Why do men always assume its bad sex?

Phoenix133
Dance
I get hit on at random a lot by guys, just in town, facebook, work, where ever. And something that always annoys me is when you tell them your taken they automatically assume you have a terrible sex life and that they could do way better then your partner at it. Or they assume well hes got a small dick or something since he stays in a relationship. Is it just males trying desperately to appeal better? Has this honestly ever even worked?

Cause for me personally my guys got a great dick and he knows how to use, I'm very sexually satisfied and get pleased enough as I mentioned before in a different thread my guy and me have sex at least 1 to 2x a day every day some days more. We are happy bunnies and need no other bunnies in the picture. ^_-

Sorry about the complaining stuff a bit since Ive been a way its been like an everyday thing. Guys sending dick pics and so on....Which for most tend to regret it cause I have gotten to the point I just go to google find the strangest or grossest dick pick I can and send it back to them :) It usually gets them to leave me alone and the conversation to stop. I have had a few who still would continue to try after though. -_- it gets old fast. Mostly younger guys do the dick pic thing. And I have had some real try hard older guys though as well.....

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  • flagooner
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    9 years ago
    I would never send you a real picture of of my dick unless I thought you needed a good laugh.
  • Clackport
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    9 years ago
    Lol. I've done that before. I'll say something like "I know he don't hit your spots, if you're with me, you gonna think I invented sex."
  • JohnSmith69
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    9 years ago
    Men don't typically start to mature until around age 50 - 60. but sometimes it takes longer than that.
  • flagooner
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    9 years ago
    And some of us hope we never do fully mature.
  • rockstar666
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    9 years ago
    I get laid a lot more often when I make silly jokes than I do bragging about any alleged sexual prowess. Although with the help of pharmaceuticals I can always hold my own when the jokes fall flat.
  • lopaw
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    9 years ago
    I can send you a pussy pic if it will help break up the monotony :-D

    And no that offer is not for the rest of you hooligans 0_o
  • georgmicrodong
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    9 years ago
    It is, as you surmise, guys trying to appeal to what they perceive to be your desires, and hoping they actually hit the mark with something you might be lacking.

    When a guy tells you he's "better" than your guy in some way, without knowing either of you, it's either a tactic to get in your pants, or insecurity covering about his own self.
  • JamesSD
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    9 years ago
    It's just guys fishing and trying any angle
  • Ch3ll
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    9 years ago
    Back when I was about age 16 - 20 if a girl said she had a boyfriend/man I'd come back with "he's just temporary". Don't recall if it worked much, but in my opinion it was my attempt to see if she was playing hard to get or really wasn't interested. Im 31 now been married and now separated, but nowadays I wouldn't put much effort in or pressure a girl that told me she had a man unless she was complaining about her situation with him.
  • rockstar666
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    9 years ago
    @JamesSD: That's why it's called "angling"...
  • flagooner
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    9 years ago
    Well Phoenix, your BF is a lucky man.
  • crazyjoe
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    9 years ago
    Funny response sending pics back like that phoenix.

    It is true that some guys are trying to find out if you are for real that you have a boyfriend. My ex wife had a guy that kept hitting on her at work that didnt believe she was taken intil he met me. Then he knew she was for real. He never bothered her any more after that. Some guys may figure there is no chance so they are trolling you.
  • crazyjoe
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    9 years ago
    If the latter is the case troll them back
  • GACA
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    9 years ago
    Depending on how long you've been in the relationship, usually sex does tend to get stale, and mist couples don't do enough to bring the passion back
  • mikeya02
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    9 years ago
    @Phoenix.....what's your boyfriend got to do with me? No matter how good he is, I'm better....lol
  • twentyfive
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    9 years ago
    ^^^ bad sex is what a girl has with everybody else, great sex is what a girl has with me.
  • Phoenix133
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    9 years ago
    @Lopaw haha never been offered a pussy pic lol:)

    @Clackport. Yeah that's the kinda lines they tend to say

    @Crazyjoe. Yep I figured hey I never asked for a duck pic maybe they might want one too! :)

