Customers that like drama
Tuesday, July 31, 2018 7:46 PM
At the request of PaulDrake: "You have posted a few times about customers that actually want drama. You should make a more detailed post about that and your experiences sometime as I don't think it has ever been discussed before." It's been about a week since he asked this, but here is the reply.
1. One example of drama customers are the ones who had no intention of spending money. These guys come in with the fantasy like any other PL, but in their case, the fantasy is "I can get pussy anytime I want. I don't need to be here." They will talk excessively and not let you get a word in edgewise. Their goal is to suck up as much of your time as possible. And when you excuse yourself they like to either tell you either explicitly or implicitly that your personality or looks aren't up to par anyways.
2. Another high drama personality type is the status-oriented one. Usually, they are in a career such as law, sales, corporate executives etc. From a dancer's point of view, they are good in the sense that they are a quick decider. They are bad in the sense that they may be harsh when they don't want you.
Once, there was a customer who had just walked into the club. I barely noticed him because I was trying to make a beeline for the restroom. (I had to pee.) He stopped me briefly to give me a hug. I was confused but I smiled at him, and told me that I would be right back.
I forgot about him and went off to sit elsewhere. (To get rejected for a dance by someone.) That was when another dancer walked up to me and told me there was a man in the cabana who wanted us both. We both go in together, and he tips her and tells her to leave (in a rather brusque manner) He tells me that all he wanted was me there.
I spent the next couple of hours agreeing with various statements that implied he was a very important person.
It was favorable for me, and unfavorable for the other dancer. Men like him enjoy playing other dancers off each other and deciding who is worthy of him.
3. Another kind of drama type of customer are the types that like to have stacks of money on their table. Their motives are just the same as customer type #2, except these customers tend to be younger and also more "ghetto." But they also enjoy blatantly deciding who is worthy of their stack and who is not. Sometimes they do this by making it rain on certain girls. Other times it's whoever sits with them at their table.
4. Another dramatic type is the Regular In Love. These are the ones who, past their generous phase, start demanding more personal time for less money. Some of that is to be expected, but then their demands tend to get insatiable. Sometimes they can be worked with, but other times they have to be cut off.
5. Another type is a just a club regular in general. He will maintain at least 2 CF in the same club. He doesn't try to schedule them apart. He likes to toy with them and bait them to compete with each other. (SMH when the dancers fall for it and start getting beef with each other.)
6. Another type of drama customer is a female who is "one of the guys." She's with a group of dudes and she has something to prove. She wants to insult you, either explicitly or implicitly, and will let you know that she can easily do your job but she's above all that.
(In my experience, the one who is simply with a boyfriend is mostly likely just there to monitor behavior. She might not be friendly, but I don't see her as drama oriented persay.)
If I think of any other types, I'll update the thread describing them.
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