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4 years ago
shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
Worst Popular Bands Ever?U2
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4 years ago
Kind of dancers you prefer...ATACdawg. I recall several mother and daughters who both danced at the same time at the same club. Usually I only gat dances from one of the two , and in most cases it tended to be the mother. Usually it was because the mother gave a lot better dances, and often looked a lot hotter.
The one case where I got dances from both, the daughter was practically a clone of the mother, and was twice as naughty. In fact this was long enough ago, that I sometimes wonder if I will ever get dances from a third generation of that family.
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4 years ago
Be honest......................................Personality, probably Dr Emmetr Brown from the back to future series.
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4 years ago
Kind of dancers you prefer...As long as she has a good body, and gives great lap dances, I don't care if she has kids or not.
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4 years ago
How do you rate this hot girl?Based off her photos, average looking at best, a 7.
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4 years ago
What is the stripper and regular relationship like?I don't have a single favorite dancer, but several current favorites. Depending on how thing are locally any given year maybe one or two clubs I frequent. I like variety, dancers schedules are notoriously inconsisten, and there are few dancers who both appeal to me and consistently give good dances. Unless the club is very small, this comes down to three or four who I consider to be my regulars.
Typically at most two of my favorites are available for whatever reason. On days when none of my favorites are available, depending on the other dancers working that night, I may leave and go to another club. If more than one, or all of my favorites are there, then which ones I spend my time with depends on many things, including my whims. I usually have a hierarchy, where dancer A is the best, and if she isn't there then B, and so on. Other times it's because I haven't seen that dancer for a while, or I just got bored with the others and want some variety.
What makes a favorite can vary. My current regular, assuming she still works once club opens up, is hot with a great personality, and one of the most consistent dancers I ever met. She likes to tease and knows how to push all my buttons. We often just sit at the table talking for a while before heading back. She's the only one currently worth getting a half hour with.
Another favorite is the exact opposite, depending on her mood, is a quick three song high energy dance, or she is so out of it, that I quit after one and wait for the next visit.
My third favorite tends to go from city to city and club to club, and there may be half a year before I see her again. However when she is there, she gets all my dances, because there is none better.
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First Nudie Bar VisitFirst strip club visit was around 1994 also, at a strip club outside Columbus called Private Dancer, a no-contact nude club where they dances naked on stage, and offered private shows on two small stages in the back. The first lap dance was at a club in Brookpark Ohio called Model Tease about a year later. And my first extras were about 6 months later at 2001 in Tampa, for a lot more than I should have paid. Thankfully I found out about a predecessor to this and got a lot better rate at with a lot more fun at Scarletts Tampa a year later.
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4 years ago
OTC Fun"Next issue is price. In my experience much more expensive than her normal club menu. My advice don't haggle. OTC will be FS for a set amount of time to spend with her. She thinks she is worth price X, it is what it is. It will be more than club prices because it's more time and her venue."
So far, all the dancers I have seen OTC, have charged less than what the club charges for a half hour "champagne room" dance, and our time together has never been less than one hour, and in most cases over two hours. Every dancer brought it up after we had several dances over a month or tow. Usually after exchanging numbers, I would get a text asking "you ever seen dancers outside the club?" Closely followed by "how much more fun we could have outside" When we eventually talked price, most added the since she didn't have to share with the clubs, she could give me a "discount."
It may depend on the club and her menu in the club. Every dancer I have seen OTC has been ones who worked at non-extras clubs. I can recall less than 5 dancers who I ever considered seeing OTC, who worked at extras clubs, and only one wanted more than it cost in the club ($500 compared to $300), and the remainder wanted the same or less. In each case I was leaving before she could see me.
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4 years ago
Scheduling with a dancer?Never scheduled time with a dancer, if she's there when I visit then she gets a dance, if not I typically have at least three others I choose from. If none are there, I'll try some new ones that appeal to me. If that fails, there is always another club.
About the closest to scheduling time with a dancer was the few favorites who I traded phone numbers with. I would often get texts like, "going to be working Saturday, look forward to seeing you," or , "just so you know, I am not going to be out of town this weekend."
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4 years ago
Is this a warningSkibun, that comment goes equally if not more with Republicans.
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4 years ago
Masks are bullshitBased off many of the people I see in stores, how effective masks area is doubtable. Many I have seen are either cheaply made, too thin and worn wrong. I have seen many people wear their masks without their noses covered, or the mask so loose on their face that their breath just goes out the sides of mask. Not to mention people fidget with their masks, constantly moving them on and off their mouth as it bothers them.
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How much money have you saved / strippers lost with the lockdownsI'd estimate I saved about $1400 on visits to local club, assuming 10 visits since then.
Another $300 on my usual trip Memorial Day visit to a more extras friendly city.
Another $500 on a longer Fourth of July excursion to an extras friendly city.
Which is adds up to around $2200.
Adding in another $200 less spent on gas during the same time, and $2400 less eating out, and other stuff I have probably cut my spending overall around $5000 in 3 months. Which kind of matches how much I have been able to reduce my debts and save during that same period.
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4 years ago
Rate this GirlAbout an 8.5. Needs to work on her makeup skills a bit, especially her eyebrows which are over done.
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4 years ago
giving advice on giving head...Vary the motion and intensity, rather than just going balls to the wall full speed the entire time.
When done right, starting off slow and smooth while steadily building up the intensity then slowing right back down can really drive me up the wall.