    @Mikeya02. Haha yep that's another one I've heard

    @Twentyfive nice one lol
  • s88
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    9 years ago
    Some girls will always say they have a BF in a strip/regular club/bar even if they dont. It is a filter to remove the guys who dont have to balls to tell the chick "call him and tell him to come to this club right now, I'll knock his teeth out". For my out of my league female friend, a guy telling her that gets her pussy wet and she brags to me what a gold digger she is.
  • seaboardrr
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    9 years ago
    Mrs sea gets hit on a lot by random men and some women. She'll tell me all the random lines they try to run by her and it's just ridiculous how lame men are trying to pick up random women. It's ALWAYS some variation of i'll fuck you better than you've ever had or i'll make you cum so hard, etc..... It's pretty pathetic how the majority of men have absolutely no game whatsoever. Really makes the rest of us look bad
  • warhawks
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    9 years ago

    "You've got a man?"

    "How long you had that problem?"

    https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=AWlgNdEmQQ…

  • crazyjoe
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    9 years ago
    This is about like a dancer walking around the club going down the line asking wanna dance...wanna dance...wannadance

    It rarely works
  • san_jose_guy
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    9 years ago
    "they automatically assume you have a terrible sex life and that they could do way better then your partner at it. Or they assume well hes got a small dick or something since he stays in a relationship. "

    Never in my life have I talked to a woman like that, especially to respond to her saying she is taken.

    The taken line I know could be either false or exaggerated. But I don't deal with it by becoming an asshole myself. I just keep being straight with her.

    Also, most of the taken are not necessarily so happy. They are not always completely out of reach. But they still have to be approached respectfully and the guy has got to conduct himself properly.

    SJG

    JS69 wrote, "Men don't typically start to mature until around age 50 - 60. but sometimes it takes longer than that."

    Yes, JS69 is an excellent example of just how long it can take.

  • twentyfive
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    9 years ago
    To crazyjoe some guys walk around asking woman for sex and they get smacked in the face a lot but they also get laid a lot I suppose they think its worth it
  • gawker
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    9 years ago
    With dancers I've often stated that I hope they've got a BF or a GF cuz I'd hate to think that no ones truly enjoying this body.
  • crazyjoe
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    9 years ago
    25...true. Is that why i get bitch slapped a lot
  • twentyfive
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    9 years ago
    ^^^^Haha maybe
  • flagooner
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    9 years ago
    It is rare that a stripper has admitted to me that she has a BF. I just figure she thinks she can make more if I think she is single and thus obtainable. It's all SS.
  • Estafador
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    9 years ago
    anything to get in your pants. Whatever it legally takes.
  • SmithWV
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    9 years ago
    I think this whole thread has made my night lol.
  • jackslash
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    9 years ago
    The best way to get a woman is to honk a car horn at her.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WTbNtO0h…
  • Papi_Chulo
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    9 years ago
    Maybe it’s a West Virginia thing

    :)



    @ lopaw:

    Feel free to send me a pussy-pic to “help break up the monotony”
  • Papi_Chulo
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    9 years ago
    It’s high testosterone combined with immaturity and low-edcuation.

    A popular saying – “the opposite of love is not hate – it’s indifference” – i.e. don’t engage them or pay attention to them.
  • Dancer_
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    9 years ago
    ^ What Papi said.

    Yup, don't pay attention. Ignore messages on fb and try to go outside with earphones.
  • rh48hr
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    9 years ago
    +1 warhawks I was going to post that video if someone else hadn't.
  • Estafador
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    9 years ago
    WHy do women always assume it won't be good sex?
  • Dominic77
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    9 years ago
    ^I dunno . . Dunning–Kruger effect maybe? ;-)
  • Phoenix133
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    9 years ago
    @flagooner yeh its a stripper strategy, a the club I never admit to having a bf. Its more appealing to guys if they think that your single. I have in the past told a few guys before only one an older gentlemen still wanted to talk. This was when I was still pretty new to stripping. I have had guys just excuse themselves and never come back if they find out I have a bf. So to anyone who asks I say No. Usually they assume I'm lying so I go on to say I haven't found anyone up here yet. (and if there more of a mature person I will go on in saying that I haven't found someone mature enough and most I have found are cheaters and no good so just staying single for a while.) They usually buy this and the subject gets dropped.

  • ilbbaicnl
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    9 years ago
    Well you have a good sex life and they are hard up. Who knows, maybe you would do stupid, loser, desperate shit too if you were as hard up for good steady sex as they are.
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