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19 years ago
Like i said - $150. We had drinks. If the vibe is right, these girls will negotiate just to get your ass back there.
Shadow....I love you bro, but you gotta quit bragging about your $40 titty fuck when you spent at least $100 more dollars in gas, hotel, food, eggs, candy, gum, paper plates, toothpics and whatever else your picnics cost. Not to mention the 8 hour commute on behalf of your dick!
That said though, I still gotta get up to PP to hang with your ass and check out your heaven on earth ;).
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19 years ago
FONDL - that's hilarious....but also way embarrassing on my part!
SC/InDenial - I won't say exactly where this was, but Oasis comes to mind first, followed by Tiffany's and Goldrush Showbar. All three have been "marked" by yours truly from time to time...
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19 years ago
No. Unfortunately for my finances - I'm winding up.
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19 years ago
Generally I believe more privacy = the opportunity for more contact. Even in stricter clubs. That doesn't mean a private room or curtains need to be involved.....just that you're left alone and out of plain view with the opportunity to "get away with some extra fun"
I've never seen anyone having full on sex out in the open during a lap dance. But it happens quite a bit with even just a little privacy.
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19 years ago
1) How often do you visit a club?
Few times a month
2) How long do you stay?
2-4 hours
3) How much do you spend?
Average $250
4) How much do you spend on dances? (total, not per dance)
$100-$300
5) How many dancers do you spend it on?
Usually one or two
6) Are you a "regular"?
No, but I have a few strippers that I coordinate seeing from time to time.
7) Do you have a favorite dancer?
I have many
8) Do you tip girls to sit with you?
It depends, sometimes
9) Do you buy them drinks?
yes
10) Do you enjoy talking to the dancers?
yes
The next questions are for single guys only (unless you married guys want to fess up).
11) Do you ask for dates or OTC meetings?
yes
12) Do you want to date strippers? (Assume the common societal definition of an ongoing monogamous relationship)
no
13) Do you want to have sex with strippers? (assume no other complicating factors, just free sex)
yes
14) Would you lie to get sex with a stripper?
yes
15) Would you pay to have sex with a stripper?
no
16) Would you date a stripper (definition above) to have sex with her?
no
17) Have you ever had sex with a stripper?
yes
18) Was it free?
yes
19) Did you seek it out or just get lucky?
Both
20) Do you seek it out now?
yes
21) How many times have you had free sex with a stripper
not sure....more than 25
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19 years ago
If you don't believe you can get her, then you won't.
Denial? Fuck that shit. As I always say....believe in yourself and go for it. If you fail, big deal.....they're just girls.
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19 years ago
FONDL - I go to low contact clubs to pick up strippers for a one night stand or an occasional date. I go to high contact clubs with the hopes of landing a free happy ending inside the club. For me it's all about the challenge...not so much the mileage. Mileage with no challenge is boring to me, (that's why i'm not into escorts.)
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19 years ago
AN - funny you bring this up....99% of the time, i can't stand sitting at the pole in SCs across the country.
But at Good Guys in DC, it's my choice seating, usually with a couple buddies. Something about the layout of that club mixed with the no-dances rule that encourages sitting next to the pole to catch the show up close. It's about the best you're gonna do there...
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19 years ago
I'm not into people checking me out at all.
More importantly though, being on display means I'm not gonna get away with any real fun.
When having a hot time with a stripper ITC, things are happening that will likely get me bounced and her fired. Last thing I want is some drunk prick to yell out, "dude check it out...he's fucking her"
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19 years ago
Chitown - My man, you couldn't have put that better. Very, very well said.
Chandler - if you're a stripper fan, which is somewhat evident from your participation here, i wouldn't kid yourself into believing that you're gonna give up all this fun for marriage. At least not forever. If so, you'd be the first.
Sure, you'll behave at first, maybe even for several years, but eventually you'll give in to what you love to do. What you loved to do before you met this future chick.
Marriage gives you responsibilities to another, but it doesn't change who you are. And it definitely can't take away what you hunger for. If you love football, marriage won't change that. If you love strippers, marriage won't change that either.
You can either find a way to satisfy your needs within a marriage, or without. But your needs always must be satisfied.
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19 years ago
....in all fairness though, I don't know you and like i said, you could be the first!
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19 years ago
I second FONDL on this. These days, if I get dances from newbies its at clubs I don't regularly hit. Most often I'm go to see ATFs I'm with ITC, OTC or both.
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19 years ago
I totally with Yoda. I never ask (verbally) for anything, including HJs.
Depending on how well things are heating up between us, I may physically suggest going further to see if she wants to. But it's all based on her physical reaction to me, never because I asked.
Asking for it = loser in my book.
This may be way cocky, but I'm of the general opinion that strippers are just as lucky to be fooling around with me as I am with them. Therefore, I don't ask....we either hit it off and have fun or we don't.
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19 years ago
...followed by Chicago.
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19 years ago
You can have a great time either time of day.
In what I've seen - There's less girls during the day, and sometimes less hot ones....but on the bright side the competition is lower since there's less customers.
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19 years ago
In my experience - DC sucks the worst.
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19 years ago
Dating material? Seriously? Who the hell goes to SCs to find a girlfriend? Bad idea. Now chasing after them for some OTC ass though....I find that aspect worthwhile.
Many strippers are nuts...but crazy girls are often great in the sack or the backseat of your car ;)
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19 years ago
lotsoffun - i hate to rain on your parade dude, particularly because you may be the exception to the rule, but the last 5 strippers I've had sex with ITC and/or OTC were all married and all lied to thier PL trusting husbands about it.
In fact, surprised a little, I've asked, "is your husband OK with this?" The reply was always, "well...he doesn't really like it, but he also doesn't know I fool around with anyone or this kinda thing can happen (FS, BBBJ)"
Coincidence? I don't think so.
In my experience I've found it disturbingly easier to lay married strippers vs. the single ones.
I'm not saying your wife strays, but let's not incorrectly assume that a wedding ring or SO relationship keeps strippers faithful.
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19 years ago
Davids - Once in a while, you manage to offer a nugget of common sense here. Sadly though, I have no interest in conversing with you.
Start treating other posters on this board with some level of courtesy and respect (most notably Yoda, SC, AN, FONDL and JC), and I'd consider it.
Until then - you're just the same young, inexperienced, pathetic, cocky for no reason, geek who is deperately trying to "learn" how to trick strippers into dating your insecure ass. Too bad you have to trick them...that sucks for you.
Grow up, for everyone's sake.
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19 years ago
Boo hoo.
I'm the one getting laid science boy. You're the one reading the "how to" manual. You lose.
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19 years ago
I get laid. A lot. Without effort.
Yep, you lose geek.
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19 years ago
AN - Funny, i used to hear this little science geek bitch all the time. He must have found another geek to play pattycake with. My ears feel better already ;)
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19 years ago
SC: Just for the record, I oftentimes spend 5-6 hours at the clubs I hit, doing the same thing you do my man. We're not all that different...I just like more clubs than you do.
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19 years ago
Well said FONDL....I totally agree.
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19 years ago
HAHAHA - i know, the name is killing me. I picked it as a joke in a drunken stupor after catching a great Tiffany Mynx porno. I'll ask founder about switching & hopefully come up with something better....