When does a guy become a slut?
Sunday, July 13, 2008 4:02 PM
This second informal poll relates somewhat to the spending question I posted previously. In our sexist world, we normally use the word "slut" to refer to women, which of course is unfair, given that guys probably sleep around just as much or more than women on average. When, I wonder, do we ever think of ourselves as crossing that line into slutdom?
So I've tried to frame the question in a way that would not require any of us to reveal embarrassing personal information. Here's the question:
How many different girls would you have to sleep with in one 12 month period before you would become too embarrassed to reveal that number to people on this board?
So no one has to give a precise number, I figured a range of options would be proper:
*Anything more than 1
*2 to 5
*5 to 10
*10 to 20
*more than 20
*never
Get it? In other words your self-defined slut threshold would be low if you would be too embarrassed to admit to sleeping with more than 1 woman in a given year. It would be relatively high, on the other hand, if you would not be red faced even for admitting to having sex with more than 20 in the last 12 months.
I'm defining "sex" here a little more narrowly -- it's gotta be at least a blowjob if not actual vaginal penetration. If we included the number of different girls who rubbed your dick in the last year, I know many of you would lose count.
Also, bear in mind it's the number of different sex partners that makes you a slut, not the number of times you have sex. If you have 1 mistress and fuck her every week, then you are only sleeping with two women in the course of the year (the mistress and your wife, assuming you still have sex with your wife, lol).
For myself I would say my slut threshold is pretty high, but it does exist. I would be somewhat chagrined to admit to having sex with more than 20 different women in a given year, but I feel anything less than 20 makes me feel almost virtuous.
So when would you start feeling slutty?
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