I'm serious though. Ad soon as I put a condom on I go soft. I'm using a Trojan one that claims to feel like you havd nothing on buy it pinches and I don't feel anything.
I'm gonna vote for Durex Invisible and Lifestyles SKYN.
Trojan actually feels thick compared to them and I don't like using Trojan as much anymore because I feel like I've developed a sensitivity to whatever lubricants they put on their condoms.
Cpndoms are uncomfortable. Many pinch at the base. Some of the lubricants are itchy. I'm thinking of going with the thinnest ones I can find and a cock ring
I despise condoms. 2 beers and condom and I stay hard for hours and have a better chance of growing taller than I do coming. Rather get a hand job than fuck with a condom, unless I need blue balls.
Use Trojan magnum thin. There is also an ultra thin. A good keeper girl puts the condom on me and then hj foreplay. Then I fuck her - if can’t get off she finishes me with hj. She will usually start the session with couple lappers or do some photo modeling. Then she will lay down for a back rub and me feeling her then to the bed for step 1 above.
As far as your prob imagine some fantasy about her like she is a housewife call girl and go from there.. CG is a good position for gal get u off with condoms. Quit worrying about performance and concentrate on the flight.
As JamesSD mentioned, try the larger size condoms - I don't need larger size condoms size-wise, but the ebony chicks I've been with seem they often just carry magnums and I've found them more comfortable/tolerable - I find it uncomfortable using a condom that feels like it's asphyxiating my dick even it fits (if you are already using a large size see if there is a size up from that).
But yeah - there is also a bit of a psychological aspect - at the very-least is having to stop the action when it's getting-hot-and-heavy in order to fumble around w/ the condom - plus there is the psychological effect for those that really dislike condoms and then having to have it on your dick and not be able to enjoy the sex the same (kinda a raining-on-your-parade feeling).
And some clubs/brands are just better than others - try to buy the best reviewed condoms vs the "best selling" - best selling often does not equal best product.
I like trojan thin. Im assuming you are having this problem with women outside of a serious relationship? if so raising the bar on the types you see helps a lot. A girl who hits the gym and doesn't just lay there helps to keep my juices flowing. Then its not a problem of staying hard but moreso enjoying it.
Its definitely psychological. I'll be hard as soon as she touches my dick then get soft once the condom comes on. Its the way the condom feels and how the sensation is so dulled when I'm inside her.
no slack. just put it on and there is no gap between cockhole and rubber. just make sure if you're fucking her pull out before cumming to splooge won't come out of the bag.
basically have to train to get that sensation using the rubber. it might take time.
I have found it's more often the woman rather than the condom that the problem. I have dances from at four dancers who all used the exact same durex extra sensative condom. in a purplish wrapper. One couldn't get me hard no matter how hard she tried, and she tried hard, but had really no clue what she was doing. Another got me hard, but was in such a rush to get me off as quick as possible she ended up calling for extra cash after five songs and I quit.
The other two had no trouble, and one was my go to dancer for three years whenever I was in town, and was so consistent at getting me off that only once did she fail, and that was because I was all tapped out.
"I have found it's more often the woman rather than the condom that the problem."
Yup. Or at least the vibe between the people involved. That's my take for one on one and combo situations. Once the vibe is thrown off it goes downhill fast.
I will say that the only time recently (8 months ago) that I had a good experience with a condom was at an AMP with a very experienced provided. She was my best experience in the last many years. She took out a condom from the dresser. She then asked me if I had my own. I acknowledged and then gave it to her. She took it out of the wrapper and looked it over. Looked at me and asked if that was my only sized condom. I told her that I can’t find anything other than that which will work. She smiled. Then, she took the oil and dripped it inside the condom. She then proceeded to place it on my unit. After placing it on my unit, she oiled up the condom/unit combo and proceeded to literally fuck my brains out! The absolute best AMP experience I have ever had. They are now Closed ! FUCKING SUCKS!
Icey picks the worst times to become lucid. No wonder Nidan111 posted the most depressing thread of the day. He talks about getting the best provider nut in years and Icey treats it like a bowl of cheerios.
I would never go bareback with a "professional." I've been with strippers so good at what they do that I needed the condom to give me a few extra minutes, and ones so awful that I could've been bareback and hopped up on Viagra and still not stayed in the game. In my private life it has pretty much worked out the same, except I try to restrict my dating to "condom worthy" ladies.
My last trip to Detroit (in saner times) I was with a Columbian gal that was so good she could have sucked me off through 3 condoms while I was watching Rosie O'Donnell View highlights. If that is my last strip club trip (because people are idiots) then it was a worthy final VIP.
Never had trouble getting or staying hard with a condom. They definitely do affect finishing though but honestly I am not going to finish inside a stripper. IfI can’t finish in the condom I’ll pull out and take it off. Unfortunately they are a necessary evil.
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I'm serious though. Ad soon as I put a condom on I go soft. I'm using a Trojan one that claims to feel like you havd nothing on buy it pinches and I don't feel anything.
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I use a sandwich baggy
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I'm gonna vote for Durex Invisible and Lifestyles SKYN.
Trojan actually feels thick compared to them and I don't like using Trojan as much anymore because I feel like I've developed a sensitivity to whatever lubricants they put on their condoms.
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Thanks I'll get those and try them.
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I can’t wear condoms. The AMPs all just use seran wrap. Fucking condoms don’t fit!
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I prefer condom sex, it lets me go for much longer time without pausing to delay the blast off! Sometimes though she can dry out.
