A tale of 2 ATFs…2.5
Greanbeans
Ké lo ké?!?!?!!
I literally avoided her at HK every time I saw her till Jan. In January, we all wore covid masks so I didn’t recognize her. Until I invited her for a drink, unbeknownst to me, it was HER!!! The one i avoided. (Reviewed) So we had a great laugh. She asked WTF? Why was I avoiding her… i replied that our very first time, the vibe and attraction were very strong. But i enjoyed my time with her immensely. So that trip, I repeated with her 3x. The last time i grabbed her #.
We started texting daily till 2 weeks after i saw her again. I saw her at LC dancing on another customer. Felt my balls curl up and my asshole pucker up. I know, I know she is a puta! But im honest on how I felt. Wednesday she asked if she can show up to say goodbye to my room. Sure! I had a few conf calls for work, but we had an amazing time. Tried to give her $$, she refused.
We continued texting, phone calls, video calls till we saw each other again. And repeat. We would see each other after she finished work Sunday and Monday nights. Tuesday she was with me all day and night… until i fucked it up! Jealousy sucks! I even deleted my WhatsApp after that.
ATF 1 era ended in April. Fwd to August… i met ATF 2. Our first night was similar vibe and connection than ATF1. Holy crap it was fun!! Wasn’t till late September when we started chatting everyday. Pics exchanged, video chats. Then i asked if she has a passport, yup. Lets do a trip… great first international trip. October rolls around, another trip? Yeah!! November comes, let me go visit you in GDL. Ok! No ask for $$. I did give her $$. Also gifts when i would see her.
While in GDL, a fellow tuscl member put me in touch with a TB chica that happened to be from GDL. And in town same time i would be. So on my trip to Guadalajara, ATF1 was also going to be around. ATF2 was at home in GDL. And this new girl. Shit! Have to play it just right.
So ATF1 and I are just friendly with each other. We did have dinner at a restaurant near her home. Dropped her off but no action. ATF2 was busy the first night. But was with me the rest of the time there. So let me sync with this new girl. We killed a bottle of tequila and banged twice. I sent her home with uber, maybe 4-5am. Very little $$. Worth it snd then some. Good night.
At the moment, ATF1 is just platonic. ATF2 has ghosted me for 3 days, till today. Her focus is making $$. We spoke today, she is on day 3 of a 7 day trip with a customer. She is making $500/night= $3500 from this guy. 🥴. Good on her. ATF2.5 is just not my style. But she’s the only one that chases me! Lol.
Point is, enjoy HK (or anywhere) how you want. There is no “wrong” way. If ATF and TLN is your style, cool. If getting as many girls as possible, cool. Keep your heart in check. ATF1 was a genuine sweetheart, but her job was to sleep with other dudes, even girls. But always treated me extremely well. I screwed that one up. ATF2 is a real pro, like sugar daddies and such. I will probably continue to see her but a lot more cautious. generous but eyes wide open. Check your feelings!
Also, can someone explain puta logic? ATF2 is jealous about me going to HK or my other female friends. She even asked me not to bang other girls. I literally laughed in her face. But said deal! if you stop banging other dudes…silence! Lol
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even worse than when a guy is possessive.
And every visit includes a “hunting” component where I try to find a puta who treats me as well as my ATF. So far there have been a few fine candidates, but none that lasted more than a few months. Something about not having any time limit and knowing well what each other likes is very appealing.
@JAprufrock I appreciate the feedback. And agree for the most part. BUT, With ATF1 (welp, previous ATF1) I couldn’t give my money to her. Trust me i tried. Every time I tried, i got the stare… u know, disapproving eyes and her voice: “I don’t want your money! Im here because i like you!” Even this last time i had dinner with her in her hometown in Jalisco. She accepted my gifts, but refused to take cash. I learned with her, via our ‘breakup’ to not catch feelings.
ATF2 while in Jalisco (same trip), she actually bought me lunch and a michelada, grabbed a couple of Ubers for us and was my tour guide. gave her some cash, but out of our time together, including a couple trips to S. America, she has never asked for $$. I have even asked her, but nope just pay for her ticket and expenses while together. When i gave her $$. I had to tell her “for your mom’s medical expenses and i want you to buy something nice for you”. She is currently in Baja CA with a customer. He is giving her $3500 for 7 days. We spoke 2 days ago. I told her get it! Good on you!
@PT as always…. U da MAN! I “hunted” this ladt trip but not to fruitful. Will try again when we hang out. Maybe you’ll be my good luck charm. I think i need to find a CF chica. As my # 1 is platonic - u know all the lil details. Snd #2 is a bit distant. Mom being very sick and desperate yo make $.
Time for happy hour!!
The mongering experience allows us to grow and learn about what we want and how to get it, at the sane time paying a price for those lessons.
How did you meas up with ATF1? Did you develop feelings? Did you lose (mis place) her? Jk.
It is normal to have feelings for these chicas, the problem is when we let those feelings dictate our decisions and actions, especially when almost none of these chicas are relationship material even if they leave the club.
You can take the BG out of the club but you cannot take the club out of the BG.
Solo mis dos centavos.
PS: "puta logic" that is the ultimate misnomer, along with "woman logic"
Update: ATF1 asked me to stop texting cuz “there’s no point in being ‘friends’. We are just going to end up hurting each other”. Haven’t text her in many days. So no more ATF1 (currently not working at HK anymore)
ATF2 and I reconnected 2 days ago with a TLN (had her with me instead of starting work at HK) and her first day back at HK was yesterday. Might do another trip to a resort in Jan with her
ATF2.5 keeps texting. I reply but not that attracted to her