Now normally I think the line is bs, but after clubbing so long and now I’m 28, some shit I believe. Like I feel certain dancers can have different connections with certain guys, esp if you have a great personality, treat her right, and are attractive to her. What do you OG’s think?
Lol I use that line a lot when I meet a stripper. “Nah this is my first time visiting a strip club ever”. She gives me the awwww face and then proceeds to try and rip me off. If she tries to rip me off I leave her immediately, if she’s generous to me she gets what’s in my pockets!😎
I think the line is true for some cases, I can’t explain u can just feel it. One girl I’m dealing with now, I’ve heard bad shit about her from dudes, but she’s the opposite with me and does shit she would never do for them.
I’d tell her that neither do I, coz I am very picky when it comes to intimacy. But, there’s something about her that makes me feel very comfortable in her company and as such open up like this.
When she says “I Don’t Do This With Anyone Else” there are only two possibilities.
1) She is lying and she does this with everyone.
2) She is telling the truth and it means you are the only one that has been willing to meet her GPS price.
You nod profoundly, give her and understanding smile and say "Thank you, I understand."
And you do all of this not because you really believe her, but because if she is saying all of this then it is important to her that she thinks that you do. I've had countless strippers say this over the years and it's always the same - they relax much more and give a much better experience when they believe that you view them in a certain way. Not every stripper is a high volume Detroit/Miami/COI girl.
Do you care if it’s true? If you do then you need to read the situation. If you don’t just thank her and tell her you appreciate it. No different from responding to any salesperson who told you they are treating you in some special way.
===> "No different from responding to any salesperson who told you they are treating you in some special way."
I agreed with your post up to this. It is different because what she is selling is herself. Some of these girls need to think that you believe that they don't do this normally. It is a small price to pay to play along.
In the civvy world when a woman says "I don't normally do this" as she's taking your cock out on a first date, only a dumbass questions it even if you know it's bullshit
Agree w/ James, and Rick, and about everyone else. I've read many stories on strip club forums over the years where the strippers says that, and the PL has to go question it. What a damaged, low self esteem choad do you have to be that the most important thing to you is that the stripper can't "get one over" on you?
As Dugan mentioned, my M.O. when it comes to interactions with strippers is to smilingly and approvingly nod regardless of what you personally believe - IME anything else is usually counterproductive to the already mostly-fake interaction.
I take "I only do this with you" on the same level when I answer "no" when she asks if do what I do with her w/ any other dancer ("who me - no way").
Can dancers have fave custies - sure - one can assume it's similar to custies that have fave dancers - but just like a fave dancer can easily and quickly be replaced, so can a fave custy - you may be a fave custy on some level, but 99% of the time you're still a custy.
It’s just stripper shit. I have been told “your the only one I am fucking besides my husband” And from another “I need $1500 by next Wednesday or we (her, the 4 kids she had with 3 different men, and baby daddy of last one) will be evicted.” Plus this one “I need $300 for next session or this drug dealer will kill me.” From a hot Cali stripper (escort) I was seeing “your my number 1.”
Just take it as part of the background radiation or if they pressuring you for money tell them “fuck off.” Or “sorry I am dead ass broke.” Or “I am in survival mode and can’t meet until covid over.”
Face strippers, hookers, SB don’t give a crap about us PL’s we are like an atm machine. I have had them call me and ask if I could have a pizza delivered to hotel room she and this young guy staying in. Yes the guys they with don’t have to pay but if we’re fucking their women they are cucks lol.
And yeah a key PL skill is saying no to sexy women and it shows them you have a backbone and value yourself. My free stripper FWB often danced around needing money but the most I ever did was bring her booze, dinner, lingerie or sex toys. They will ask for the world, you give them just enough and your dick
In the end, one really can't know for sure what a stripper is thinking/feeling - but in the end, what does it really matter - if you wanna know for sure whether she's into you and it matters to you, then date her as a civvy; else just pay up for a good time and NSA - if one has to wonder/ask if a female is into them, then likely that's not the female one needs to be invested in emotionally - if I want a female that thinks I'm special, the strip-club is not the place I go looking, thus for me it's a waste of time wondering "what her true feelings may be for me" - I just expect to be treated fairly by a dancer, I don't expect her to see me or treat me like a devoted S.O.
Think I'm in the majority here, I usually reply like shadow with at attempt to sound sincere and say I appreciate it.
As others have said, its not because I believe it, but mostly because its not worth disputing. If I know for a fact she's lying, I knew that before she opened her mouth. I don't need her to know I know, so if she wants me to believe it I'll play along. There are rare occasions where I believe it. But even then, I'm not sure it matters.
there are only a few reasons she says this.
1) she's legitimately telling the truth, and trying to justify to herself why she's breaking her own rules.
2) she doesn't want you to think of her in that way.
3) it makes you feel special, and as a result, you'll tip her more for the extras you're getting from her.
Wait... I’m a rick and that makes girls want to do all sorts of crazy shit they wouldn’t normally do. I mean really, the vulture, the dugan, the shark, and I were at this club and we did all sorts of unspeakable shit with this girl. Ever heard of Japanese rain goggles? Well, we got four-way rick-style rain goggles. Even the frickin’ shark got ‘em!
