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16 years ago
I remember not too long ago one young dancer was complaining to me that I seemed to only be getting dances from the older dancers. She wanted to dance for me. I declined. She made me remember I don't care to get clumsy dances from inexperienced dancers. I'm wondering if this topic is about in the club dances or OTC activities.
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16 years ago
If I know a dancer won't take her top off on stage, I usually won't ever approach the stage. Why bother if she doesn't want to attract any customers?
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16 years ago
I have a lot of fun playing with boobs but many girls seem to enjoy that too. The last time I was talking about breasts was on a financial news site. The subject, court overturned the Janet Jackson boob display case. Apparently many of the guys there are interested in boobs and money even though they are mostly looking for ways to make money on that site.
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16 years ago
You could tell a dancer you only have 20 dollars in ones left. That won't stop her from asking "wanna dance?" Many won't hesitate to take every last dollar.
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16 years ago
I have had several free dances and one dancer gave me a calendar so I guess that's not entirely true.
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16 years ago
I feel deprived. I never got free flowers. The only free thing I got was a bj.
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16 years ago
magicrat made me remember one line one dancer would sometimes say
"you should be dancing for me!"
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16 years ago
Apparently a small percentage of guys get turned on by tons of blubber. I don't understand it. I just hope their favorite strip clubs are ones I never visit.
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16 years ago
I was walking around Walmart tonight, almost deserted too so it was a good night to go shopping, anyway I noticed lots of nice legs on some different girls. I was thinking, they look better than many of the strippers in the strip clubs. Two girls looked like jail bait so I didn't glance over at them for too long. They wore the shortest shorts you could have on. Probably around 18 or 19 but I usually stay away from anyone who looks close to being jail bait. Reminds me of getting a drink out of the water fountain the other day in Best Buy and I suddenly noticed a hot blonde seemed to be checking me out. Nice legs but I was looking upside down while drinking some water. She disappeared into the restroom when I looked over move obviously. They would all be fine looking strippers.
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16 years ago
They have moods they go through and react to how their day has been going. I understand that. I had several dancers come sit in my lap the other night and eventually ask me for a lap dance. As soon as they found out I wasn't getting one, off they went. The affection only lasts as long as the expectations for some green are there.
What can make me nervous is a dancer that I'm not attracted to and she won't leave me alone even after she knows I'm not paying her any money for anything. I vaguely remember one dancer that bugged me several nights. Maybe she thought it was about the money until she offered free dances one night. I still said no. She offered to take me to her house but I still said no. Then a light went off in her head and she must have realized I wasn't attracted to her.
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16 years ago
Trying to save a stripper from stripping is something that happens without trying. Give her 10 to 20 years and most will have moved on. It's just a temporary job. I guess you could always marry a stripper and get her to quit and then support her if that makes you happy.
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16 years ago
I prefer to save strippers from those annoying boobie covers. Let those breasts be free. Save the strippers from those terrible bandages. I've told many strippers that they don't need to put that back on. Same goes for panties or bikinis in a nude club. Many dancers apparently do not realize that guys are visually stimulated. If the dancer looks good to him he may start acting irrationally and start tipping a whole lot more than normal if she gets naked and stays naked. I don't know why some dancers keep their tops on instead of taking it off and getting tips like they typically would.
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16 years ago
I heard last weekend, "hi, I'm a porn star, been in ?? number of movies etc. etc." I forgot how many movies she said. Do you want a dance? For some reason I thought she might be telling me the truth about the porn star part.
I think I like the lines that go like "hi, hot stuff". Maybe it's just fun to hear that from a young 20 year old dancer who still has a big smile on her face when she says that. She is usually smiling which is nice.
One dancer had one line I never heard until a few months ago, it was "I bet you don't even know how good you look."
The other night, I had another very nice looking dancer tell me "you need to get a dance from me. I've never danced for you." Actually I don't remember how long I've seen her around. If I knew her from another club, it could be years. I think I told her maybe later after saying I didn't have much money left.
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16 years ago
I don't really have one. However one dancer told me about her ex-husband who she found out had been cheating on her. She cut up all his clothes and did a few other things. Then she told me before she ever thought about marrying someone again, she would demand to have sex first because the last thing you want to do is end up married to a person who is the pitts in bed.
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16 years ago
hmmmm, maybe I should try to save this one stripper. She told me she was a porn star. Did a number of movies etc. I don't remember everything she was telling me. Now if I could only save her and get her back to her regular job and stop being a stripper....
