Comments by Manuellabore (page 9)

^Cowpatti^ I think Boardroom is ranked around 22-23. I recently made a comment on another thread that seemed unduly high. Somewhere in the Top 40, maybe? I wouldn't be able to say

I like OP putting it right out there about scoping out what kind of LDs other guys are getting to select his dancer. Sound strategy And “best club in MA” is akin to the skinniest kid at Fat Camp

^Book^: Yeah, the "chase" at a SC is more like shooting pheasants at a game farm vs. in some farmer's field or public game lands. Only moderate skills required as opposed to the dating scene, and much better chances of bagging your quarry

I always locked down a specific time with my regulars before going into the club, specifically to make sure I wasn't cooling my heels when I got there while they were in VIP. No time for that. I'd usually try to time it for the start of their shift (this is afternoons) so as not to crimp their style with other custies, and also because the early in/out helped me to put myself back together and get back into the groove at the office for the rest of the day. Never once did I consider any nonsense about "sloppy seconds"

Been married almost 40 years. If I got divorced (recently took additional steps to avoid that) or widowed (widowered?) I'd probably remarry within two or three years. Fool around for a while and then settle on some "young" (40s or early 50s would be fine) thang who would get a hefty allowance and a big payoff upon my demise in return for spoon feeding me soup in my dotage and not letting me catch her fucking somebody else. Prenup would make sure the bulk of my assets went to the kids, just like Mom would want. I'm assuming OP's overly long TLDR screed listed all the things a single guy thinks you sacrifice in a marriage. And you do give up a lot. To each their own, but the tradeoff is worth it to me for the companionship and mutual support. Apart from the illicit pursuit of carnal pleasure and a secret cannabis habit, I've got my wife's back in every way, and I know she has mine. I don't think I've ever experienced romantic love in my longish life, but I can't think of anybody else I could stand to be with on a long road trip, except maybe one of my daughters (Just the one--not the other--I know from experience).

On a dollar per minute basis, plus the greater privacy, a 15 minute VIP seems like a better deal, even without extras, which would require a tip on top of sticker price, if available at all. You risk enduring 15 minutes with a dud, but not many of those at Desire, IME

Looking at some of the other numbers others provided, I put pen to paper (later destroying the paper), and calculated that, over the past three years, I have experienced FS with 55 different dancers in 24 TUSCL-listed clubs (or with dancers I met in the club and saw later at my hotel) in 12 states. PA in the lead at 12 dancers, followed by NJ and RI with 11 apiece. Had repeat FS encounters with 16 of those dancers, in some cases extensive repeat encounters, sometimes at different clubs.

Drove by that place yesterday evening on my way to Best Buy. The building is huge. I’m guessing the $3.5M asking is just for the building, sans the liquor license or the club business

Can see how this would seem … “odd”, to say the least, to somebody who was unacquainted with the SC scene and private dances. Sometimes, it’s better not to view things from the perspective of outsiders So is this discussion going to show up on Google as well?

AMPs are an economical alternative to escorts. You actually get a lot more hands on attention lavished on you than most escorts and they know how to get you tuned up for eventual FS. Seem less risk of a LE sting as well, although Robert Kraft may have thoughts on that. It still lacks the “thrill of the chase” and the social setting of the SC Biggest issue for me with AMPs is you have to turn a blind eye to the high potential of human trafficking

^Ski^ “One day at a time” is a mantra I’ve heard used in other contexts that I’m appropriating for this situation

My “six decades” of SC experience was comprised mostly of brief periods of activity interspersed with periods of 10 years or more of inactivity. Never had a lap dance until a run I had in 2006-2007 when I had a lot in a lot of different places. Never a hint about extras though After 2007, I next began hitting SCs again in early January 2020 and, for two months, I was doing VIPs with dancers who were pulling my dick out, giving me BJs, and offering to come to my hotel after the club closed, or offering to leave early if I paid the “fine” Picked up where I left off in June ‘21 and never looked back. But, yeah, it is a fuckton more expensive than sitting stateside doling out dollar bills, or even just doing conventional lap dances. One good/bad thing about getting older is the money isn’t as much of a constraint as it was when I was younger

Savannah’s has similarly limited contact, at least in the regular LD area. Harrisburg is a wasteland when it comes to mileage opportunities