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I used to cut the fingers off of those rubber gloves the doctors use. Since Covid pandemic I can’t find em anymore
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Cpndoms are uncomfortable. Many pinch at the base. Some of the lubricants are itchy. I'm thinking of going with the thinnest ones I can find and a cock ring
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You could buy a cheap pinky ring at a flea market. You'd save some money and it would probably fit better. Lol
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This is a serious thread. I know I can't be the only one with this problem
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I despise condoms. 2 beers and condom and I stay hard for hours and have a better chance of growing taller than I do coming. Rather get a hand job than fuck with a condom, unless I need blue balls.
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Use Trojan magnum thin. There is also an ultra thin. A good keeper girl puts the condom on me and then hj foreplay. Then I fuck her - if can’t get off she finishes me with hj. She will usually start the session with couple lappers or do some photo modeling. Then she will lay down for a back rub and me feeling her then to the bed for step 1 above.
As far as your prob imagine some fantasy about her like she is a housewife call girl and go from there.. CG is a good position for gal get u off with condoms. Quit worrying about performance and concentrate on the flight.
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So if it's pinching you may need to move up a size. Large condoms aren't that much bigger than regular but they are way more comfortable for me
Trojan has the grossest lube. I prefer lifestyles.
You can buy sampler packs online pretty cheap and you might find one you like.
Honestly if it goes down right away part of it is psychological.
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As JamesSD mentioned, try the larger size condoms - I don't need larger size condoms size-wise, but the ebony chicks I've been with seem they often just carry magnums and I've found them more comfortable/tolerable - I find it uncomfortable using a condom that feels like it's asphyxiating my dick even it fits (if you are already using a large size see if there is a size up from that).
But yeah - there is also a bit of a psychological aspect - at the very-least is having to stop the action when it's getting-hot-and-heavy in order to fumble around w/ the condom - plus there is the psychological effect for those that really dislike condoms and then having to have it on your dick and not be able to enjoy the sex the same (kinda a raining-on-your-parade feeling).
And some clubs/brands are just better than others - try to buy the best reviewed condoms vs the "best selling" - best selling often does not equal best product.
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I like trojan thin. Im assuming you are having this problem with women outside of a serious relationship? if so raising the bar on the types you see helps a lot. A girl who hits the gym and doesn't just lay there helps to keep my juices flowing. Then its not a problem of staying hard but moreso enjoying it.
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its like taking a shower with a raincoat on
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^ exactly - it can be done but it's not ideal
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Or getting a therapeutic full body massage with your clothes still on.
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"When I have such difficulties I just start reading past SJG posts and problem solved"
SJG's posts get your dick hard?
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Same issue. Probably a lot mental though. I try to get a BBBJ then put the condom on and hope for the best.
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Its definitely psychological. I'll be hard as soon as she touches my dick then get soft once the condom comes on. Its the way the condom feels and how the sensation is so dulled when I'm inside her.
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no slack. just put it on and there is no gap between cockhole and rubber. just make sure if you're fucking her pull out before cumming to splooge won't come out of the bag.
basically have to train to get that sensation using the rubber. it might take time.
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I tried the Trojan bareskins. They were a very tight fit. Would have used lube but she was very juicy
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Lately I’ve been doing without condoms, condoms are trash
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Its way better without condoms. It was my first time using them in years. I hate them
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Put the condom on AFTER you are fully erect. If the stripper can't get you hard before your pants come down, save your money.
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I have found it's more often the woman rather than the condom that the problem. I have dances from at four dancers who all used the exact same durex extra sensative condom. in a purplish wrapper. One couldn't get me hard no matter how hard she tried, and she tried hard, but had really no clue what she was doing. Another got me hard, but was in such a rush to get me off as quick as possible she ended up calling for extra cash after five songs and I quit.
The other two had no trouble, and one was my go to dancer for three years whenever I was in town, and was so consistent at getting me off that only once did she fail, and that was because I was all tapped out.
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"I have found it's more often the woman rather than the condom that the problem."
Yup. Or at least the vibe between the people involved. That's my take for one on one and combo situations. Once the vibe is thrown off it goes downhill fast.
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I will say that the only time recently (8 months ago) that I had a good experience with a condom was at an AMP with a very experienced provided. She was my best experience in the last many years. She took out a condom from the dresser. She then asked me if I had my own. I acknowledged and then gave it to her. She took it out of the wrapper and looked it over. Looked at me and asked if that was my only sized condom. I told her that I can’t find anything other than that which will work. She smiled. Then, she took the oil and dripped it inside the condom. She then proceeded to place it on my unit. After placing it on my unit, she oiled up the condom/unit combo and proceeded to literally fuck my brains out! The absolute best AMP experience I have ever had. They are now Closed ! FUCKING SUCKS!
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Doesn't oil make condoms break down?
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"Doesn't oil make condoms break down?"
Icey picks the worst times to become lucid. No wonder Nidan111 posted the most depressing thread of the day. He talks about getting the best provider nut in years and Icey treats it like a bowl of cheerios.
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I prefer cocoa pebbles.
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I would never go bareback with a "professional." I've been with strippers so good at what they do that I needed the condom to give me a few extra minutes, and ones so awful that I could've been bareback and hopped up on Viagra and still not stayed in the game. In my private life it has pretty much worked out the same, except I try to restrict my dating to "condom worthy" ladies.
My last trip to Detroit (in saner times) I was with a Columbian gal that was so good she could have sucked me off through 3 condoms while I was watching Rosie O'Donnell View highlights. If that is my last strip club trip (because people are idiots) then it was a worthy final VIP.
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Never had trouble getting or staying hard with a condom. They definitely do affect finishing though but honestly I am not going to finish inside a stripper. IfI can’t finish in the condom I’ll pull out and take it off. Unfortunately they are a necessary evil.
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Trojan Bare Skin are great.
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