Talking dirty with dancers (explicit sweet sex talk)
rogertex
Texas
A lot of guys are not comfortable talking explicit sex talk with women. Call it dirty talk. Guys will talk about sports, weather, traffic, fashion and everything - and abruptly kiss the girl and get down to it.
I am one of 'em. Quite a few women are the same way.
I started explicitly talking my sex fantasies with dancers.
Quite different results - and much to my liking.
First I started talking dirty with a dancer that approached me and I had only a lukewarm interest. Figuring, that would gross her out or creep her out and she would just leave.
First one I described, how our sex escapade would happen - and how I'd give her a choice of warm chocolate or strawberry syrup and would apply on her pussy and proceed with licking it.
Well, the first wave of dancers took it well.
Then I started talking dirty with my type of dancers.
Even more explicit.
I'd say 50% are "whatever, it's your money and time - use it as you may"
10% do not encourage it. (one in ten)
40% are aroused or like it to varying degrees and add their own script.
So 90% are ok to like-it.
Nobody has left in disgust.
Keep in mind - above is for dancers I'm meeting first time (or 2nd time tops).
Regular dancers love it.
I enjoy sex talk with women - settings, positions and actual fucking details.
It magnifies sexual experience for me and results in monstrous climaxes.
Dancers are skilled & comfortable in this area - is my experience.
Do you like flirting, sex talk, foreplay prior to physical sex?
If so,
Are you comfortable initiating with civilian women you meet first or second time?
Do you talk dirty with dancers you are meeting first time?
I am one of 'em. Quite a few women are the same way.
I started explicitly talking my sex fantasies with dancers.
Quite different results - and much to my liking.
First I started talking dirty with a dancer that approached me and I had only a lukewarm interest. Figuring, that would gross her out or creep her out and she would just leave.
First one I described, how our sex escapade would happen - and how I'd give her a choice of warm chocolate or strawberry syrup and would apply on her pussy and proceed with licking it.
Well, the first wave of dancers took it well.
Then I started talking dirty with my type of dancers.
Even more explicit.
I'd say 50% are "whatever, it's your money and time - use it as you may"
10% do not encourage it. (one in ten)
40% are aroused or like it to varying degrees and add their own script.
So 90% are ok to like-it.
Nobody has left in disgust.
Keep in mind - above is for dancers I'm meeting first time (or 2nd time tops).
Regular dancers love it.
I enjoy sex talk with women - settings, positions and actual fucking details.
It magnifies sexual experience for me and results in monstrous climaxes.
Dancers are skilled & comfortable in this area - is my experience.
Do you like flirting, sex talk, foreplay prior to physical sex?
If so,
Are you comfortable initiating with civilian women you meet first or second time?
Do you talk dirty with dancers you are meeting first time?
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yeah Muddy - dancer goes "... here comes that creep with warm chocolate"
I have to work my way to it.
Nobody's asked me my favorite sex position right away.
.... dancers are trying to set the mood and all, with flirting etc - but never has a dancer asked about my favorite sex position during first meeting. I'd go bananas.
Me, “depends on the person I’m with.”
Dancer, “hmm, like how or what do you mean?”
Me, “ well, let’s go back at see if you and I can figure this puzzle out!”
Dancer, “oh, shit!”
Me, “careful what you ask for!”
But really only good for when all you can do is talk, like on the telephone, or at our local no touching clubs.
It can really go over well, have a big effect. But some girls will bolt.
SJG
SJG
Telephone is good for talking about what you want to see her wear, but you cannot do that f2f.
Never substitute talk for doing.
SJG
northwest101215 - Nice
SJG - "Never substitute talk for doing"
Got it Master - I did not know that.
skibum - she was just fantasizing - or maybe not.
others - I've not had many dancers start the dirty talk - but would enjoy it as well. But when I initiate - seen many accept it and play long as part of their job description (entertainer) - and some enjoy it.
Telephone and our local no touching clubs.
SJG
If there is any dirty talk it's usually stupid stuff like
Dancer: Someones enjoying himself.
Me: Oh, what makes you say that?
Dancer: Oh, I don't know, I kind of just have a feeling, a very big feeling.
Me: I bet you do.
Its definitely a more aggressive approach but i prefer not wasting time-money on a dud...
Gas....
Oil...
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Dirt.....
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i’m takin notes....