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6 years ago
@blahblahblah23 - From what I can gather of your personality on here you have always seemed "delightfully bitchy". Like I am guessing you are one of those people it would be fun to hear complain or rant about something. But I am the kind of person who loves to go on rants, so yeah.
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6 years ago
From reading your actual review I would guess that you probably aren't the most easygoing customer to deal with. I am guessing Waffle also picked up on that.
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6 years ago
I am having trouble understanding your post. Is your ATF being a dick or is Waffle being a dick? What does "poor service and upcharge magically" mean?
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6 years ago
Kpop
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6 years ago
Yes she is also a ROB. Her ROB exploits (and DO NOT take this as me defending her) are motivated to hurt those she deems morally bankrupt versus a traditional say Cuban ROB who targets people who are weak and offer the highest likely hood of financial gain. I tend to think that a lot of ROBs are probably that way. They are OK with stealing from people they hate.
With me she (with one exception) has always under counted songs and been super generous. That said I am not an idiot and just because a lion purrs and lets you pet it doesn't mean it isn't capable of incredible violence. I know what she is capable of. In fact I think her being open about her being a ROB has been really good to help me not idealize or fall in love with her.
So super unique dancer. I have been working on an article about her but it will be ages before I ever publish it.
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6 years ago
My ATF sort of fits that description, she does zero SS. But it's not really a good thing. Yes you get honesty but that also includes the fact that she is terrible at pretending to like you or hiding it when she isn't interested in what you have to say. Because of this she can't keep regulars very long. She tends to get really intense regulars who latch on super hard and then get into massive fights/arguments with her after a short term. I am the only regular she has ever successfully kept long term, I figured her out pretty quick and then had to be really careful at first around her. The relationship is way more like a vanilla friendship including a few fights.
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6 years ago
No offence intended to lapdanceking82 but I am not a fan of the LDK acronym. I think lapgasm is a much better name as it's meaning is obvious to everyone not just the hardcore PLs who frequent this forum.
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6 years ago
I think a lot depends on what you are looking for. How much fantasy do you want? Over time the SS fades with a lot of dancers. You get more of their real personality and less #stripperfilter. It should be noted that though most guys say they want this a lot of the time they really don't.
For me I love the friends with benefits thing but it takes time to develop. I like having a deeper long term relationship with someone. But I love having someone who continually keeps trying to work and improve to give me the best selfish sexual experience possible.
The downside for what I am looking for is that you may not get that from every dancer. You don't know up front what depth a relationship will ultimately get to. And some dancers have a "routine" that they stick to instead of learning to give me specifically what I like.
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6 years ago
I think you are trying to transition the relationship too fast. Or at least faster than what that dancer is expecting. Given how rigid your expectations are the likely hood of this crashing and bombing are high.
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6 years ago
Wow, I have had our resident creep on ignore for a while so I would have missed this gem of a post if it wasn't for you guys pointing it out. Super enlightening...
@DC9428 - Read the second paragraph in SjCreeps post. Lots of PLs have gained experience in the SC or with P4P. SjCreep has turned his failed marriage and success with women in P4P into a weird unibomber manifesto.
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6 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
@nicespice - of customers that start texting you what percentage:
A) text as if they want to date you
B) text as if they want to be friends with you
C) stick to business only (making appointments)
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6 years ago
He post the same few lines over and over.
He refuses to acknowledge other people have different ideas about what's fun or understand that other people have wildly different sexual kinks than him.
He is totally unwilling to debate any of his positions.
He seems to have some genuine degree of mental delusions.
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6 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
@nicespice
- How often are you asked for your number? How often do you give it out? Criteria for giving it?
- How many customers are you actively texting with in a given day? Week?
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6 years ago
I feel the same way chess master. I generally never want to talk that long anyway especially on a first meeting so if she goes to wanna dance quickly it's usually a bad sign.
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6 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
I am very surprised you are 5'0" are your heels especially tall?
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6 years ago
@lilballer - if he wants to be a recruiter you should get him to send some examples of the kind of dope beats he would be looking for.
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6 years ago
I offered early on to my ATF that I can tip you more or buy you a drink. Since then most of the time she buys her own drinks and food.
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6 years ago
Did SJG submit a recording of a dope beat?
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6 years ago
Pass
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6 years ago
Pass on all
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6 years ago
@sirLDA - I think she was legit a little mentally retarded, and also had a speech impediment so that made it worse. So that plus being on the young side and acting like a giggling sex doll. So that whole package.
@rickdugan - So my ATF is a total ROB, like goes to guys hotel for OTC with no intention of doing anything other than taking the money (at some point I'll type up an article about deep insight into the mind of a ROB and why she's my ATF). However it is a weird thought to think that she would/could never ROB either you or myself but for massively different reasons.
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6 years ago
@rickdugan - I have way less of a bleeding heart than what you are obviously thinking. I like interesting intellectual discussions. And from decades of experience on other forums I know the most interesting forum threads need some controversy. Sorry if you don't like this thread but I think it has been super successful. You have personally brought up 2 points which I would have never thought of before:
1. The idea that "empowered" strippers and "giggling sex dolls" are opposite sides of the same coin is pretty brilliant and I can see a lot of truth to that.
2. The idea that an "empowered" stripper is a signal that they will give worse experience. I can see that being true in many parts of the country. However where I live the mileage I want is readily available. I do think there is further truth that you have to deal with "empowered" strippers differently. I am sort of the "angry lesbian stripper whisperer".
One thing that continually surprises me on this forum is anytime I don't like something (in this case "giggling sex dolls") someone else loves that shit.
@nicespice - Thanks for backing me up #teamcocktailsauce
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6 years ago
@rickdugan - So do you like the "living giggling sex doll" type strippers?
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6 years ago
@nicespice - You basically came on a strip club customer site and basically "won" the forum way more than any other dancer before and probably after. So it's no surprise you aren't bothered by a little objectification.