Eye contact and facial expressions, every so often really can get me into the blowjob. The expression depends much on the woman. One woman can give me a look that says she just loves pleasuring me, while another can give the same look and it seems fake and does nothing.
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4 years ago
What do you do when a stripper says “ I don’t do this with anyone else”One of the funniest ones I had, was a dancer who really tried to make me think she rarely does this multiple times.
First the dancer asks me, "do you just get dances, or are you looking for some fun" I of course answer fun, and she asks "what kind of fun," and I tell her, and she she replies"well normally I don't do that, but I haven't had any for a while, you can't tell anyone" I wasn't sure if she meant money, or since her last dance.
Then it comes up to price, and I quickly tell her the price I am willing to go for. After a bit of hem hawing on her part she finally agrees saying, "well, I normally don't go for less than $200, but its been slow all day, so we'll make it our little secret, but if anyone asks."
Then through the song, she keeps telling me to remember this is a secret. Once we are done she then asks if I'll see her again. I tell her yes, and she tells me all about how much more fun we will have the next time and again she reminds me this is our little secret.
Throughout our time, I laughed internally about the many reviews that mentioned how good she was, and her typical prices.
So yeah, don't believe a word they say about how "special" your dance may be.
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4 years ago
2020 first year since 1998 that I haven't walked inside a strip clubThis is the second longest time. The longest was during the dot com bubble, where I was out of a steady job for nearly 11 months.
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4 years ago
IceyI put your ATF on a winning team
Getting hard with condomsI have found it's more often the woman rather than the condom that the problem. I have dances from at four dancers who all used the exact same durex extra sensative condom. in a purplish wrapper. One couldn't get me hard no matter how hard she tried, and she tried hard, but had really no clue what she was doing. Another got me hard, but was in such a rush to get me off as quick as possible she ended up calling for extra cash after five songs and I quit.
The other two had no trouble, and one was my go to dancer for three years whenever I was in town, and was so consistent at getting me off that only once did she fail, and that was because I was all tapped out.
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4 years ago
Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
OT: Hot or Not - What say youHor
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How would reparations work?How would reparations work, if you were born before 1860, then you get money, if not shit out of luck.
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4 years ago
Da or nyetDa. Da. Da. ..... Da
She fits my favorite type of dancer in a club, and in many cases when I see one with a body like hers I often end up spending a lot more than I wanted.
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Do you really have to leave or do you guys run out of money?It can either be I ran out of money, the previous dancer drained me of all my cum, and won't be able to get it up, or I don't want to get a dance from you, and no one else here appeals to me so I am leaving.
Usually when I run out of money, I am done for the day, however there has been two occasions where I left the club and went to the nearest ATM to get some more money. Both cases I was out of town, and the dancer was entirely my type and smoking hot, and in both cases the dances were fine, but nothing to really brag about.
A few times I have came back the next day when a sexy naughty dancer caught me eye and asked for a dance, but the previous dancer drained me both of money and cum, and I came back later specifically to see her. Only twice was it worth it, and both times it was the next day, and unfortunately both times I never saw the dancer again, the next time I was in town.
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WHICH ACTRESSES' MOVIES HAVE YOU SEEN THE MOST?The only actresses who I can think of who I have seen in more than 5 movies,. that weren't all part of a franchise of are: Sandra Bullock, Julia Roberts, and Halle Berry, and four of Halle Berry's were from the X-Men Franchise.
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OTC ProgressionYeah I did, and it ended up being a lot more.
It was with a new dancer to the club. First dance was very good and she mentioned how much more fun she could have in her old club, before it was shut down. I knew of the club and had a lot of fun there several years before, so had an idea what she was open for. That first dance she asked to exchanged #'s. She was hot and her dance was good enough that I agreed. Her first few texts were, are you stopping by tonight. Eventually she asks me if I ever see dancers outside the club, and then asks if I would be up to seeing her outside. I ask her to clarify, and she says, "it's just dances, no sex, but a lot more private, and we can have a lot more fun."
Knowing how dancers are at the club she used to work at, I decide to take her up on the dance. Ended up her idea of sexual relations, was the same as Bill Clinton's. Also ended up costing quite a bit less than a half hour in the club, and the fun lasted well over and hour and a half.
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5 years ago
Do you prefer Newbie or Experienced DancersMost of the time I go for the experienced dancer. I have rarely had a good dance from a newbie dancer. Once she makes it through three or four months, I may consider trying her Most of the time I found they don't get good until about 6 months. I remember this one dancer who while pretty, didn't know how to enhance her looks, and was far too nervous on stage to even consider getting a lap dance when she started. About two months later she was fairly comfortable on stag,e and I decided to try her. Lap dance was mediocre. Two months late, after she started getting quite a bit more dances, Itried her again, and this time her dances were right up there with the typical dancer at the club. About 8 months after she started she was in the top tier of the club.
Now some just know what they are doing. One of my favorites was that way. Based on how she carried herself and how she acted on stage I thought she had danced for years. Found out she had just started two weeks earlier. She had already figured out how to smoothly glide along my lap, while keeping contact. Many never figure this out.
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Would you meet up with an engaged stripper?Generally you can assume that the majority of dancers have pimps, significant others, or both. This includes dancers you may see OTC. As long as you are careful on which dancers you choose, OTC is low risk. Ex: If she's flaky or possessive in the club, she will be worse outside.
Same as Longball, I would have no problem ITC. OTC it depends. The fact that she mentioned this could be a red flag that her fiance doesn't know.