Sloppy seconds
You go into the club and see your ATF holding the hand of a PL and walking towards the VIP. You sit and sip on a drink, waiting to see if there is other girls that catch your eye. After declining multiple girls for your ATF, you see her get taken to the VIP right away without even talking to you. You wait patiently near the VIP entrance until its almost last call for dances then you see her come out with a massive brute with a smile on his face as he smacks her ass and kisses her in front of you. You ask her for a dance and she says ok I can do one last dance for the nights. You go to the back and then she starts to grind and you see handprints on her ass and a condom wrapper on the floor. She starts grinding and you start to suck her titties and they taste a bit salty. She then asks if you want a blowjob with cum on titties. What do you do in this situation?
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last commentWell, I’m not there for the conversation.
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Dunno, never been in it. Since you seem so familiar with this kind of self-sabotage, why don't you tell us what it feels like to simp for teenagers in their underwear instead of growing some balls?
Oh BTW, pics and vids or it didn't happen.
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Ummm I take the blowjob….what’s the point ur trying to make ?
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Uh-oh, someone sounds like they're falling... falling.... in love?
Wakey, wakey, just get your blowie and get the hell out, seriously haha.
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Visit at the start of her shift - leave - don't look back
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Again with these goofy accounts started a month ago with no history talking about frank about extras
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I mean his username screams computer generated
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^^ He joined and spent the last month thinking about what to write. This is what he came up with. Lol
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That's a weirdly specific hypothetical...
Anyway, if you walk into a strip club without a clear-eyed knowledge of the complete lack of exclusivity, then don't go to strip clubs. Look for a mistress or sugar baby who will provide greater exclusivity (or at least the illusion of it).
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Your ATF is fucking and sucking other guys. If you don't like that, get a faithful girlfriend and get over it.
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^ Ha ha - true - but I don’t want to see (used condom) or especially taste (glazed titties) what went before me. Pass.
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^and even that may not be the way to go. more than 50% of the time they will become unfaithful.
just don't think about sloppy seconds, or hell even sloppy tenths or twentieths. just enjoy whatever she does to you, get off and drive home and then get a real good nights sleep.
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Well, for one thing, I wouldn't have sucked her tits after seeing a condom on the floor and a PL with a bit smile. I would have taken the blow job, though.
Oh, and she wouldn't be my ATF if I knew she was fucking every dick who took her back. A favorite, yes, but not my All Time Favorite.
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I don't do sloppy seconds. PERIOD.
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^ We all do, sometimes we just don't know it.
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Jeez when you go to McDonalds do you demand they change the oil before you order fries?
It's often helpful to ask for advice. But this is a case where it isn't. It's totally about whether it's worth it to you. If somebody in Detroit or South Florida says it's not worth it, consider that they may frequent a club where the dancers have to compete harder for customers.
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LOL ilbbaicnl. Old oil isn't semen but great analogy.
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"you see her get taken to the VIP"
^ At that point I move on. If I see a girl go to a room with someone else at an extras club, she's off my list for the day. I certainly do not "wait patiently near the VIP entrance until its almost last call" If I don't find another dancer that interests me, I hit another club or go home.
Realistically, it would have stopped long before then. A dancer who did that wouldn't be my current favorite much less all time. Before she even became my current favorite, we'd have exchanged numbers. We'd have made plans to meet up at the club, and we'd have kept them. I don't need to be under the illusion that I'm in an exclusive relationship with my stripper, but what you're describing is beyond sloppy seconds. It's last in line at a gangbang. Seriously, your talking about the girl having handmarks on her ass and having tasted another mans jizz on her tits. That's way beyond what I can just ignore.
More concerning is the bit about waiting near the VIP entrance. That's borderline obsessive. That's a serious problem. Get that shit under control before you get real possessive and say something to the "massive brute" who beats the shit out of you. Or before you go full stalker and "wait patiently" in the parking lot and her boyfriend or the cops have to resolve the situation.
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"when you go to McDonalds do you demand they change the oil before you order fries?"
