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9 years ago
I learned early on what works for me, and I stuck with it.
Same thing about approaching dancers. I used to refuse to do it, and if dancers didn't approach me I would leave the club and not go back for a long time. Now I say 'fuck it' - if I want her I just go get her. Yesterday I watched as a well known UHM dancer approached every guy in the place except me. As she was circling back around I walked over to her and pouted, and asked her why she didn't ask me for a dance. Turns out her english was no bueno, but I did understand her say that she was too shy to come talk to me. Now this girl has been reviewed for many qualities....but shyness wasn't one of them. We went for some dances and they were some of the best dances that I have ever gotten in that club. Had I been too pig headed to approach her, I might have written her off as a bitch and not gone back. Now I got another go-to hottie in the stable :)
Point is - you do what you feel comfortable doing (or have to do) to get what you want.
Auntie Lopaw?
Lol....sister or cousin maybe. But Auntie?
Oh well. That would be a first. :-)
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9 years ago
Yeah, I have. Even now if I visit a club for the first time I will always accept a dance from the first dancer to approach me, whether I like her or not. It sends a message to the other dancers that I am a good customer and that I buy lapdances. It's a small investment that has paid off well.
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9 years ago
@ ATACdawg & Estafador - yeah I know....I get my hopes all up and these girls let me down every time. I am always on the look out for my next protégé. I am determined to prevail!!!
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9 years ago
I've met plenty of wanna-be cosmetologists, real estate agents, and nurses. To date I have only met one dancer who aspired to go into engineering, and I encouraged her as much as I could. I even offered to tutor her (I'm just a giver, you know) and help her get it done right. I saw her right before the holidays and she told me that she had taken a break from school because it was too hard and all the studying interfered with her dancing. I just hung my head and quietly sobbed.
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9 years ago
Honestly most of us veteran mongers know the reality - the only thing making her wet is the bulge of our wallets. But who cares if she sells it and gets the job done? I'm fine with the effort. Now if she doesn't even make an attempt to at least make it a passable acting job, then it's one-dance-and-see-ya.
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9 years ago
Delightful!
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9 years ago
Outstanding!
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9 years ago
I'm afraid that SJG is probably right.
Once you've let the genie out of the bottle, you'll never get him back in.
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9 years ago
Yes....sadly it happens too often.
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9 years ago
Very nice, Phoenix133! You are hot indeed.
You remind me a bit of a dancer that I crushed on very badly when I first started clubbing. Man, she drove me nuts. Similar body and facial features as yours. I wonder whatever became of her........wait a minute!
Is that you, Sativa???????
Nah.....couldn't be.
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9 years ago
@shailynn
I agree with your #1 assessment, tho as more women make their own money, it becomes less of a factor. But you will always have lazy women (and men) who want to leech off of someone else so that they don't have to actually make their own way in this world..
I strongly disagree with #2, tho. I haven't seen any evidence of that phenomenon. Of course beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but I think that the "aging well" issue is about even between the sexes, with no big advantage for men. Aging is as much about genetics as it is about environment, and plenty of older women take great care of themselves and look pretty good. Also- most of the older straight women that I talk to definitely prefer younger guys - the older man thing more plays on the fact that an older guy would likely have more money to spend on them than a young guy would. So they may date older guys, but if given the chance they'll jump into bed with a young stud in a heartbeat.
But JS69 brought up what is probably the biggest factor - once you drown yourself in a pool of 20-something hotties, how could anyone go back to an older lover? Damn near impossible.
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9 years ago
If you're single....why not?
If you're married....it was nice knowin' ya.
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9 years ago
Sorry but I'll bet the photos of the guys in that same age range were pretty disgusting too.
I think that most older women, given the chance, would prefer a much younger guy too. It's how we are all wired - we desire youth. No harm in admitting that.
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9 years ago
Bahahahaha love it!
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9 years ago
I can send you a pussy pic if it will help break up the monotony :-D
And no that offer is not for the rest of you hooligans 0_o
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9 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
I gotta go with rick on this one
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9 years ago
If you want to optimize Cinco de Drinko, wouldn't you prefer to hit up a topless joint so that you can take advantage of all of the 1/2 priced margaritas & cerveza on that infamous day?
There is only one topless place in COI....Satin. Been there a few times. Dances are nowhere near mileage level of the nude clubs in the area, but the women are cute and the booze is cold (I'm told).
Something to consider.....maybe you start there and then hit a nude club?
Just my .02
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9 years ago
Any girl-friendly dancers here would get my vote :)
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9 years ago
Good for you both! It's great to have options :)
Another option (tho potentially as expensive as a SC) would be a couples escort. Many escorts love to entertain couples. Granted you're on the clock but unlike a double's priced LD, most providers don't tack that much more onto their fee for a couple. And if you use a good escort site your chances of getting just the right lady for the two of you is almost guaranteed.
It sounds like you have the right mindset - sampling a bit and going slowly in the beginning is a sound practice no matter what activities you decide upon. Good luck and keep us posted!
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9 years ago
Yeppers.
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9 years ago
@flagooner- no offense taken :)
@shailynn- realtor....that still cracks me up :)
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9 years ago
@flagooner-
In case you weren't aware I'm a gay woman and have absolutely no interest in seeing guys. I want to see pussy just like the rest of the mongers here :)
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9 years ago
I'll be watching the PuppyBowl during halftime.
I loves me some Rhianna, but the football playing puppies are waaaaaaay cute.
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9 years ago
I like the waitress idea.
I've done it a few times and it's worked every time.
The problem was that in some cases the dancer thought that I was paying to own, and I was really just wanting to rent.
Oopsy.
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9 years ago
I would like something like that if I could rent it out privately, which may or may not be fiscally worth it.
The way I see it, any dancers on the rig itself are more like filler in between strip club stops, so even if their quality wasn't top shelf, I wouldn't mind as long as they were friendly and gave decent mileage.
I don't drink when clubbing, and only visit non-alcohol nude clubs so driving has never been an issue. But where I live (not Jersey) there are tons of clubs scattered all over the place, and the idea of a party bus that would drive me and my peeps all over creation on the cheap would be fun.
I'll keep an eye out and see if you guys ever set up here in LA :)