What is the stripper and regular relationship like?
docsavage
Indiana
If you have had long term regulars in a club what would you compare that relationship to? I've been going to strip clubs regularly for about a decade now and have had several girls as regulars in clubs. I've sometimes wondered what the stripper-regular relationship is most like. I've had girlfriends and it doesn't feel like a girlfriend relationship. Club goers who say "don't fall in love with a stripper" or "strip clubs aren't a good place to look for a girlfriend" are generally correct from my observations with a few exceptions. It might be a little like having a wife who married you for your money. Even more than that, though, I've come to feel that the stripper-regular relationship is more like having a temporary pet. It's like getting a pet cat then after a couple years the cat runs away and you never see it again. Then you get another cat and the same thing happens. You might become a little emotionally attached to the first couple cats but after the fifth or sixth cat you might still enjoy their company but you don't become emotionally attached because you know they aren't going to stick around. Unless your cats are really adorable, you might decide it's not worth the bother of opening cans of cat food for them or cleaning their litter box since you don't actually care about them that much. If you reach that point then you've come to your last cat because you won't get another one when the current one leaves.
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I was wondering what other answers there might be. The work friend angle is interesting.
Or so I've been told.
By a friend.
From West Virginia.
I have had a couple of them over the decades. One single and two married. After several years I had a fling with one of the married ones. After she left I found out she had had several other "work husbands" who were also banging her.
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Depends on whether you are paying her, or not. If you're paying her, it's much more like prostitution than a GF.. That goes for SBs, too.
That's a gentle reminder to most of the AARP crowd here who are glorified johns paying for sex.
Random, on behalf of the AARP crowd I want to tell you that I resent this comment. There's nothing glorified about us.
I’m sure a few never knew my name. To them I was probably that “not disgusting guy who comes in for a hour or so occasionally, doesn’t drink much, gets really hard and likes stick shifting and dirty talk.”
NAAAASTY
Typically at most two of my favorites are available for whatever reason. On days when none of my favorites are available, depending on the other dancers working that night, I may leave and go to another club. If more than one, or all of my favorites are there, then which ones I spend my time with depends on many things, including my whims. I usually have a hierarchy, where dancer A is the best, and if she isn't there then B, and so on. Other times it's because I haven't seen that dancer for a while, or I just got bored with the others and want some variety.
What makes a favorite can vary. My current regular, assuming she still works once club opens up, is hot with a great personality, and one of the most consistent dancers I ever met. She likes to tease and knows how to push all my buttons. We often just sit at the table talking for a while before heading back. She's the only one currently worth getting a half hour with.
Another favorite is the exact opposite, depending on her mood, is a quick three song high energy dance, or she is so out of it, that I quit after one and wait for the next visit.
My third favorite tends to go from city to city and club to club, and there may be half a year before I see her again. However when she is there, she gets all my dances, because there is none better.