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2 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
Sounds like you want an off the cuff reply. Take Girl #2 and pay it forward with Girl #1.
My ATF is on the brink of getting sidelined by a Girl #1 type. If it's the money she needs but doesn't want to take a "handout", just tell her it's an IOU.
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2 years ago
"hand acronyms"
Lol. I know it's a typo, but that sounds like something a guy needs to pay extra for.
"CF and ATF are TUSCL-specific terms that people tend to define according to their own preferences at the time."
I've actually heard guys refer to their all time favorite dancers IRL who I don't think were TUSCLers. All guys might not have one, but those that do will know them when they see them.
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2 years ago
And by the time I was done typing all that Warrior15 had already weighed in lol...
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2 years ago
"It's also possible that we put too much thought into this..."
I'll take this one as a joke.
"I’m a go with the too much thought group"
"I'd call that more like 'probable'"
Now that's just piling on lol.
Backstory #2 for no one in particular...It would be easy to reply with a "would we all rather talk about what pants to wear to a club for the 1000th time" or something off topic, but that's just being obvious. So I'll just say "maybe". But sometimes I think about how 20-something me saw the hobby and lol. At both the good and bad. Something like how warrior wrote the other day about re-reading his old reviews. https://tuscl.net/discussion.php?id=81373
Hell, I can go back and read what 20-ish wallanon said on TUSCL. All due respect, but some of you were already "old" before you ever got here. So sometimes I'll just offer up something for the younguns. It's fun to see them talk like they've got life figured out, but that doesn't mean the more experienced guys can't toss out some food for thought.
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2 years ago
"This. I can't remember ever having a dancer stop taking my money, or even lowering her level of service, after telling her, politely, that she doesn't control who I see."
Lucky you lol. I had to drop one because she was pissed off that I liked banging another dancer more than her. If you're wondering how she knew, let's just say threesomes can be fun but also deadly to self esteem. Then another threatened to change our status quo if I didn't stop seeing another dancer who she thought was too slutty.
Ok, so this could go on for a while but money can't fix everything once dancers decide to stop treating everything with you like a transaction. On a related note I'm thinking about clearing the decks around the end of the year, but not before Christmas. Complacency has turned what used to be fun into a chore.
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2 years ago
"seems that something is in the water."
Something like less money in the water. It's making some girls hungrier and cattier than usual, but other girls more timid if they think you're claimed because who wants to get a beatdown in the locker room?
"What's good for the goose.....you don't get my sole attention until/unless I get YOUR full attention, babe."
Try hyping yourself up like this before you go to the club. Then come back and let us know if that worked out for you. Preferably before rick dugan sees this thread and calls you a little girl lol.
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2 years ago
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loperjust looking for a little human contact along the way
I went to a club yesterday. It's when I had time to go. It was pretty busy. Lots of girls and had a free Thanksgiving dinner buffet. Turkey with all the trimmings. Hooked up with a hot dancer and a good time was had by all.
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2 years ago
"I was always paranoid, and didn't like to put my full weight on them"
Good choice. I've gotten amazing lap dances from dancers who were probably close to 200 lbs because they were legit tall, voluptuous, and toned. Sometimes a woman is just too hot to pass up even if she's an Amazon.
But they knew how to move and not drop all their weight on the lap and cock. If we're playing hide the sausage then grind as hard as you want, once it's where it needs to be. But big girl strippers need to know how to put their weight to good use, especially if they have a flat ass.
In case it needs to be said, tailbone dragging from a heavy chick is a no-no.
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2 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
'That was "pussy" and "twat" to be clear.'
Guys you gotta take that extra second to look over your insults lol. You're not on the clock...
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2 years ago
"Is a twin bed really that bad?"
Compared to what? Compared to a club VIP bench or the front or back of a car? Maybe a club locker room or bathroom? A closet? Twin bed sounds just fine.
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2 years ago
Death or prison? Prison.
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2 years ago
Hey Electronman, here is the old TUSCL feature request thread...
https://tuscl.net/discussion.php?id=71410
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2 years ago
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founderslip a dollar in her g-string for me
You mean this isn't the new site?
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2 years ago
ID scanning is bad enough. Bitcoin is a hard no.
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2 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Nice job, Muddy. Keep up the good works. Lots of dancers out there to help out. You'll be Person of the Year in no time.
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2 years ago
I found it slightly annoying that I'd have to sift through a bunch of non-dancer photos when I was trying to see if any new dancers were on TUSCL.
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2 years ago
I think you can still post photos on the profiles no matter what the account status is. I'm ok with not having a grab bag gallery of random photos. There's plenty of other sites online that support that, plus if you want to see what a specific user is posting you can check out their profile photos.
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2 years ago
"Have you done this"?
I have. Not often. With dancers it's usually a way to do a double check before I see them anywhere else, and a way to let them get more comfortable with me if they're wanting that. But it's case by case, because sometimes I've already made my mind up but offer lunch or dinner because I enjoy their company.
"and, if you did, did you feel like it was worthwhile or a waste of time and money?"
It's never a waste of money. If I'm spending more time with anyone it's because I'm wanting to get to know them better. Knowing that the person I went out with is a person I wouldn't want to see again is a good thing. Like anything else, if I try it more than once and still can't get a read on what the outcome/value is going to be I'll usually take a pass.
There's literally one dancer ever I've just decided to be friends with, so that is not the ideal path lol. I'll probably end up with a second and third with the way things are trending, but I keep failing at staying out of the bedroom with the second lol.
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2 years ago
"Yes—making it rain instructions: DO."
That seems easy enough. Duly noted.
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2 years ago
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CJKent_bandThe truth hurts, but if you accept it, it will set you free
The greatest trick the evil ever pulled is convincing the world good doesn't exist.
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2 years ago
What's the $10 for? You said you've been seeing her for a while, so she's been someone you've enjoyed your time with. If you can afford the extra $90, then just help her out. Like has been said already, then the decision is whether you keep things going after that.
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2 years ago
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TetradonI'll act nicer if you'll act smarter.
"Each time I post a review, I get the same messages, as some numb nuts always wants to know the dancer name and price."
Tell them to walk into the club with money lol. I wish I'd been smart enough to make up a reason to stay in NJ for a day last time I was on the East Coast. Those clubs are nuts.
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2 years ago
I've seen the security there. They look like off duty cops or dudes with training. Geared up with protective vests and the whole nine.
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2 years ago
I saw another of the clubs on the Top 40 list today and didn't even realize it until later.