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4 years ago
End of an Era.. and Glory days.Kinda crazy to lose Gold Club, given all the old stories I always hear about it, plus the unique location. Also the place I got my first lap dance...
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5 years ago
Talking dirty with dancers (explicit sweet sex talk)Talking dirty, for me, is usually a sign that I'm really enjoying myself and my visit, and overcoming my initial shyness, and if it goes well really well and a dancer talks it back to me, that makes me really happy. A few girls say way dirtier shit than I do, but that's fun, too.
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5 years ago
That moment when asian dancers make false claims about you.....lol...dumbasses..>> I think I have a couple of guesses now of why your wife left you
Cause she kept losing the competition?
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5 years ago
Photo SectonNice choices.
I love Kira Kener. When I was a teenager my friend had some 2nd hand video tape of part of a Playboy TV segment called Adult Stars Close Up where she stripped and talked about a very dirty fantasy of being a bartender and getting gang banged on a bar.
It was my favorite thing but for decades I didn't know her name or where to find out more. A couple yrs ago I got lucky and found it in it's entirety on some random site.
Old school porn stars had some qualities current girls are missing, maybe an innocent attitude about the dirty stuff they did, tho I enjoy both eras.
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5 years ago
What’s up with the butt plugs?Wow I've never seen that but Jacksonville is perpetually 15 to 20 years behind the times 😋.
It's certainly daring.
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5 years ago
Buddy Bachelor PartyMackTruck, can you hook me up with a directory for lot lizards in Omaha? Preferably rated by amount of teeth and quality of craic.
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5 years ago
⚽️ Alright you can bang Alex Morgan or Megan RapinoeHow about if I take 10% and watch them bang each other? Also, 70 minutes in Rapinoe can go out and sub in Carli Lloyd to finish things off with her veteran poise.
(Actually I would wanna watch Morgan w/ Tobin Heath, they have that dom/sub vibe together.)
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5 years ago
'Europe's biggest sex festival' hits England, aerial photos showIf that photo covers the whole thing, that's a pretty small "world's biggest" festival.
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5 years ago
Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
OT: Summer Weather ?The weeks where it hasn't rained here have been crazy hot. Fortunately this week we've gotten some cloud cover, even if it made for a somewhat drab 4th of July. It spared us from the killer heat/humidity combo that makes everyone feel ill.
I worry about the storms now, too, every year. My area is usually a pretty safe one, but like 25 said, it only takes one. A lot of my family lives close to the ocean and a hurricane that devastated the area would be brutal for us (and a lot of other people, of course).
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5 years ago
Nothing To See Here FolksPapi - Lol.
Laplurker - Most the VIP dances are topless, it's one of those "negotiate it with the girl" deals. Pretty much the same as any bikini bar, but non-nude doesn't 100% equal low mileage IME.
doc - Good review, checks out with my experiences. OC is a high risk for being dead, and doubly so during day shift, tho there's a lot of clubs in Jax that carry that risk. OTOH, I've had great times there when I do find a girl or 3 that I like. But on day shift, like you said, you can wait awhile for a girl (if you have the time and inclination to wait) or end up talking to the bartender/staff.
There's a sign outside the VIP saying all dances are $25, supposedly that was management punishing girls for overcharging by reducing the price. Most girls will charge $35 or negotiate in that direction.
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5 years ago
Buddy Bachelor PartyDepends, how friendly would you say these girls are, and how would you rate their craic on a scale from Bad to Good to Aye Lassie That's The Stuff?
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5 years ago
How often do you enjoy DEEP FRENCH KISSING with strippers?ONCE in a WHILE.
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5 years ago
Customer psychologyLol. Shit.
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5 years ago
Customer psychologyI feel like dancers & costumers are constantly confused by each others behavior and choices, myself included.
But a lot of it probably comes down to we all react to what we notice... doing something that stands out might get u more noticed than doing something right or playing it cool.
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5 years ago
Who the fucks makes out in a public pool when Sun is still out and ppl still herWho the fuck makes out in a public pool then gets all pissed off when I ask to join in??!!? 😉
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5 years ago
Gum shewing strippers.Gumshoe-ing Strippers was my favorite Cinemax detective show. =-P
I only like it when she chews gum right before we go to the back because that means she's gonna make out with me.
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5 years ago
How do you communicate wanting a specific extra while avoiding LEO?Rick - I was gonna say the same thing. Unless the raid is to go after customers (which I've heard of for escorts but not in SCs), the dudes are usually just asked to leave.
CJKent - Are you saying the OP should shoot the suspected LEO, just to be safe? ;-)
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5 years ago
IceyI put your ATF on a winning team
13 Desperate Men Explain Why They Go To Strip ClubsSome of these answers are pretty good:
"If my girlfriend and her friends would get naked and jack me off for $600, I would pay them to do it."
"Another justification is just that almost all rich people do this. You can take the most tween liberal celebrity or the most conservative pro-family politician and they all fucking engage in it."
I'm not saying there's no stigma attached to SC-ing, or that I talk about it to everyone I know. Part of the fun is doing something semi-secret or that I'm not supposed to. But I don't really feel any guilt about being perv-y, and if I have a good night there's no regrets about spending my money. If you asked me what my ideal way to spend a night would be, groping a variety of pleasant, good looking women and having them act cool about it would be top 5.
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5 years ago
Hwo do you distribute your P4P spend?Haha alright, it was meant to be a dialogue, so the 2nd and 4th were the stripper's responses. The joke being that Honey and Sweetie are the kind of names strippers use.
You're probably right that some us work too hard at this shit. OTOH, thinking too much about yr hobby is sometimes the fun part. Keeps me from thinking about work. But that's why I read this board, I can always learn from others w/ more experience than me.
I wonder how many strippers keep notes on their custies, like Sasha Grey in The Girlfriend Experience movie. Some girls remember a lot of details from our pre-dance conversations. (Actually, keeping spreadsheets on what they make is probably good business...waiters I know have an app to keep track of their tips over time.)
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5 years ago
Hwo do you distribute your P4P spend?===> "That's what generic terms like 'honey" or "sweetie" are for."
"Hey Honey, good to see you again."
"No, Honey's back in VIP."
"Oh... sorry, Sweetie."
"Ugh. Sweetie's on stage!"
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5 years ago
The number game^ made me lol.
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5 years ago
The number gameThe first few times dancers gave me their number, I had the same kinda reaction in my mind like "Oh, she probably thinks I'm such a mark etc. etc." when I'm fine with just coming back to the club to see her (I didn't say anything like that tho, and girls would usually add something like "It's a real number!" or "Seriously, you can text me, I'll text back.")
But now I realize how many girls build up to OTC or at least cultivate some kind of relationship with regular customers. I think if you plan to be a regular, getting the number is a good thing. Like everybody said, if you don't want to use it, just don't use it. I've ignored a fair amount of texts and calls when I wasn't going to clubs for a minute, and the girl was no less happy to hear from me/get my $$$ when I came back.
Then again, I don't have anyone looking at my phone going "Why are 5 of your last 10 texts to random women and say things like What's a Good Hotel in the Area?"
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5 years ago
Hotspank Dating ServicesThere's a lot of phone numbers like this available since the pre-internet phone sex boom died out.
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5 years ago
whodeyFat bastard that can afford to fuck hot strippers
New drug to boost women's sex drive approved in USI'm concerned that a drug like this could potentially cause Nicole to think about sex 3 times a day!
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5 years ago
Hwo do you distribute your P4P spend?Keeping a record helps keep me from calling girls by the wrong name. ;-)