^ No, but I wouldn't eat the leftover fries from some random table. A more apt analogy would be using the plates at a restaurant, I wouldn't simply re-use ones from another table knowing that they had simply had the visible food brushed off before being put back in to service. But I'm not overly concerned about the number of previous uses they'd had, presuming they'd been properly washed.
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Zero interest in what a dancer does before or after I am with her. This is her job and my entertainment, not a relationship. If you're squeamish and don't think you've ever done sloppy fifths, you're delusional.
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to the ones that are really concerned about slops, why not just find out the atf's schedule and be her supposed first for the night? why supposed? could still be slop after her bf raw dogs her before she shows up at the club.
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I'm not worried about what a dancer does before me. I do care whether she takes the time to freshen up between VIPs.
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Picking an ATF dependent on how many guys she is or isnt with doesnt make sense. That means you’re looking for possessiveness and loyalty from a girl… who doesnt owe it to you.
Too many guys nowadays are weakened, jealous, possessive, sensitive, etc. Its not a proper, or normal mentality to have. Why would you pick a strip club or an escort of all people and hope to find loyalty and possessiveness? Ive seen guys get jealous when someone else dances with a dancer they’re into. Its sad.
You are right though that i definitely wouldnt want to be licking some other mans cum off a girl, or some other mans saliva. If im seeing an escort or someone OTC, I understand and appreciate they have other clients, and im happy for them that they’re getting money. I hope and assume that they are freshening up between clients.
What you described though is one of the issues with ITC extras. Those girls arent going to be showering or cleaning each time they give a guy extras. At best theyll rinse their hands maybe wipe down some areas and maybe use mouthwash. I doubt anyone is showering between clients in the club. It would look suspicious to management/other girls too.
If a girl ITC offers these BJs finishing on the tits, I definitely wouldnt want to suck on her boobs. And I would be hesitant getting the BJ too. Id rather arrange OTC where she could be fresher.
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If she has a boyfriend or pimp husband I wouldn’t see her either. I would think they use protection with clients but with a bf/pimp dont use protection. So if youre eating her out you run the risk of eating a mans juices.
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What ski bum said
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Not only is she your ATF she is alot of people's ATF. Take it as a compliment. As my college coach always said... If she is fucking you then she is fucking someone else too... Now let's go out there and kick the ass of the other guy that is fucking your so called girlfriend.
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I always locked down a specific time with my regulars before going into the club, specifically to make sure I wasn't cooling my heels when I got there while they were in VIP. No time for that. I'd usually try to time it for the start of their shift (this is afternoons) so as not to crimp their style with other custies, and also because the early in/out helped me to put myself back together and get back into the groove at the office for the rest of the day. Never once did I consider any nonsense about "sloppy seconds"
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@goldeneagles9
"If she is fucking you then she is fucking someone else too... "
Damn, I sense mind-numbingly arcane wisdom but I can't quite figure out whether I reject or accept it ...
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If it's not someone I know who went first, then it depends on if she freshened up and how much residual there is. If it's someone I know then if I'm just sampling her for dances I don't really care unless he called dibs and she's off limits. When it's a girl I'm wanting for sexy time I don't go after people I'm friends with and will tell a friend if I left something behind...
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lol probably not even second. Maybe 22nd.
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Her titties taste a little bit salty - no problem she probably did some girl-on-girl tequila body shots earlier.
And we all should know that clubs don't do the greatest job keeping everything neat and tidy. That condom wrapper was likely from the day before and missed by whoever did the cleaning.
Finally, those handprints on her ass are nothing more than the latest fashion statement. When skillfully applied, they are difficult to tell from real handprints.
So there is nothing to do but enjoy your ATF!
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it's my turn.
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I usually like when I take my girl to the VIP after she done a bunch of VIPs. She tells me all the dirty details while jerking me off and tells me how much of a loser I am
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After my ATF left the club for the day, I was approached by another decent looking dancer that I knew. She said "I don't mind seconds".
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We all have our lives in the sand. I don't do FS ITC. As long as she has rinsed her mouth out in between I am not offended by the idea of her giving head to someone before me.
My ATF practices good hygiene. Some girls don't. Be careful out there.
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Where are you finding these ATF dancers who are willing to be exclusive with 50, 60, even 70+ year old men
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