How do you become a regular?

Shadowcat, I don't think you are the ultimate regular, in fact I think you're very unusual. The ultimate club regular hangs out in his club probably a couple of times a week with many different girls. The ultimate girl regular does the same but with only one girl. You are doing neither. You're in a class by yourself. Which is why I've said that you are unique.

HAHAHA - i know, the name is killing me. I picked it as a joke in a drunken stupor after catching a great Tiffany Mynx porno. I'll ask founder about switching & hopefully come up with something better....

SC: Just for the record, I oftentimes spend 5-6 hours at the clubs I hit, doing the same thing you do my man. We're not all that different...I just like more clubs than you do.

It's true that if you appear to have money, you will attract dancers in many strip clubs. If you're buying dances and seem to be slightly better dressed than others in the club expect dancers to hit you up. A few dancers seem to be possessed in trying to go after certain guys. I was thinking if they want to dance that badly, they can do it for free. I think I remember one girl said she was offering no charge on her dance if I didn't like it but I don't treat that as the same thing as an offer to dance for free.

This may be off topic but one way a dancer can meet up with you OTC is for her to tell you a regular club that she goes to. I actually had a new dancer tell me this the other night but I can't remember the club or her. Maybe I had one too many at the time she found me in the club. I think I could easily get extra attention from a new dancer by meeting up with her in a regular setting instead of a strip club. I thought she might be new but I remember another dancer told me she had never seen me before and she had been dancing for 2 years at that club which I thought I was a regular at. If you're going to a club twice a week, you're already a regular. I thought once a month made you a regular.

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M-O-N-E-Y!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Money talk! People listen!!

Money is the UNIVERSAL LANGUAGE!

Again it depends on the club and the girl, but in a lot of friendly places if you start with one girl you will end up knowing not only her but all her friends if you keep the original girl long enough. I was my ATF's customer for nearly 1.5 years and when she was busy one of her friends would always join me. And she had a friend who gave one hell of a LD so I never minded the wait. I remained friends with several of them for a long time after they quit dancing.

To each his own. When all the flunkies start acting too familiar with me, I know it's time to give that club a rest for a spell.

Easyed is right on here. Getting to know the staff in a club is key to your enjoyment of the entire SC experience. Just about everybody on staff in a club works for tips. The dancers generaly take care of the bouncers but slipping a few bucks when you pay for a dance booth or a VIP room can reap huge benefits. My favorite barmaids know who I like and also know how to shoo girls away that they know are annoying. Strip clubs are the ultimate example of one hand washing the other.

In addition to what's already been discussed, I've found that getting to know the waitresses, bartenders and bouncers to be extremely beneficial. I've had several dancers that I didn't even know approach me because they've heard from one or more of the previously mentioned club staff that I was either a nice or generous guy. At the club I frequent, I often buy drinks for the waitresses, bouncers, managers or DJ's and have gone out of my way to meet and talk to them. It's also a big plus to know the bouncers when your doing lap dances!

Excellent feedback guys... keep it coming.

I've done both-club regular and dancer regular and I've found what is the most fun for me is a little of both. I have one club where I know about half a dozen girls. I can go in there on a slow afternoon and enjoy the ongoing attention of these ladies for a relatively small investment. A few other clubs I visit to see just one particular dancer-I go in, spend some time with her and leave. Years ago I had a one ATF in one club relationship that was alot of fun but when she retired I just thought it was time to spread myself out a bit. It was a good idea.

(I hadn't seen FONDL's similar post when I posted.)

Doverman, perhaps you're spreading your spending around too thin. If you aren't too concerned about sitting alone at times, you might have better luck focusing on a small few faves. Then, once you've established yourself with them, you can begin working other girls into your remaining time. But to go in and expect all of them to begin flocking to you equally might be a poor way to start.

Depends on whether you want to be a club regular or a regular of a specific girl. If you want everyone to stop and say "Hi Norm" when you walk in, you have to be sociable and get to know a bunch of the girls, which means tipping dancers when they dance and waitresses and bartenders for service, and buying private dances from different girls. And visiting fairly often, but it sounds like you're already doing that. If it's a specific girl you're after, I've found that it really helps if you can establish a way to contact her when you aren't there, so you can check her schedule and let her know when you're coming. That way she know you're coming specifically to see her. And consistently treating her with courtesy and respect. For the type of girl who interests me, that's always more important than how much you spend.

Doverman, at your club I take it you see other guys getting the kind of attention you're hoping for? It's probably as simple as AN describes, although some regulars also tip heavily on top of the cost of dances to reward girls who hang out with them.

Also, bear in mind that many regulars get no better dance mileage than anyone else - or even less - when companionship overshadows nastiness, strippers take regulars for granted, or the regular fears losing his "nice guy" standing. It ain't all necessarily the bed of roses it appears to be.

We have discussed the merits and drawbacks of being a regular at length several times. To me the one big advantage is that when you walk in your favorite dancers will make sure to get to you. Drawbacks, you probably will need to take good care of them to make dropping that other guy on the hook to come see you worthwhile, but it often isn't as much money as you'd think. Often it is more about being a dependable customer who is fun to spend time with.

Doverman: The secret is not to spend money on them, or get all pervy on them. Just treat them like they are normal people and as friends. Make sure to treat non-strippers as normal people/friends too. Then they will see you as a normal person/friend and not a subhuman lap dance buying pathetic regular loser.

First of all regulars aren't all that rare. Just occasionally invite a girl to join you for a drink before or after a LD and chat for a while. Get to know them a little and be a bit more social with them.