Since you’re a normie she’s just lying to you to get extra money. ROAR!!!
It’s what we call SS or stripper shit. She wants to sell you a dance - and she thinks it will help to get you to buy a dance.
Think of a stripper selling dances like a salesman selling cars - she doesn’t do it with other guys is like saying that car was driven by a little old lady only on Sunday’s.
One of the funniest ones I had, was a dancer who really tried to make me think she rarely does this multiple times.
First the dancer asks me, "do you just get dances, or are you looking for some fun" I of course answer fun, and she asks "what kind of fun," and I tell her, and she she replies"well normally I don't do that, but I haven't had any for a while, you can't tell anyone" I wasn't sure if she meant money, or since her last dance.
Then it comes up to price, and I quickly tell her the price I am willing to go for. After a bit of hem hawing on her part she finally agrees saying, "well, I normally don't go for less than $200, but its been slow all day, so we'll make it our little secret, but if anyone asks."
Then through the song, she keeps telling me to remember this is a secret. Once we are done she then asks if I'll see her again. I tell her yes, and she tells me all about how much more fun we will have the next time and again she reminds me this is our little secret.
Throughout our time, I laughed internally about the many reviews that mentioned how good she was, and her typical prices.
So yeah, don't believe a word they say about how "special" your dance may be.
My version of this would be "I've never danced for a girl before."
The first girl that ever said this to me was blowing raspberries between my legs. And every dancer after that who's said that to me would be trying to strip me down to some degree.
I'm so flattered I could pop all of their female custy virginities.
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Don’t do this with everyone, I’d take the compliment but could be true
1) She is lying and she does this with everyone.
2) She is telling the truth and it means you are the only one that has been willing to meet her GPS price.
And you do all of this not because you really believe her, but because if she is saying all of this then it is important to her that she thinks that you do. I've had countless strippers say this over the years and it's always the same - they relax much more and give a much better experience when they believe that you view them in a certain way. Not every stripper is a high volume Detroit/Miami/COI girl.
"Of course you don't. I'm the only one here."
Unless it involves fucking her for free, it's still transactional even if she's letting you do a bit more than most guys
I agreed with your post up to this. It is different because what she is selling is herself. Some of these girls need to think that you believe that they don't do this normally. It is a small price to pay to play along.
I take "I only do this with you" on the same level when I answer "no" when she asks if do what I do with her w/ any other dancer ("who me - no way").
Just take it as part of the background radiation or if they pressuring you for money tell them “fuck off.” Or “sorry I am dead ass broke.” Or “I am in survival mode and can’t meet until covid over.”
As others have said, its not because I believe it, but mostly because its not worth disputing. If I know for a fact she's lying, I knew that before she opened her mouth. I don't need her to know I know, so if she wants me to believe it I'll play along. There are rare occasions where I believe it. But even then, I'm not sure it matters.
1) she's legitimately telling the truth, and trying to justify to herself why she's breaking her own rules.
2) she doesn't want you to think of her in that way.
3) it makes you feel special, and as a result, you'll tip her more for the extras you're getting from her.
Wait... I’m a rick and that makes girls want to do all sorts of crazy shit they wouldn’t normally do. I mean really, the vulture, the dugan, the shark, and I were at this club and we did all sorts of unspeakable shit with this girl. Ever heard of Japanese rain goggles? Well, we got four-way rick-style rain goggles. Even the frickin’ shark got ‘em!
Since you’re a normie she’s just lying to you to get extra money. ROAR!!!
Think of a stripper selling dances like a salesman selling cars - she doesn’t do it with other guys is like saying that car was driven by a little old lady only on Sunday’s.
Shirley Muldowney as the prior driver of a gently used car vs a stripper with jizz on her chin telling you she doesn’t do this with everyone!
First the dancer asks me, "do you just get dances, or are you looking for some fun" I of course answer fun, and she asks "what kind of fun," and I tell her, and she she replies"well normally I don't do that, but I haven't had any for a while, you can't tell anyone" I wasn't sure if she meant money, or since her last dance.
Then it comes up to price, and I quickly tell her the price I am willing to go for. After a bit of hem hawing on her part she finally agrees saying, "well, I normally don't go for less than $200, but its been slow all day, so we'll make it our little secret, but if anyone asks."
Then through the song, she keeps telling me to remember this is a secret. Once we are done she then asks if I'll see her again. I tell her yes, and she tells me all about how much more fun we will have the next time and again she reminds me this is our little secret.
Throughout our time, I laughed internally about the many reviews that mentioned how good she was, and her typical prices.
So yeah, don't believe a word they say about how "special" your dance may be.
I assume she means in the last 15-minutes
They tend to say something like “you cunt, why did you kick me in the nuts!?”
I often ask strippers about the most unusual requests that they get from customers. Asking to get kicked in the balls is No. 1 by far.
Asking for a friend...
The first girl that ever said this to me was blowing raspberries between my legs. And every dancer after that who's said that to me would be trying to strip me down to some degree.
I'm so flattered I could pop all of their female custy virginities.
1. Yeah right
2. things are about to get good