I did think during a lap dance she was giving me that she was thinking about doing something other than the lapdance as she was looking in between my legs. Maybe I can save her...
Lol, just joking.
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16 years ago
I would typically suggest one of the busier nearby clubs near me. However I think business has been slowing down a whole lot lately. I know how that feels. I expect to see an extra 800 to $1,000 extra in charges for car repairs and insurance this coming month on top of all the higher expenses we all have. I won't be spending too much money for a while in the strip clubs. That doesn't mean I can't afford a few one dollar tips. I noticed a lot of people were even getting pretty stingy with one dollar tips last weekend.
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16 years ago
Certain aspects of a club will appeal to different people. One local club for me Nepals is small, many of the girls are pretty and friendly even though which girls show up one week versus another seems to vary. The waitresses and bartender know the beer you usually drink and it seems to be a friendly fun place to visit. This appeals to certain people. Meanwhile because it is small, the number of customers and number of dancers is low compared to a much larger club. Just a few miles down the road is Platinum Plus. A club that is several times larger. There are lots of dancers working and walking around the club especially during a busy weekend night. The wanna dance hustle factor is here while not really at the smaller club. The music is at times a lot louder. The place is very big inside and can seem less friendly. One place might appeal a lot more to one customer than it does to another. I see pluses and minuses to both but both are different. I believe business may be down at both due to economic conditions. I'm not sure but I have been limiting my spending and will do so even more over the next several weeks because my credit card bill just seems to keep getting higher and higher and I thought I was only buying necessities other than an occasional strip club visit where I never use a credit card.
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16 years ago
I went to a private school too and they told me about 12 inches was normal. So that just means you're just slightly on the small side. No problem though. I keep finding lots of dancers have tiny little pussies. I wouldn't be surprised if you run into some dancers who seem afraid when they see your dick. It's probably just the inexperienced younger dancers. If they have a tiny pussy, it doesn't matter to them how big your dick is unless they're afraid you're going to rip them apart. One girl I knew was excited by the idea so don't despair.
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16 years ago
"You're confused about the concept. This is a stripclub not a dating service."
This is pretty close to what I was thinking after one dancer started talking to me. She was new to dancing. Started giving me all kinds of personal information that I really did not want to know especially right before I got a dance from her. I guess she didn't realize that telling me about her kids, their ages, etc. and her personal situation in life right before a lap dance isn't really a turn on. I would have preferred she tell me this info after a lap dance if she wanted to tell it to me. Instead of letting me fantasize, she fills my head with knowledge of her getting divorced, her 3 kids, their ages, etc. right before she does a lap dance I already agreed to get. She was new to dancing though.
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16 years ago
Must not be any real crime for the police to focus on. Everyone can safely drive 100 down the highway, go hold up a store somewhere, or anything else they want to do. The police are inside the strip clubs looking for a sign that a dancer is grinding too heavily. Taxpayer money well spent wherever that is. Criminals go free why the guy trying to have a little bit of fun is harassed.
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16 years ago
I am wondering as a guy if it's normal to remember all the times you passed up or messed up an opportunity to have sex with a decent looking member of the opposite sex. I seem to remember a few occasions if I could do over, I would just say, what the heck, let's go have some fun. I don't know. I was remembering one girl where I used to work at asked me if we could do at least a one night stand but all night in a hotel room. She asked me in front of a number of regular workers so if I had said yes right there, I would have never heard the end of that. I probably would have been labeled after that. I think almost everyone in that county had a high sex drive. One of the highest teenage pregnancy rates in the country too.
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16 years ago
Just let the dancers know that if it's ok for them to dance for several guys, it's ok for you to get lap dances from whomever you choose. Let them know who's boss. She's the one who wants to have sex with you more than you do with her. At least let her think that.
If she doesn't want to give you lap dances while in the club, there are other girls.
Disclaimer: You have to evaluate people for yourself. My advise may only be as good as what you paid for it. Nothing.
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16 years ago
I had one dancer that was asking me every time I saw her after I slept with her one night. She didn't try to cut out lap dances because she knew I was already getting some from other dancers as well as her. What I didn't realize after I slept with her was that I was being watched like a hawk everywhere in the club by her. She was really pissed when I apparently spent too much time with another dancer and angrily accused me of sleeping with her too in front of half a dozen people. Fortunately the music was loud.
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16 years ago
I think they're waiting to see if I win a million in the lottery. Then if I do they'll suddenly be in love.
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16 years ago
I like youtube.com as well. Sometimes educational, sometimes fun and entertaining.