You can't save them
rickdugan
Verified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
Wednesday, May 22, 2019 1:58 PM
I post here and on another site and it never ceases to amaze me how some p4p customers think that they can save some girl from bad choices. Well you can't, because she doesn't really want to be saved, especially by you.
You don't think she's heard all the same shit that you're saying a million times now since she was little? Do you really believe that your message may be more accepted because you show some true caring? LMAO. Two points seem to be lost on you if you hold these beliefs.
First, she doesn't necessarily value the same things that you do and really doesn't want to hear the same shit one more time. To the extent that she tolerates your blathering and other "saving" efforts, it is because she is collecting $$$ or other benefits from you. At best you are making her life more difficult with your behavior and, at worst, you're doing that while also enabling her continued downward spiral by feeding her even more cash.
Second, even if she was finally ready to hear it, she wouldn't want to hear it from you. She will never view you as a voice of moral authority if you are trying to fuck her, but rather just one more guy trying to use her for something. There is no such thing as the noble pervert. Either you're the guy truly trying to help her or the guy paying her for sex - you don't get to be both.
So accept what you are and what she is and take it for what it is. Or, if you really care more about saving some chick than getting laid, then stop paying them for sex and join a drug addict outreach program instead. Because saying that you want to save them while further feeding their drug habits with fast cash is a ridiculous form of hypocrisy.
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