I've got nothing useful to contribute. So here goes. I'll eat anything. I don't care. As long as it doesn't smell or taste foul and isn't too tough or chewy or overly spicy or otherwise painful to eat, I'll eat it. When I realized that "What's your favorite food" was a ice breaker strippers used a lot, I had to think up and memorize a "favorite food" Great meals for me hinge on 1. Companionship; and 2. Setting. Last great companionship meal was at a local diner with a super fun couple early afternoon a couple Saturdays ago. I had a chef's salad and a crappy IPA. Last great setting was the Saturday evening before Father's Day, at a huge restaurant complex on the waterfront in Center City Philadelphia. Lots of things going on to watch, on and off the water. I had a cheesesteak (very limited menu, but I don't care) and a somewhat better IPA.

Based on TOSU’s recently reported info, I retract my previous comment. Something definitely off with OP.

If you’re wealthy, you can eat a good diet, spend a lot of time at the gym/spa, and have some high end plastic surgery, but none of that will protect you from health challenges that can age the crap out of you

Skibum mentioned The Bad Seed, which is a good movie. Two odd things jumped out at me: 1. There’s a scene where a group of adults are in a living room discussing the situation over drinks, and each one tosses down 3-4 martinis in the space of five minutes; 2. At the end, each of the actors comes out and takes a little bow, like in a play. Never saw that in another movie I think the whole point was to dispel any impression that the actor who played the titular role was a monster IRL

TBH, the OP doesn’t come across as all that stalky to me (except maybe for the part about declaring that somebody he saw for a “couple visits” two years ago is his “atf”). Dude had a good time with a dancer a couple years ago and wants to know if she’s around. I see a lot of posts/comments on here about what name some dancer is using at which club these days. If she’s still dancing, odds are she would appreciate having a fan sent her way. Now, if he HAD her number and she wasn’t responding to his overtures, that would send up some warning flags

Top Anything lists based on subjective criteria are inherently arbitrary. I’ve been to less than half of the Top 40 clubs, but based on those on the list I’ve been to compared to other clubs I’ve been to that are not on the list, my take is that New England TUSCLers may be easy graders. I can see Desire in its rightful spot, but Boardroom Cabaret in the Top 10 and Foxy Lady in the Top 20? And I’ve never been to RI Dolls but I read the reviews and it doesn’t sound like the 22nd best Club. Maybe the high rankings Desire aficionados justifiably give that club have a bit of a halo effect when they stray over to and review these other nearby clubs

There was an interesting thread a while back about women who blossomed as they grow older and hot young women who decline unusually rapidly as they age, and the various factors that contribute to that, which are often out of the person’s control. Bridget isn’t really an outlier

"Did you mean “hope you don’t accidentally run into her bf and start the search all over”?" Yes. Sorry. Her age is a separate issue. Good thing about escorts is you can ghost her without consequences. Hopefully there's no trail for the man to follow to come after you

She has a BF, at the least. No clear evidence he is a pimp. Having a boyfriend wouldn't be inconsistent with her claim that she is "independent", but it sounds like you just even like the idea of another man benefitting off of the fruits of her labor. If it were me, I wouldn't have considered asking her about the guy, since it wouldn't be any of my business. This is obviously important to you, so I'd probably start searching for another escort who offers GFE and hope you accidentally run into her BF and have to start the search all over again.

Millennium Cabaret in Bedford NH has one. I wouldn't do it, and especially not there. I'm sure they keep it reasonably clean but it's not a place for extras

I would never spit on, at, or in a woman’s pussy. The whole point of the exercise is to make that “thang” get wet on its own.

I'm not really on the PAWG Patrol. I'd like to know the approximate number of dancers relative to patrons at the time and day of the visit, and then more general characteristics of the group: Racial/ethnic makeup, English proficiency, age, do they tend to be heavier/uglier, friendly/standoffish/hustlers. If there was a ROB experience, call her out by name. If somebody really wants to name a dancer they had a good experience with, without getting into specifics as to illegal acts, I'd be ok with it, but don't expect it. Odds are that specific dancers might not even be working on any particular visit, so I'm not planning a visit around a report that somebody had a good time with a particular dancer.