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6 years ago
Njballa
I can think of several nj clubs where it is common. This is one of the key reasons i refuse to let these ladies kiss me itc.
Do you get to the den, ph or showplace?
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6 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
I get texts, emails, phone calls and even an occssional stop in often. She needs a ride, money, advice, a night out. I politely decline most. My response gets stronger if my first one is ignored. By the third or fourth i make it very clear one more will get her blocked.
It is part of this hobby. Sometimes i do grant the request. Any that abuse it get filtered out quickly so it usually is a genuine emergency.
Why not help out someone if it wont hurt me? Id give you a ride if i knew you half as well as i know these ladies.
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6 years ago
In nyc? I assume you mean manhattan. Brooklyn, bronx, staten island and queens are all part of nyc. There are others that will disagree but i consider manhattan a wasteland for strip clubs.
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6 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
No need for the app. you can just use the web site. I use it often
https://www.wine-searcher.com/
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6 years ago
They like looking at a variety of beautiful naked women just like other men.
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6 years ago
Depends on the woman, the occasion and my mood. Everything from Purely natural to painted whore has a time and curcumstance .
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6 years ago
I follow some on IG, snap and some other social media platforms. I like getting the occasional nude or sex picture or video. A few consider me a friend and i get to see their personal accounts. As for BF? I dont care if they have one or not unless i think it might interfere with our fun. Given the choice, i prefer a single lady.
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6 years ago
Sad or depressed? No. Do i sometimes wish i could stay longer? Yes. Consider talking to a professional if you do feel sad or depressed.
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6 years ago
Why only you? It may not be only you, you just pay attention to hiw she treats you.
Other guys she treats poorly never repeat with her.
She knows she can treat you with contempt and you will be back. She might even think you like it.
Man up. Tell her clearly what you want. Take your business to another lady if she doesnt give you what you want
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6 years ago
Since i posted my grumpy old men comment, i cannot stop thinking of burgess meredith and the out takes from the movie grumpy old men. I like to think he would fit in here and would be honored to be in his clique
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6 years ago
I prefer the name grumpy old men for that clique.
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6 years ago
I have had and currently have relationships similar to what you describe. How did they end? Each in their own way. Some ugly, some well. I am still friends with some and have posted about this in the past particularly one that has lasted about twenty years.
Most just taper off as life or other interests get in the way. Some ended abruptly when she left the business or got into a relationship.
The ugly was never too bad. It was mostly abusive texts and phone calls when I refused to bail them out of a financial situation or they got too drunk or high and said or did the wrong thing.
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6 years ago
"How dare she not love him back? What a fucking whore."
Kindly show where any of us post anything like that.
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6 years ago
Back to the OP, assuming it is real and for the lurkers and newbies that might think "she is different, what we have is real"
You created a new identity to post. This is an anonymous board so you could have used your usual login unless some of us have met you IRL. In which case they have probably figured out who you are. Tell us your usual login if you want the troll accusations to stop.
The relationship you describe in your OP is common. You have a P2P relationship with some genuine affection. Many of us have these relationships. They are great.
In your follow up posts you mention things like marriage material, making a play for her and she is different. None of these things fit with your OP of "just having fun". That takes us back to you are a troll or an idiot. Not because you have feelings for a woman but because you contradict yourself within a few posts and argue it when it is pointed out to you.
Assume she isn't different until she proves other wise. Cashman had good advice, pretend to be broke and see if she meets up with you or even keeps in touch with you. As for cashman's spot on comment about her relationship is with your money, I think the you admit this when you write you won't see her when you are broke.
Friends and girlfriends usually remember and give presents on special days like holidays and Christmas. Does she remember you and give you gifts? Does she ask you what are your plans for her special days like her birthday? Does she tell you about her personal life and about those people special to her. Not just the problems. Not just her plans for the future that require money.
Does she tell you what books, movies or music she likes now? Or does she only talk about herself and her problems? Is money the solution to those problems?
Girlfriends and women friends try to fix the men in their lives. If all she does is tell you how great you are and she never offers up any critical advice or suggestions about your wardrobe, grooming habits or how much money you spend on strippers, she isn't your friend of girlfriend, she is your employee.
This post is already long so I will stop here. Perhaps we need an article , if we don't already have one, on how to tell if "she is different"
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6 years ago
If you are willing to pay the extra fee, appear in person and have proof of travel within the next couple of weeks, it is easy, painless and you walk out with a passport and passport card
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6 years ago
Yes. It has been a few years but i used the one in nyc. I made my appointment online. It was painless
Bring proof of travel and all request documentation. I was seen within minutes of my appointment time. My passport was ready that afternoon.
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6 years ago
Gina lynn at what is now centerfolds in neptune. I think it was still heartbreakers then but i am not sure.
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6 years ago
I agree with flagooner on that one. Unless i have enough of a relationship she knows i will take care if her at the end.
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6 years ago
This is a common issue. Make sure she knows you arent getting dances. Tip her well. If a five minute dance is 20, she probaly keeps half. 10 for every five minutes is a good start point. Adjust up or down depending on how busy it is. She may only be keeping you company and passing up other dances because of past and future business. Adjust up or down based on your hope for otc.
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6 years ago
It looks like BE is uogradung their talent. It is a shame i cant get down there this weekend
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6 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
NJballa,
in general I agree with you about club 35. But those problems don't bother me as much as their hand in my pocket every five feet. Parking fee, entrance fee, mandatory coat check, Mandatory tips, and you pay extra to sit in certain areas.
The only reason I ever go is someone I know is having a party there. I am amazed at how happy most guys are to have a shitty time as long as they don't realize it is a shitty time.
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6 years ago
It may be tourist season in AC but the week nights will probably suck. You will not want to stay at the inexpensive hotels in AC.
I am sure a few of us would come visit if you let us know where you end up
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6 years ago
The AC clubs suck. At least from a customers point of view. I know several dancers that work a few nights at GGR in laurence harbor and do a friday or saturday at their sister club stilletos in AC. They do well
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whodeyFat bastard that can afford to fuck hot strippers
It is entirely possible he went into the club while I was there. All women become 10's when my dick is in their mouth.
Putting aside my feeble attempt at humor, an attractive women paying attention to him might make her a 10. The more likely answer is he wants it to be a great night.
Some of these guys go so infrequently they don't dare go and have only a good time. It must be an amazingly great time. The women were tens and wild. You wouldn't believe what they got away with.