'm cumming in one song or half that song LMFAO
Looks matter a lot to me.... I've been sucked on by a four and couldn't even get hard.... was fucking a five once and didn't finish because I have up... just was disappointed in myself paying for such low quality
I know shop for nothing lower than a seven and have issues holding back LMFAO
Maybe it's a quality issue
I ordered more viagra today. Noticed on my credit card receipt that my $$ was converted to crypto-currency.
Wtf - why be concerned if the dancer cums? They get creamy when they see your roll of bills! Lol!
I hope she’s gentle and uses lube - and buys me a glass of Chardonnay before...
Chardonnay? Better be Woodford Reserve Double Oak for me to bend over, a reach around and a kiss to start.