A lot of guys are not comfortable talking explicit sex talk with women. Call it dirty talk. Guys will talk about sports, weather, traffic, fashion and everything - and abruptly kiss the girl and get down to it.
I am one of 'em. Quite a few women are the same way.
I started explicitly talking my sex fantasies with dancers. Quite different results - and much to my liking.
First I started talking dirty with a dancer that approached me and I had only a lukewarm interest. Figuring, that would gross her out or creep her out and she would just leave. First one I described, how our sex escapade would happen - and how I'd give her a choice of warm chocolate or strawberry syrup and would apply on her pussy and proceed with licking it.
Well, the first wave of dancers took it well. Then I started talking dirty with my type of dancers. Even more explicit. I'd say 50% are "whatever, it's your money and time - use it as you may" 10% do not encourage it. (one in ten) 40% are aroused or like it to varying degrees and add their own script. So 90% are ok to like-it. Nobody has left in disgust.
Keep in mind - above is for dancers I'm meeting first time (or 2nd time tops). Regular dancers love it.
I enjoy sex talk with women - settings, positions and actual fucking details. It magnifies sexual experience for me and results in monstrous climaxes. Dancers are skilled & comfortable in this area - is my experience.
Do you like flirting, sex talk, foreplay prior to physical sex? If so, Are you comfortable initiating with civilian women you meet first or second time? Do you talk dirty with dancers you are meeting first time?


In find that many dancers start talking dirty to me. A common question is “what is your favorite sex position?” It’s just part of the hustle.