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Good info. Thanks.

In my experience, if you are alone at the bar at most of those places, they’ll find you.

The comment above about it being an ego stroke was spot on. If there is one thing most guys would rather have stroked than their cock, it would have to be their ego.

I wouldn’t turn her down at half that.

Walked into a club in Manhattan late one really cold winter evening, and a little spinner that I had seen a few times there jumped into my lap, observed that my hands were cold as ice, and proceeded to place them between her legs to warm them up. Lots of parts got warmed up, so we had a few dances. Topless club without a lot of touching, but she did flash her pussy a number of times, up close and personal.

Some really nice ones.

Not a fan of the septum piercing. The nose piercing, where it is on the side, is more benign to me. Not a fan of the brow piercing either. But I don’t think any of them would be a deal-breaker for me. I am a fan of nipple piercings, belly button piercings, and clit/pussy piercings. In fact, I’d probably have a preference for them. Although, I might not like it as well if they were all on the same girl at the same time. And I probably prefer them more in porn than in strippers. I can live with the wild hair colors. But I am not a fan of oddball haircuts. Tattoos are another story. The fewer the better, as far as I am concerned. It isn’t a deal breaker if they have some ink. But I don’t want it on their face or neck. I also hate it, with only a very few exceptions, when it is on or too close to their tits.

Obviously, Sweet Home Alabama is super-recognizable. But Lynyrd Skynyrd had several very memorable opening riffs.Freebird, Gimme Three Steps, Tuesday’s Gone all pop right into my head. A few other bands are the same way. Somebody already pointed out CCR. GnR has several in addition to Sweet Child o’ Mine. Lots of stuff by U2, Rolling Stones, Eagles, Van Halen too. And I’m missing a lot more. I think the point us that memorable riffs and iconic songs seem to be a hallmark of great bands.

Narrowing it down to 3 is tough. And for my taste, I probably draw from your “BS’ list, along with some others you might consider to be “BS’ but didn’t list. Not mentioned in the thread yet, but worthy of being discussed, in my opinion, would be U2, Lynyrd Skynyrd, Eagles, Van Halen, Journey, Fleetwood Mac, Kiss, Def Leppard, Bon Jovi, Genesis, and probably more I’m forgetting.

Silly me. I clicked thinking it was gonna be some kind of deal where a sexy girl (stripper/escort) would deliver your pizza, like as cover to come to your room for other services. Now I think I’m gonna be sick.

I’m not sure if I agree or disagree with the basic premise that OnlyFans has killed the talent level. I think the pandemic may have had an influence on talent level. I also don’t think it is a fair assumption that the 10you see online would be on the pole if not for OF. I also think there are girls who try to use stripping to promote their OF business. So there are a lot of factors.

Just ran across an Eva Strauss video a few days ago. Those nipples are stuck in my head now.

13th is really nice

I’d be hard-pressed to come up with anybody I like better than Kendra Sunderland. Might be a couple on that level though.

I’ll take Miami.

I keep forgetting about this. The girl for the 8th is off the charts.

Providence

Detroit Actually never been clubbing in Detroit. Did go in Toronto years ago. It was great. But if I were going to scout Detroit or re-scout Toronto post-pandemic, I’m going Detroit.

Providence.

Miami, for the reasons stated. Convenience and safety are two points high on my list. And there is probably a bit more thrill of the hunt in Miami. You kinda know what you are gonna get south of the border.

Several years ago I was in a club in Manhattan where I was a semi-regular. I worked up there quite a bit back then and clubbed a lot when I was in town. So I was semi-regular in the sense that I might be three or four weeks between trips, but when I was in town I would be in some club every night. This was a go-to place for me. Several of the dancers knew me, and I assumed I had been around enough for the rest of the staff to recognize me as a good customer. I would often do a dance or two in the main room before picking a dancer for a booth in the back. It was officially a hands at your side place, but it could get pretty touchy in the back, very touchy with the right girl and the right tip. The front room had padded bench seating all around the outside of the room, and that is where the dances were done. You could usually get away with light, friendly touching. On this particular evening I was with a dancer I had seen there before. I had danced with her, but it had never worked out to take her to the back. And I was dying to take her back. I was so smitten. She was young, fit, sweet, drop-dead gorgeous head to toe, with one of the nicest racks I have ever seen. So we did a song, then another, and then a third. I was so worked up near the end of the third song that I really wanted her to ease up a little bit. I kinda said something in her ear when she had her head close to mine, but the music was so loud she apparently didn’t hear me. So as I was nearing critical mass, I just, almost reflexively, moved my hands up to her waist and gently encouraged her to move off the spot she was on. The bouncer just happened to be walking by at that moment, and he read me the riot act. The touch wasn’t in any way sexual, and I was just trying to be a gentleman and not cum on her ass. The music was too loud for me to even offer an explanation, had I been so inclined. And once the bouncer moved on, she was no longer in danger of getting a sticky ass. She knew what was up and didn’t charge me for the third dance (told you she was sweet) so I tipped her the $20 anyway, Unfortunately, I never saw her again. I got freaked out and scared security was going to bust me one other time. At a different club, also in Manhattan, the VIP hostess walked in at a most in opportune time. This club, which has long since been closed, wasn’t really an extras club. It was more like a brothel. The hostess would take you to the VIP room and tell you “no sex,’ even though she, you, the dancer, and everybody else in the club knew that the only mystery about what you were about to do was where you were going to finish. So the hostess reads me the rules while the dancer is freshening up. I tip her. The dancer comes in, closes the curtain behind her, and asks me what I want. I asked how much for everything. She clarified what I meant and quoted a price. We made a deal. I handed her the cash and she invited “him’ to the party and helped him on with his party hat. Literally as he was entering the party, the curtain opened. She plunged down as far as she could go, and the three of us (me, dancer, & hostess) proceeded to have a brief conversation while I was balls deep, but apparently somewhat covered by the dancers very short skirt. The hostess left, the fun resumed, and nothing was ever said by the hostess or the bouncer.

1. Miami 2. Detroit 3. Atlanta 4. Tampa Bay 5. New Jersey 6. Providence 7. Toronto 8. Tijuana

I have never understood the ATF thing, especially the idea of having so many ATFs. As I understand it, the “AT” in ATF stands for “all time.” I think there is also a CF term that means “current favorite.’” So I have had some CF situations, and situations where I have a favorite in a certain club or a certain location. But I”d have a hard time picking one favorite from all of those that I have had. To me, calling a girl my ATF would mean that she surpassed all others. The problem with that, as I see it, is that I am probably not being honest with myself if I say that my current favorite surpasses all others, and that therefore, every time I change favorites it is the new best. But if I am honest and say that the girl I was seeing regularly five years ago was the ATF, but I have lost track of her, that’s a little depressing.

There are really two parts to my answer. First is that my wife and I are incompatible in terms of what we want from our sex lives. So I doubt me getting what I want this way is going to hurt that part of our relationship that is already broken. I don’t club locally. I don’t even look at porn such that she knows about it. If she did know, she’d be very upset, and that probably would harm the parts of our relationship that work. And second, as I mentioned,I only club away from home. So in a sense, that gives me the opportunity to just step into that role and completely compartmentalizations that part of my life.

I usually have my ring on, so I tell them if they ask. That is one of only a few pieces of accurate information I give out though. I really only club when I travel. I used a different name, a different home town, ANC a different work situation. I don't want them to think I am a stalker. But I also don't want to be stalked.